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Gas station My father! started at this job, became the owner of his carpenter business!
who married a Waitress who later became a clock retailer at swap meets and still dose this at 72yrs old... LOL O but i have a step father who was a Minister, who became a minister, who fell in love with my mother who became a clock retailer at a swap meet and they only work one day a week.. now that is a job! lol So what profession is your Mother and or Father... when they got Married that should tell a story to what you are asking! everyone... confess.....???? |
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You can't think in terms of "out of your league" You would basing things on judgements you have formed about a person that may be completely off! In other words-"Don't judge a book by it's cover" I guess thats true, but Really pretty women usually have really good looking men talk to them, thus guys like me are always sitting there looking. |
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You can't think in terms of "out of your league" You would basing things on judgements you have formed about a person that may be completely off! In other words-"Don't judge a book by it's cover" I guess thats true, but Really pretty women usually have really good looking men talk to them, thus guys like me are always sitting there looking. hmmm you'd have to ask the really pretty women if that's really true and who's to say who's pretty and who's good looking Griff...beauty is in the eye of the beholder! (wow I'm quoting alot tonight!  )
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I think what's important is respect, not station. You can respect some one for many reasons....paycheck, career, ideals, community involvement, etc., etc. As far as physical looks go, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
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Well to be honest I see A LOT of beauty here on Mingle, Especially to those I have in my friends list.
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You can't think in terms of "out of your league" You would basing things on judgements you have formed about a person that may be completely off! In other words-"Don't judge a book by it's cover" I guess thats true, but Really pretty women usually have really good looking men talk to them, thus guys like me are always sitting there looking. I remember, in high school, all guys thought the prettist girls in school were already asked to the prom, so they never asked. Sometimes the prettiest girls sat home on prom night! Don't look! Ask!  
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there is no league.........we are no more valuable than the ants or amoebas. we all should have equal rights to life. pompous human arrogance puts status and value on things, and only because there is nothing on land in protected areas that are at this time, higher on the food chain......nobody's better or worse...just different. if one thinks not...then one is judging another.....who says what talents they have? the most monetary deprived are some of the richest people on earth! does one hold rich and famous people in high esteem? why? because they can afford a rolls royce? does one look up to these people? i look straight at them! if anything, i would like their knowledge of experience, possible friendship, and maybe their wisdom...i also have plenty to give in return to anyone who asks....i will give others respect for accomplishments if they help out their fellow man to the best of their ability, and if they are not doing that, then they really are not doing their moral job....something that all of us must do! nobody's excluded from this, period!!! that IS our real job on this planet..... NOT...who has the most toys when they die, wins. they lose.................they missed the point of life school.... i almost forgot.....chemistry, and compatibility are what really matters, not status. if you're happy, that is another factor.... Beyond words have been spoken today, YOU win the Mingle2 "Best Human award"! Along with melodygirl for "first place" in best Pose for a Picture! Wisdom spoken very well! The richest person I new was the saddest person who died! Opps that was my Father! He worked so hard to have it all had two wife's take it all, in the end he gave his best to only die homeless on the streets in West L.A. (love you daddy)! |
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there is no league.........we are no more valuable than the ants or amoebas. we all should have equal rights to life. pompous human arrogance puts status and value on things, and only because there is nothing on land in protected areas that are at this time, higher on the food chain......nobody's better or worse...just different. if one thinks not...then one is judging another.....who says what talents they have? the most monetary deprived are some of the richest people on earth! does one hold rich and famous people in high esteem? why? because they can afford a rolls royce? does one look up to these people? i look straight at them! if anything, i would like their knowledge of experience, possible friendship, and maybe their wisdom...i also have plenty to give in return to anyone who asks....i will give others respect for accomplishments if they help out their fellow man to the best of their ability, and if they are not doing that, then they really are not doing their moral job....something that all of us must do! nobody's excluded from this, period!!! that IS our real job on this planet..... NOT...who has the most toys when they die, wins. they lose.................they missed the point of life school.... i almost forgot.....chemistry, and compatibility are what really matters, not status. if you're happy, that is another factor.... Beyond words have been spoken today, YOU win the Mingle2 "Best Human award"! Along with melodygirl for "first place" in best Pose for a Picture! Wisdom spoken very well! The richest person I new was the saddest person who died! Opps that was my Father! He worked so hard to have it all had two wife's take it all, in the end he gave his best to only die homeless on the streets in West L.A. (love you daddy)! 
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I don't play league games.
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Personally I feel like men out of my league are some that I believe could do better than me, mostly looks wise, because I have very low self esteem. Regarding intelligence/integrity, it would not be a problem for me because I feel I have enough to offer in those areas. you are beautiful  Thank you very much.  I'm sorry, I'm not "fishing" for a compliment. I will probably always struggle with it. didn't think you were fishin.. just wanted to say it I'm not gay, just so ya know.. YOU don't have to be a lesbian to give a women a complement! |
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there is no league.........we are no more valuable than the ants or amoebas. we all should have equal rights to life. pompous human arrogance puts status and value on things, and only because there is nothing on land in protected areas that are at this time, higher on the food chain......nobody's better or worse...just different. if one thinks not...then one is judging another.....who says what talents they have? the most monetary deprived are some of the richest people on earth! does one hold rich and famous people in high esteem? why? because they can afford a rolls royce? does one look up to these people? i look straight at them! if anything, i would like their knowledge of experience, possible friendship, and maybe their wisdom...i also have plenty to give in return to anyone who asks....i will give others respect for accomplishments if they help out their fellow man to the best of their ability, and if they are not doing that, then they really are not doing their moral job....something that all of us must do! nobody's excluded from this, period!!! that IS our real job on this planet..... NOT...who has the most toys when they die, wins. they lose.................they missed the point of lifeschool.... i almost forgot.....chemistry, and compatability are what really matters, not status. if you're happy, that is another factor.... 
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Personally I feel like men out of my league are some that I believe could do better than me, mostly looks wise, because I have very low self esteem. Regarding intelligence/integrity, it would not be a problem for me because I feel I have enough to offer in those areas. you are beautiful Thank you very much. I'm sorry, I'm not "fishing" for a compliment. I will probably always struggle with it. didn't think you were fishin.. just wanted to say it I'm not gay, just so ya know.. YOU don't have to be a lesbian to give a women a complement! WAIT-A-MINUTE,,,,,,I might be????????????lol wink |
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Personally I feel like men out of my league are some that I believe could do better than me, mostly looks wise, because I have very low self esteem. Regarding intelligence/integrity, it would not be a problem for me because I feel I have enough to offer in those areas. you are beautiful Thank you very much. I'm sorry, I'm not "fishing" for a compliment. I will probably always struggle with it. didn't think you were fishin.. just wanted to say it I'm not gay, just so ya know.. YOU don't have to be a lesbian to give a women a complement! i'm not a lesbian and i give women compliments 
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Through my years of dating experience, I only tend to use the term "he is out of my league" if he is really well off financially. I am intimidated by people with a lot of money. I've spent most of my life in school, almost ready to graduate with my master's degree, and I don't have a lot of extra money. I am frugal until I finish school (even though I like the nicer things in life), and dating a guy with a lot of income makes me feel "out of his league". That is my own insecurity.  YOU! have a wonderful message.... A lot of mothers single pay for there children education with out final aid and I can tell you it cost me 27k a year! I work hard.. and so all the other parents men and women who are putting their self or the kids though college, it dose not happen over night i'm going on 7 yrs for my kids all together and have 2 yrs more to go... Maybe one day when I'm 53 I will get the chance to attend college and have my career.. but until then.... We judge from a picture, we believe we know who they are, what there about, and who we think there life is like? and yet we have no clue! |
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Personally I feel like men out of my league are some that I believe could do better than me, mostly looks wise, because I have very low self esteem. Regarding intelligence/integrity, it would not be a problem for me because I feel I have enough to offer in those areas. you are beautiful Thank you very much. I'm sorry, I'm not "fishing" for a compliment. I will probably always struggle with it. didn't think you were fishin.. just wanted to say it I'm not gay, just so ya know.. YOU don't have to be a lesbian to give a women a complement! i'm not a lesbian and i give women compliments   Are you sure??? LOL,,,lol you could be????lol |
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Personally I feel like men out of my league are some that I believe could do better than me, mostly looks wise, because I have very low self esteem. Regarding intelligence/integrity, it would not be a problem for me because I feel I have enough to offer in those areas. you are beautiful Thank you very much. I'm sorry, I'm not "fishing" for a compliment. I will probably always struggle with it. didn't think you were fishin.. just wanted to say it I'm not gay, just so ya know.. YOU don't have to be a lesbian to give a women a complement! i'm not a lesbian and i give women compliments Are you sure??? LOL,,,lol you could be????lol Nooooooooooooooooo 
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Edited by
hereformore
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Wed 08/05/09 05:24 PM
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Personally I feel like men out of my league are some that I believe could do better than me, mostly looks wise, because I have very low self esteem. Regarding intelligence/integrity, it would not be a problem for me because I feel I have enough to offer in those areas. Do you really want to be with a man that is strictly looking for a beauty queen? That would make him terribly shallow. It is funny how you can see yourself so differently than others see you. I think most any guy here would tell you that you're attractive, and yet you don't see it in yourself. I suspect as you start to find yourself again you will start to see it. I have never been concerned about looks in my man, it is about their character. However, I recently met a man that seemed to have it all... integrity, intelligence, witty and handsome....he is currently dating someone else. I didn't believe that I needed to be a beauty queen for him but he had that rare quality of the above mentioned, especially the handsome part, I was feeling insecure. I believe he feels like I do, it is the character/connection. I think he has that now. I think I may always struggle with my self esteem. Someone once said "fake it till you make it" that is what I try to do. |
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You can't think in terms of "out of your league" You would basing things on judgements you have formed about a person that may be completely off! In other words-"Don't judge a book by it's cover" I guess thats true, but Really pretty women usually have really good looking men talk to them, thus guys like me are always sitting there looking. I remember, in high school, all guys thought the prettist girls in school were already asked to the prom, so they never asked. Sometimes the prettiest girls sat home on prom night! Don't look! Ask! Words of wisdom again! My daughter never went to Prom nor did my son, they felt it was to stereo typed! and over priced! The truth is they new I could not afford it! So they stayed home we watched Hastings DVD's but I say the tear in my child's eye. That was enough! and you are right very right... They sit at home day after year alone! Amen |
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there is no league.........we are no more valuable than the ants or amoebas. we all should have equal rights to life. pompous human arrogance puts status and value on things, and only because there is nothing on land in protected areas that are at this time, higher on the food chain......nobody's better or worse...just different. if one thinks not...then one is judging another.....who says what talents they have? the most monetary deprived are some of the richest people on earth! does one hold rich and famous people in high esteem? why? because they can afford a rolls royce? does one look up to these people? i look straight at them! if anything, i would like their knowledge of experience, possible friendship, and maybe their wisdom...i also have plenty to give in return to anyone who asks....i will give others respect for accomplishments if they help out their fellow man to the best of their ability, and if they are not doing that, then they really are not doing their moral job....something that all of us must do! nobody's excluded from this, period!!! that IS our real job on this planet..... NOT...who has the most toys when they die, wins. they lose.................they missed the point of life school.... i almost forgot.....chemistry, and compatibility are what really matters, not status. if you're happy, that is another factor.... Beyond words have been spoken today, YOU win the Mingle2 "Best Human award"! Along with melodygirl for "first place" in best Pose for a Picture! Wisdom spoken very well! The richest person I new was the saddest person who died! Opps that was my Father! He worked so hard to have it all had two wife's take it all, in the end he gave his best to only die homeless on the streets in West L.A. (love you daddy)! i'm terribly sorry to hear about your dad......that breaks my heart, for i know what it's like to be taken advantage of and losing everything, and wanting to just....go...go die.....it almost happened to me.... someone dear to me changed my mind and she never knew it till two days ago......... i am extremely humbled to have been spoken about so highly, i don't have words to describe a thankyou... just.... humbly thankyou.  |
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thankyou as well to, hereformore, and terry
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