Topic: A little confused :S
HunniHubbi's photo
Mon 08/31/09 02:01 PM
Edited by HunniHubbi on Mon 08/31/09 02:02 PM
Hey all

If a girl says she loves someone else thought says she has strong feeling for you, what does she mean ?? and why when she does'nt really want to date me (when she split with the other guy cause he cheated on her the second time ?) Also why has she gone crawling back to him :( ?

auburngirl's photo
Mon 08/31/09 02:04 PM
You will "WHY" yourself to death. As to why she doesn't want to date you, I'd guess she thinks of you more as just a friend. As to why she'd go back to someone that cheated/hurt her, is a very good question. Hurt me once shame on you, hurt me twice shame on me, is the old saying that comes to mind.

HunniHubbi's photo
Mon 08/31/09 02:10 PM
Sadly thats true, I'm in the friends zone now. However we did kiss and WE didnt regret it, there's alot of sexual tension going on. I think I'm too nice and prob whine when she talks about him which is a total fail when it comes to romance right

TristanBru's photo
Mon 08/31/09 02:10 PM

Hey all

If a girl says she loves someone else thought says she has strong feeling for you, what does she mean ?? and why when she does'nt really want to date me (when she split with the other guy cause he cheated on her the second time ?) Also why has she gone crawling back to him :( ?
From someone who has been there, blow her off. She's just not into you. Sorry for being so blunt, but If she's told you that. You will allways be just a freind to you.

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Mon 08/31/09 02:15 PM

Sadly thats true, I'm in the friends zone now. However we did kiss and WE didnt regret it, there's alot of sexual tension going on. I think I'm too nice and prob whine when she talks about him which is a total fail when it comes to romance right


Kisses aren't promises friend. I agree with the last poster. She's not that into you or she'd be with You. I know that is blunt and I'm sorry. Find someone that really appreciates your attentions.

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Mon 08/31/09 02:18 PM
Sorry to break this to you. You are not even the back up plan. You are the emergency don't have another option in sight plan.

Move on and don't look back.

writer_gurl's photo
Mon 08/31/09 02:18 PM
She cares for you as a friend, but doesn't want to hurt your feelings. People do stupid things like going back to a b@stard bf that has cheated...Sounds like she is a glutton for punishment or afraid she will be aloneohwell

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Mon 08/31/09 02:20 PM
she sounds great! Does she have a sister?????

Gossipmpm's photo
Mon 08/31/09 02:21 PM
Just move on..


One step at a time :heart:

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Mon 08/31/09 02:21 PM
There's a difference in love and strong feelings. I've had guys pull that crap with me, "I love her, but I care for you." Pffft, screw that. Find someone who will love you, let her have her drama on her own.

HunniHubbi's photo
Mon 08/31/09 02:27 PM

she sounds great! Does she have a sister?????


Her sister probably wouldnt be that into you either

HunniHubbi's photo
Mon 08/31/09 02:31 PM

She cares for you as a friend, but doesn't want to hurt your feelings. People do stupid things like going back to a b@stard bf that has cheated...Sounds like she is a glutton for punishment or afraid she will be aloneohwell


Yep she so is asking for it, but just hope she learns and I really dont want her to get hurt

southern_bee's photo
Mon 08/31/09 02:31 PM
youre better off kidnapping her and throwing her in the Hudson river

silly's photo
Mon 08/31/09 02:32 PM
If u want u can still be a friend to her,if not move on.When pple are in love they sometimes do stupid things,hopefully she will wake up soon and dump that bastard.

HunniHubbi's photo
Mon 08/31/09 02:35 PM

youre better off kidnapping her and throwing her in the Hudson river


HaHa :)

Dhimir's photo
Mon 08/31/09 02:36 PM
Doubt it. Her loss.