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Kleisto
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Tue 08/25/09 07:11 AM
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Fall in love, and then out of love just as fast? I don't get it. Girl was nuts for me for like a week or so, and then just like that's it's done.
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Ah, infatuation.
Fickle as a summer day Sunny and warm turn to rain and thunder. Quiet and cool by evening. |
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That's not love, it's infatuation. There's a huge difference. You know what that difference is? Time.
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Ah, infatuation. Fickle as a summer day Sunny and warm turn to rain and thunder. Quiet and cool by evening. 
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That's not love, it's infatuation. There's a huge difference. You know what that difference is? Time. Yeah suppose so. Well no matter, I have someone else in my life who I know cares a lot for me, and I her too, as we've gotten pretty close this summer, so I'm more then willing to give her a chance. One person's loss, another's gain. |
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Fall in love, and then out of love just as fast? I don't get it. Girl was nuts for me for like a week or so, and then just like that's it's done. was this the 16 yr old or that chick you were going to try and visit..it takes months to truly love somebody..in this case its call infatuation. |
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That's not love, it's infatuation. There's a huge difference. You know what that difference is? Time. Yeah suppose so. Well no matter, I have someone else in my life who I know cares a lot for me, and I her too, as we've gotten pretty close this summer, so I'm more then willing to give her a chance. One person's loss, another's gain. You've become quite the player young man!! |
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Fall in love, and then out of love just as fast? I don't get it. Girl was nuts for me for like a week or so, and then just like that's it's done. was this the 16 yr old or that chick you were going to try and visit..it takes months to truly love somebody..in this case its call infatuation. No it was another girl I had met recently, in Ohio, she's just turning 18 in February. Guess the age would have a little bit to do with it, but won't lie and say it doesn't sting a little bit to be toyed with, especially when she wouldn't return calls this week, or tell me anything directly even by IM. I had to find out by statuses the last few days, one saying she loved the guy in her top locker at high school, and another saying things had changed and were different basically. |
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That's not love, it's infatuation. There's a huge difference. You know what that difference is? Time. Yeah suppose so. Well no matter, I have someone else in my life who I know cares a lot for me, and I her too, as we've gotten pretty close this summer, so I'm more then willing to give her a chance. One person's loss, another's gain. And you're wondering about her fickleness?  Sheesh, and people wonder why players are universally reviled 
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That's not love, it's infatuation. There's a huge difference. You know what that difference is? Time. Yeah suppose so. Well no matter, I have someone else in my life who I know cares a lot for me, and I her too, as we've gotten pretty close this summer, so I'm more then willing to give her a chance. One person's loss, another's gain. You've become quite the player young man!! A bit, but I think this one is really it. I realize now even as others have come and gone in both our lives she's been there, she's been understanding, patient and listened to me, she's seen me at some of my best times and worst. I think it just was meant to be, fate as it were. Funny too, cause we talked once when we first met, then never again for the longest time, didn't think much of it till she popped up again on AIM one time, and we chatted again and just went from there. I never would have imagined we'd be as close as we are now, when we first met. It's an amazing thing really, how it's all happened. |
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Edited by
Kleisto
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Tue 08/25/09 07:29 AM
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That's not love, it's infatuation. There's a huge difference. You know what that difference is? Time. Yeah suppose so. Well no matter, I have someone else in my life who I know cares a lot for me, and I her too, as we've gotten pretty close this summer, so I'm more then willing to give her a chance. One person's loss, another's gain. And you're wondering about her fickleness? Sheesh, and people wonder why players are universally reviled Well now I had been close to her before, and was gonna consider being with her for a time, but then I wasn't sure if she was gonna be available or I'd hear from her again for a while, so I sort of started to go on. Then by the time she did come back, I had met this other girl, though I still did care for her a lot, but didn't want to give up on someone else because of it (nor did she want me to), though I was second guessing things some back before I found out this girl now didn't care for me anymore (intuition maybe?). If she had cared for me, I sure would have been open to keep it going (while being friends with the other), but since she isn't, I'm more then happy to go for one that I know does and has. |
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Well now I had been close to her before, and was gonna consider being with her for a time, but then I wasn't sure if she was gonna be available or I'd hear from her again for a while, so I sort of started to go on. Then by the time she did come back, I had met this other girl, though I still did care for her a lot, but didn't want to give up on someone else because of it (nor did she want me to), though I was second guessing things some back before I found out this girl now didn't care for me anymore (intuition maybe?). If she had cared for me, I sure would have been open to keep it going (while being friends with the other), but since she isn't, I'm more then happy to go for one that I know does and has. Exactly, a player, keeping one woman hanging til you make up your mind or until/unless you get dumped. What happens when you again find yourself in the throes of infatuation, does girl number 2 go back to being girl number 2, until the infatuation wears off again and then you're back with her, cause you know she's honest about her feelings? Where is your honesty? Is it fair or right to play around with people's emotions so you can have your cake and eat it too? Just how long do you think she's gonna sit around and be the victim of your games? I say again, sheesh! |
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Well now I had been close to her before, and was gonna consider being with her for a time, but then I wasn't sure if she was gonna be available or I'd hear from her again for a while, so I sort of started to go on. Then by the time she did come back, I had met this other girl, though I still did care for her a lot, but didn't want to give up on someone else because of it (nor did she want me to), though I was second guessing things some back before I found out this girl now didn't care for me anymore (intuition maybe?). If she had cared for me, I sure would have been open to keep it going (while being friends with the other), but since she isn't, I'm more then happy to go for one that I know does and has. Exactly, a player, keeping one woman hanging til you make up your mind or until/unless you get dumped. What happens when you again find yourself in the throes of infatuation, does girl number 2 go back to being girl number 2, until the infatuation wears off again and then you're back with her, cause you know she's honest about her feelings? Where is your honesty? Is it fair or right to play around with people's emotions so you can have your cake and eat it too? Just how long do you think she's gonna sit around and be the victim of your games? I say again, sheesh! Look, all I will say is Vicky and I (the aforementioned girl that does care for me), have talked about things extensively regarding both her feelings in the past involving another guy, and also about my own feelings and situation here. I never meant to hurt her and she knows that, and never was hurt in fact. I've always tried my best to be open and honest with her about what was going on when we've talked, as she has me as well. So there really is no ulterior motive here, we've not hid things from the other, and as for infatuation with others, there won't be, because she really is the one I want, and may well be the one meant for me, something I've been realizing more and more lately. You can believe that or not, I don't care, but that's simply the facts. |
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Well now I had been close to her before, and was gonna consider being with her for a time, but then I wasn't sure if she was gonna be available or I'd hear from her again for a while, so I sort of started to go on. Then by the time she did come back, I had met this other girl, though I still did care for her a lot, but didn't want to give up on someone else because of it (nor did she want me to), though I was second guessing things some back before I found out this girl now didn't care for me anymore (intuition maybe?). If she had cared for me, I sure would have been open to keep it going (while being friends with the other), but since she isn't, I'm more then happy to go for one that I know does and has. Exactly, a player, keeping one woman hanging til you make up your mind or until/unless you get dumped. What happens when you again find yourself in the throes of infatuation, does girl number 2 go back to being girl number 2, until the infatuation wears off again and then you're back with her, cause you know she's honest about her feelings? Where is your honesty? Is it fair or right to play around with people's emotions so you can have your cake and eat it too? Just how long do you think she's gonna sit around and be the victim of your games? I say again, sheesh! Look, all I will say is Vicky and I (the aforementioned girl that does care for me), have talked about things extensively regarding both her feelings in the past involving another guy, and also about my own feelings and situation here. I never meant to hurt her and she knows that, and never was hurt in fact. I've always tried my best to be open and honest with her about what was going on when we've talked, as she has me as well. So there really is no ulterior motive here, we've not hid things from the other, and as for infatuation with others, there won't be, because she really is the one I want, and may well be the one meant for me, something I've been realizing more and more lately. You can believe that or not, I don't care, but that's simply the facts. Whether I or anyone else believes or not is beside the point, I'm just telling you what I see here. If that's not the case, more power to you both. |
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She's it? She's the one?
Until you're together six months, committed and serious, you have no idea what you're talking about. Not to mention the fact you're just a boy. |
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Fall in love, and then out of love just as fast? I don't get it. Girl was nuts for me for like a week or so, and then just like that's it's done. This isn't love this is lust... I believe this type of person is in love with the idea of being love. That is not dealing in the real world |
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She's it? She's the one? Until you're together six months, committed and serious, you have no idea what you're talking about. Not to mention the fact you're just a boy. Well time might tell on it, but I have a hunch at least, given how it all has been happening. |
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Yes. This is called the "Mack Truck Theory".... and it ends with getting run over with all 18 wheels most times.
Slow down. You have no need to rush... |
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I just looked at your profile to see how young you are..Slow down and enjoy life...stop trying to rush into relationships..both you and the young women in your life have so much to do before either of you will settle down in a long term relationship. Enjoy your time and your life. Trust me...time goes by so fast and always with changes in everything..
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