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Topic: Had a 1st date
Balky's photo
Sun 08/30/09 03:31 PM
Kinda. My girl showed up with her female bestfriend and we all went to the movies. She has agreed on a 2nd time going out, when would be the best time to go out again?

silly's photo
Sun 08/30/09 03:34 PM

Kinda. My girl showed up with her female bestfriend and we all went to the movies. She has agreed on a 2nd time going out, when would be the best time to go out again?


How about next Saturday or Friday and this time let her leave the friend at homelaugh .I mean y wait?

Balky's photo
Sun 08/30/09 03:35 PM


Kinda. My girl showed up with her female bestfriend and we all went to the movies. She has agreed on a 2nd time going out, when would be the best time to go out again?


How about next Saturday or Friday and this time let her leave the friend at homelaugh .I mean y wait?


She's mentioned she wants to take things slow

Katzenschnauzer's photo
Sun 08/30/09 03:40 PM



Kinda. My girl showed up with her female bestfriend and we all went to the movies. She has agreed on a 2nd time going out, when would be the best time to go out again?


How about next Saturday or Friday and this time let her leave the friend at homelaugh .I mean y wait?


She's mentioned she wants to take things slow


Now, what does "slow" mean I wonder? Slow is kind of relative. A slow trip across the United States would mean one thing to you and another to me. I guess set up a date for Friday night and then cancel/postpone until Sept 14?

silly's photo
Sun 08/30/09 03:41 PM



Kinda. My girl showed up with her female bestfriend and we all went to the movies. She has agreed on a 2nd time going out, when would be the best time to go out again?


How about next Saturday or Friday and this time let her leave the friend at homelaugh .I mean y wait?


She's mentioned she wants to take things slow


I don't think that is going fast it's only a second date.How long do u think u should wait?

Balky's photo
Sun 08/30/09 03:43 PM




Kinda. My girl showed up with her female bestfriend and we all went to the movies. She has agreed on a 2nd time going out, when would be the best time to go out again?


How about next Saturday or Friday and this time let her leave the friend at homelaugh .I mean y wait?


She's mentioned she wants to take things slow


I don't think that is going fast it's only a second date.How long do u think u should wait?


We live really close by to each other, so we can easily do something during the week I think. I was thinking sometime in the middle of the week? or the weekend. I don't wanna seem too desperate

Balky's photo
Sun 08/30/09 03:44 PM




Kinda. My girl showed up with her female bestfriend and we all went to the movies. She has agreed on a 2nd time going out, when would be the best time to go out again?


How about next Saturday or Friday and this time let her leave the friend at homelaugh .I mean y wait?


She's mentioned she wants to take things slow


Now, what does "slow" mean I wonder? Slow is kind of relative. A slow trip across the United States would mean one thing to you and another to me. I guess set up a date for Friday night and then cancel/postpone until Sept 14?


Cancel/postpone until Sept 14? you mean if it gets canceled for some reason ask again for Sept 14?

msmyka's photo
Sun 08/30/09 03:47 PM
Slow and bringing her friend with are 2 different things... but to answer the original question I would say wait this next weekend out... its a going to be a holiday weekend and people are usually busy. Maybe she would be up for something simple like coffee during the week?

msmyka's photo
Sun 08/30/09 03:48 PM
Edited by msmyka on Sun 08/30/09 03:48 PM

Cancel/postpone until Sept 14? you mean if it gets canceled for some reason ask again for Sept 14?


I think she was trying to say the same thing I did.... this weekend may be busy so the following weekend might be better.

silly's photo
Sun 08/30/09 03:48 PM





Kinda. My girl showed up with her female bestfriend and we all went to the movies. She has agreed on a 2nd time going out, when would be the best time to go out again?


How about next Saturday or Friday and this time let her leave the friend at homelaugh .I mean y wait?


She's mentioned she wants to take things slow


I don't think that is going fast it's only a second date.How long do u think u should wait?


We live really close by to each other, so we can easily do something during the week I think. I was



thinking sometime in the middle of the week? or the weekend. I don't wanna seem too desperate



I would just call her during the week and feel out the situation and see what feels right for the both of u.

Jess642's photo
Sun 08/30/09 03:48 PM
Hmmm...Balky....so ring her and ask....sheesh!!!

All this specualting will just do your head in....you ring, ask if it's a good time to talk...if she says yes...ask her how she feels about the date last night...

Ask her thoughts on where she would like to go next time, and what evening best suits her...


It isn't rocket science...there's TWO of you in this...:wink:

Quietman_2009's photo
Sun 08/30/09 03:50 PM
I remember when papersmile said she wanted us to move slow

so I pretended like I was in slow motion and talked like "Raaaaaawwwwww rawwwwwwwwr rawwwwwwwwwwwwww"

she wasn't amused

msmyka's photo
Sun 08/30/09 03:51 PM

I remember when papersmile said she wanted us to move slow

so I pretended like I was in slow motion and talked like "Raaaaaawwwwww rawwwwwwwwr rawwwwwwwwwwwwww"

she wasn't amused

rofl rofl rofl

Balky's photo
Sun 08/30/09 03:52 PM
We did meet online so I can understand her bringing a friend the first time, there are weirdos on here scared

msmyka's photo
Sun 08/30/09 03:53 PM
I say make the next date something really simple like coffee.... no expectations.

Balky's photo
Sun 08/30/09 03:55 PM

I say make the next date something really simple like coffee.... no expectations.


During this week? or wait til the next weekend?

Katzenschnauzer's photo
Sun 08/30/09 04:01 PM

We did meet online so I can understand her bringing a friend the first time, there are weirdos on here scared


Yeh, really! If I EVER get a date I will take my Mom and my brother and the next door neighbor and the SWAT team along.
Maybe since you did the movies and couldn't talk much, the next date could be something like a picnic in the park/beach or miniature golf(or is that stupid?). Here's an idea! Have something you have to take care of(fib if you have to). Tell her you have to pick up something at the mall and ask if she would like to come along. Then it's not really a date but you're together!

Balky's photo
Sun 08/30/09 04:03 PM


We did meet online so I can understand her bringing a friend the first time, there are weirdos on here scared


Yeh, really! If I EVER get a date I will take my Mom and my brother and the next door neighbor and the SWAT team along.
Maybe since you did the movies and couldn't talk much, the next date could be something like a picnic in the park/beach or miniature golf(or is that stupid?). Here's an idea! Have something you have to take care of(fib if you have to). Tell her you have to pick up something at the mall and ask if she would like to come along. Then it's not really a date but you're together!


Do I look threatening at all?

Balky's photo
Sun 08/30/09 04:04 PM


We did meet online so I can understand her bringing a friend the first time, there are weirdos on here scared


Yeh, really! If I EVER get a date I will take my Mom and my brother and the next door neighbor and the SWAT team along.
Maybe since you did the movies and couldn't talk much, the next date could be something like a picnic in the park/beach or miniature golf(or is that stupid?). Here's an idea! Have something you have to take care of(fib if you have to). Tell her you have to pick up something at the mall and ask if she would like to come along. Then it's not really a date but you're together!


and no mini golf isn't stupid, I'd like to do that, the picnic idea sounds nice too I'll save that for a little later on.

Katzenschnauzer's photo
Sun 08/30/09 04:16 PM



We did meet online so I can understand her bringing a friend the first time, there are weirdos on here scared


Yeh, really! If I EVER get a date I will take my Mom and my brother and the next door neighbor and the SWAT team along.
Maybe since you did the movies and couldn't talk much, the next date could be something like a picnic in the park/beach or miniature golf(or is that stupid?). Here's an idea! Have something you have to take care of(fib if you have to). Tell her you have to pick up something at the mall and ask if she would like to come along. Then it's not really a date but you're together!


Do I look threatening at all?


No, no, no, no, no, no. Not at all.

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