I have been on this site for about 6 months. I have actually made 3 good friends from the forums. As for dating...it still hurts. I did meet a nice guy, but for no reason that was my fault he went to someone else. She was 17 years younger. It is hard enough to do online dating without something like that. I would like to hear about positive experiences please.

yes, love happens.
Not to me, but I hear it does happen...

Well, there was this one girl...oh, positive? I've met quite a few friends, yep, that is it for the positive.

There's a " Success Stories " thread around this joint somewhere.

It happens.

friends are positive
refining your skills as a single person is positive
Mr Right ...... would be priceless

the serious of changes in events leading up to the finding of your Mr Right is unknown , just try to remain positive and confide in your new friends for support

ALL positive really , just depends on how you look at it

Oh I am feeling so encouraged. I really hope that someone has found someone.

I would not trade the friends I have made for this experience no matter how bad it is for anything.

I've met some people as friends and I've met some people as dates...
I'm still single, but don't regret a second of having interacted and met some great people.

Keep the faith!

Yes, it happens...but, it's also easier to win the lottery...which happens to some as well.

AAAuhhhh, I went on a date with a young ladie about 3 months ago. Very nice, sweet, understanding, and an excellent listener. WE had a couple drinks to take the edge off. Then, we just went for a walk down town and sight saw. We stopping on a Bus stop bench and just sat talked and shared life experiences and became mutually close. Then, after a couple hours of great eye contact and sharing went to see a movie. At the end of the date we hugged each other tight. Since then we saw each other 2 more times and I went to her apartment and I fixed her SUV for her. She invited me up to her apartment and we had shared some Calzones and talked and shared more about past experiences and how things were going. Time past and for a couple of weeks we talked to each other everyday. And it became less and less...I do miss her somewhat but we both have a lot of baggage and I think she just decided it would to far fetched to have a long lasting relationship. I can say it was a great date and she is a good woman I truly wish her the best..I hope you enjoy this....this site has been great to me and has helped to grow.....and I hope it does the same for eveyone else..

I wanted to take a chance to say.
The birds were flying oh so high in that very blue sky.
I seen love it was floating in the wind, while love was
soaring though the clouds, I tried to reach into the sky
to catch some love for my heart. But the love slipped
through my fingers. This made my heart full of sorrow the
suffering only lasted to the point of when the Question
was asked. How high should a person go to find that
interrelate place in our hearts and our souls ?

Will we find that mutual relationship called Love ?
The higher we reach the more inspiration we receive.
So when we catch this wonderful thing called love we can
sore oh so high with the love in our souls."

I hope that you enjoy my words from my
Heart And Soul.

<---- met my bf on here. We had some wonderful and even blissful times that I wouldn't trade for anything in the world. Sadly tho, we broke up. But in the end... it was worth it.

positive experience -- some postings are beautifully written..it is those postings that i cut/paste and save....i emailed one posting to a few friends, one of them was going to engage in something that was high risk...he chose not to after reading the post, his associates are in serious trouble, he isn't

roko

give it another 6 months, maybe you'll have better luck.

idk about the pos **** but neg always

None for me so far... but I am not in a hurry and never will. I take it as it comes... I am picky that is my problem.. too picky and would rather want to become celibate than pursue but then again. I am devoting my time with my children over all... in other words, I am sacrificing my being... oh well... blah...blah blah...

Sure LOVE happens, just not my time yet. but I am a very patient man.
I have met a lot of beautiful Ladies here that I'm pretty sure a fire could easily start. problem is.. if you read my profile.. I will not go into an LDR.
I have to find someone near by because I want a normal dating relationship..
You can't just call up someone 100+ miles away and say...*Lets go out for dinner tonight** or so on.


But, I do realize what I have to offer the right lady.
She will come along when the time is right!!!!!

Dam distance

oops!double posted