Topic: Real enemies of the traditional family
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Mon 08/31/09 01:16 PM


I'm not traditional myself. I'm divorced with one child. but if someone wants "traditional" families for themselves...that is their choice. And as long as people don't push their views on me...it's all good....JMO

Quoting Sotomayor;
Yeah, that's what I meant to say.laugh laugh laugh flowerforyou


sotomayor won, get over it.

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Mon 08/31/09 01:17 PM
Edited by Atlantis75 on Mon 08/31/09 01:18 PM
I'll give you an example of "traditonal".

I grew up in a country, where if you were a woman, you must marry the guy who made you pregnant. Basically, if you were a woman and had a child and not married, the entire town made fun of you having a "bastard child". You were tagged for life.
I don't have to mention, the divorce rate was (and is) very high, since many of these couples didn't love each other, only had a one-night-fun that ended in a way that shouldn't have.

But everything has 2 sides , a good and the bad, so the bad would be that you get women (and men) forced into unwanted marriage, on the other hand, the man must marry her and support the child and couldn't just get away from the responsibility.

At the end of the day, if you ask me, the whole problem could have been sold by wearing a condom.




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Mon 08/31/09 01:18 PM
traditional
1 traditional
consisting of or derived from tradition; "traditional history"; "traditional morality"

2 traditional
pertaining to time-honored orthodox doctrines; "the simple security of traditional assumptions has vanished"

I'll admit I'm not traditional...never really have been. I march to the beat of my own drummer

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Mon 08/31/09 01:24 PM





My idea of Traditional Family is family made up of man, woman, the kids,etc.
There is nothing traditional about homosexual shack-ups.

What's yours?


Wow big surprise. I have been with my partner for almost 29 years now, about 15 longer than any of my straight friends, so you clearly don't know the difference between commitment and shack-ups.

Physically, because of a miscarriage I can't have kids, wanna make something of that too? Or hell maybe that's Obama's fault too.

Oh and by the way shackups are pretty traditional in both camps and always have been. Except for those who pretend it isn't so.


29 years and here on a dating site? Makes ya' wanna' say hmmmm.

I guess I missed the class that teaches sodomy is traditional and acceptable. My bad.


You may want a traditional family or relationship, but why would it bother you if others don't?

I have no problem. I just didn't understand the terms Traditional, normal, acceptable,or moral.

After reading all the definitions, I'll have to side with the Islamics and their definition. The idea of man love is kinda' sickening for my tastes.


Many Christianity and Islam have a lot in common, they both want to control human behavior. They all think life was created just for them, problem is neither can prove it. And I don't want to imagine you having traditional sex either. I just don't go around obsessed with people sexual preferences.

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Mon 08/31/09 01:26 PM
I don't want to imagine ANY of you nuts having sex...traditional or not

rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

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Mon 08/31/09 01:29 PM

I don't want to imagine ANY of you nuts having sex...traditional or not

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oh thanks for keeping it going..now I have a visual noway


rofl rofl

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Mon 08/31/09 01:32 PM


I don't want to imagine ANY of you nuts having sex...traditional or not

rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl


oh thanks for keeping it going..now I have a visual noway


rofl rofl


got a better one (since boo brought it up)....willing in the pink tutu

offtopic sorry boo :laughing:

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Mon 08/31/09 01:34 PM
Edited by willing2 on Mon 08/31/09 01:38 PM


I don't want to imagine ANY of you nuts having sex...traditional or not

rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl


oh thanks for keeping it going..now I have a visual noway


rofl rofl


I ain't nuts about nuts.
I like a little kit-kat.:wink: pitchfork

I can get away with the Tu-Tu. I'm secure in my manhoodflowerforyou :thumbsup:

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Mon 08/31/09 01:39 PM



My idea of Traditional Family is family made up of man, woman, the kids,etc.
There is nothing traditional about homosexual shack-ups.

What's yours?


Wow big surprise. I have been with my partner for almost 29 years now, about 15 longer than any of my straight friends, so you clearly don't know the difference between commitment and shack-ups.

Physically, because of a miscarriage I can't have kids, wanna make something of that too? Or hell maybe that's Obama's fault too.

Oh and by the way shackups are pretty traditional in both camps and always have been. Except for those who pretend it isn't so.


29 years and here on a dating site? Makes ya' wanna' say hmmmm.

I guess I missed the class that teaches sodomy is traditional and acceptable. My bad.

People are on here to socialize too. Not all are looking for somebody. I'm here for forums.

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Mon 08/31/09 01:40 PM



I don't want to imagine ANY of you nuts having sex...traditional or not

rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl


oh thanks for keeping it going..now I have a visual noway


rofl rofl


I ain't nuts about nuts.
I like a little kit-kat.:wink: pitchfork



and that is just fine...
None of us have the right to judge others for who they choose to love or how they choose to express it. jmo :heart:

The tutu looks great happy

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Mon 08/31/09 01:41 PM





My idea of Traditional Family is family made up of man, woman, the kids,etc.
There is nothing traditional about homosexual shack-ups.

What's yours?


Wow big surprise. I have been with my partner for almost 29 years now, about 15 longer than any of my straight friends, so you clearly don't know the difference between commitment and shack-ups.

Physically, because of a miscarriage I can't have kids, wanna make something of that too? Or hell maybe that's Obama's fault too.

Oh and by the way shackups are pretty traditional in both camps and always have been. Except for those who pretend it isn't so.


29 years and here on a dating site? Makes ya' wanna' say hmmmm.

I guess I missed the class that teaches sodomy is traditional and acceptable. My bad.


You may want a traditional family or relationship, but why would it bother you if others don't?


or why would it bother you if he is expressing his views? Use your own logic, it nullifies your response...

All this bickering is interesting, but it is missing the main point. Polarization of the public is how officials get elected... only when the "we vs. they" attitudes are dropped - and we get back to the business of running a country instead of trying to "win" for our "team" - can we make progress and improve our society - best argument get's us nowhere... what happend to intent, direction and real leadership?

*sigh*

young people have less morals that ever before (who cares who your partner is) there is lack of commitment, empathy, intellect is dying -- our ability to compete in the world is reduced... poverty and hunger grow -- yet we bicker about who each other should have in the bedroom? Oh please... focus on what is truly important. Gays and Lesbians have been around since there have been man and woman... it was just not talked about openly... human beings (at their core) have not changed much in their behaviors -- it's just more "out there
now...

let's get on with running the country for all of us...


I never said it bothered me that he expressed his views. I just asked him a question. That's all.

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Mon 08/31/09 01:42 PM
I will NEVER judge willing for his tutu wear...but I will point and laugh

(ok boo...that's the last one...I promise...I think) pitchfork

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Mon 08/31/09 01:44 PM

I will NEVER judge willing for his tutu wear...but I will point and laugh

(ok boo...that's the last one...I promise...I think) pitchfork

I am really happy you are feeling better. Missed you here lots.

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Mon 08/31/09 01:45 PM


I will NEVER judge willing for his tutu wear...but I will point and laugh

(ok boo...that's the last one...I promise...I think) pitchfork

I am really happy you are feeling better. Missed you here lots.


flowers not feeling better...but bored :laughing:

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Mon 08/31/09 01:48 PM



I don't want to imagine ANY of you nuts having sex...traditional or not

rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl


oh thanks for keeping it going..now I have a visual noway


rofl rofl


I ain't nuts about nuts.
I like a little kit-kat.:wink: pitchfork

I can get away with the Tu-Tu. I'm secure in my manhoodflowerforyou :thumbsup:


If you are secure in your manhood than my preference for a partner in life shouldn't bother you either.

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Mon 08/31/09 01:48 PM




My idea of Traditional Family is family made up of man, woman, the kids,etc.
There is nothing traditional about homosexual shack-ups.

What's yours?


Wow big surprise. I have been with my partner for almost 29 years now, about 15 longer than any of my straight friends, so you clearly don't know the difference between commitment and shack-ups.

Physically, because of a miscarriage I can't have kids, wanna make something of that too? Or hell maybe that's Obama's fault too.

Oh and by the way shackups are pretty traditional in both camps and always have been. Except for those who pretend it isn't so.


29 years and here on a dating site? Makes ya' wanna' say hmmmm.

I guess I missed the class that teaches sodomy is traditional and acceptable. My bad.

People are on here to socialize too. Not all are looking for somebody. I'm here for forums.



Considering sodomy has been around since man, I guess it would be traditional. Just traditionally kept on the DL.

If we want to discuss tradition lets do that. Anything that has been done in the past is tradition. How people act around it has been tradition also.

How many traditions can someone name that have had a positive effect on the world?

If people do not open to change we cannot grow as humans. Change is untraditional.

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Mon 08/31/09 01:51 PM
How many traditions can someone name that have had a positive effect on the world




Arbor day is a tradition, here.....

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Mon 08/31/09 01:52 PM

I will NEVER judge willing for his tutu wear...but I will point and laugh

(ok boo...that's the last one...I promise...I think) pitchfork


You're such a trouble maker.. grin

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Mon 08/31/09 01:54 PM

How many traditions can someone name that have had a positive effect on the world




Arbor day is a tradition, here.....


Okay we have one.

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Mon 08/31/09 01:58 PM


How many traditions can someone name that have had a positive effect on the world




Arbor day is a tradition, here.....


Okay we have one.


my birthday...there's 2

(oops I'll go back to my corner boo :laughing: )