Topic: Married Man
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Wed 08/19/09 10:00 AM
The title shouldve been married man/single friends.

I will not be having affair with married man.

artman48's photo
Wed 08/19/09 10:00 AM

Call his wife and invite her along. She might know some nice single guys as well.




Another great one from poison!!!drinker

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Wed 08/19/09 10:02 AM

I went to a restaurant/bar opening where a friend was bartending. Sitting at the bar were several men each who bought me drinks. At least one of them was married, but he left at dinnertime to go home.

A younger fellow stepped in from the porch seating area and asked me to join his table where he and another friend were gnashing. Of course I will!! I am free and single and there for fun and promoting that sorta atmosphere.

This guy is married it happens to be and his friend is single, but of course the married one is buying my dinner and picking up my tab and he's nice and engaging and talkative with me...

and the conversation flowed and we never stopped smiling and he never stopped being interested in what I said, the bits and pieces of information about myself I was willing to share on first meeting. He wanted more and I laughed. He smiled. Single friend chimed in when he could but there was no mistaking the flow of energy and connection married guy and I are having.

Bartender friend gave married guy my phone number (I'm assuming when he closed his tab). He gave me his card. I never called. He called.

I'm thinking of meeting him. My rationale is that he has single friends.


Thats so wrongnoway What about the poor Wife? have you considered her feelings? i think thats totaly wrong..JMO

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Wed 08/19/09 10:03 AM

The title shouldve been married man/single friends.

I will not be having affair with married man.


My wife said that for 38 years then told me she was leaving for an old boy friend from high school of all things. Don't know how this fits---but i bet you end up with the married guy doing the big nasty!!!!

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 08/19/09 10:04 AM
I think it's a great idea! Go for it! :thumbsup:

newarkjw's photo
Wed 08/19/09 10:06 AM

The title shouldve been married man/single friends.

I will not be having affair with married man.


Do you honestly think this man is calling on you to introduce you to his single friends?..........smokin

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Wed 08/19/09 10:06 AM

I think it's a great idea! Go for it! :thumbsup:


*ducks so as to avoid the dripping sarcasm*smokin

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Wed 08/19/09 10:08 AM
I totally agree that this is dangerous. I'd stay away.

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Wed 08/19/09 10:08 AM
Let me know how that works for you......



Are you trying to convince me....or yourself???


It is my rationale

artman48's photo
Wed 08/19/09 10:11 AM

I think it's a great idea! Go for it! :thumbsup:


do you mean if i was still married---you would date me!!!I'll get married tomorrow!!! I'll do it!!! corse, I don't have a lot of money and I'm kinda old for ya--- My kid has lots of young friends though-- i'll let you meat them and we could just hang--- Corse,,,, NO BIG NASTY!!!

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Wed 08/19/09 10:12 AM

I think it's a great idea! Go for it! :thumbsup:


Wow...I would have thought that to be the "last" thing you would've said...especially with your profession..."Public Safety Speaker"!!!what

I'm trying to figure out where the "safety" comes into play in this situation. slaphead

JMO, and Kidding!


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Wed 08/19/09 10:13 AM
I'd be very very careful, you already have said there is a connection and all. If you really do want to meet single guys this way as you say, then tell the married guy exactly that now if you're gonna see him again. Make it absolutely clear where you stand, cause if you don't.....well you can have all the good intentions in the world but it only takes a moment for things to go wrong.

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Wed 08/19/09 10:18 AM
You must be kidding!! Single man was THERE and wasn't showing you the interest the married guy was. Don't be naive. Married man is the cheating kind. You cheat with him, you are a cheater, too. And if he marries you, you married a man who will cheat on you. Sounds like you know exactly what he's up to and you want some validation on your faux slant!!

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Wed 08/19/09 10:21 AM

The title shouldve been married man/single friends.

I will not be having affair with married man.


Famous last words........... noway

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 08/19/09 10:23 AM
Yeah, have his baby!!!!!!!!!!

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Wed 08/19/09 10:24 AM

Yeah, have his baby!!!!!!!!!!
Me first!!!love :wink: laugh

artman48's photo
Wed 08/19/09 10:30 AM
It just never ends---hey,, if you end up with this guy--let me know. I'll work with his wife on the divorce and take you and him for a sh-t load of Money!!!!:banana: :banana: :banana:

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Wed 08/19/09 10:37 AM
don't see a thing wrong with it, married men need "friends" too :wink:

1 - he will introduce her to his single friends :wink:
2 - he will help her get that job she wants :wink:
3 - his wife doesn't get him at all laugh
4 - he's really separated, but doesn't want to divorce cuz of kids laugh
5 - the excuses go on and on :thumbsup:

Not saying you would do anything inappropriate, but before you act trade places with him, his wife and yourself. How would you feel if the roles were reversed?


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Wed 08/19/09 10:41 AM


Recipe for disaster. I will see ya on Jerry Springer with the "Who's my baby daddy?"laugh


well, yes it is! however i refute drama


apparently, your actions are not matching your words... *slaphead*

also - if he were single, would you need a "rationale"... *SIGH*

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Wed 08/19/09 10:46 AM
No offense at all but

Your an idiot!!

Married guys are a no- no

You will be left raw and hurting and you Might break up a womens family

Oh yea he didn't love her anymore. She's mean. She's dying no sex


God don't do it. Jmo. Jmo. :heart: