It happened to me last night. I was accused last night by two of my
female bosses that I was too nice. It confused me. I just tried to do my
job every night and was working with another female. I'll admit that
this female I was working with was cute, young but married. Unlike this
cute, young but married female I just do my job and don't *****
continuously. I ***** some but not continuously. I was worried about a
battle of the sexes thing going to happen since I am a minority there
being male. The cute, young but married female got fired from missing
too much work and pawning all her duties on others. Now that the two
bosses have given their two weeks notices because they got a better deal
because of pay I talked to them last night. They asked me why I let her
walk all over me. I explained that I had went to college with her. They
said that they, the two bosses went to school together, too but each did
their own job. Somehow I feel as I lost my minority status. I was
wondering if anybody else has been accused of being too nice.

every day of my life people feel like they need to take advantage of me
which i'm used to anyway

Thanks for posting Jp. It helps me lose my totally unique feeling that I
get from time to time.

Strange thing was it was her that they thought was immature and not me
this time. That was sure different from the past for me.

Yes I'm been accused quite often for doing things for people that keep
walking all over me. The one thing that comes to mind though is when I
used to drive a wheelchair bus, taking children with special needs to
school. A fellow driver came running to my bus yelling that I was too
nice by taking the children inside the door instead of letting the
teachers do it. And that I was screwing it up for all the other drivers.
beleive you-me, this driver could have used the exercise.

I get told that all the time too. I tried to change because I was tired
of hearing it, but then was called a B****. So I went back to being
nice, I can't help it!!

Good for you eileen, I kept on taking those little kids in their
wheelchairs inside the school no matter what she said.

sorry mis- spelled your name eileena

I remember the short bus we had at school when I drove the big bus for
the school. However, where I work they have a different definition for
the short bus. The short bus takes residents to the psych ward. One
resident was in her wheelchair in the hall telling each door who she was
was and asking what time the bus would come through while we were in the
nursing home. An aide I was working with told her that the short bus
would be along directly.

I always thought I was the king of being to nice.

No Greyhound.....you got the spelling right. But I have gotten
used to people reading the screen name wrong! (it sounds cool with the
"a" on it too)

^^^eileen...nice^^^

I get accused of being too nice all the time. I can't help it...that is
who I am. A few years back on of my co-workers told me I needed to
become more of a *****. Yeah right! and how exactly does one ace the
class of *****ology?

Nus is nice too..

um..................



NO!

Yes, in fact, I have. Yeah, I know...surprised me, too. LOL.

No but my daughter accuses me of being a door-mat all the time!!!!!!

This is not a problem I have. Lol.

I have been accused ot that a few times.

Rainbow...

I have been accused of that as well. The ONLY thing that bothers me
about that is when people take advantage of the fact that I have a BIG
heart....

-Joanne