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And if you do, do you ever feel bad for making them do things for you?
Today I felt bad. I asked her to get me a cup of coffee and I felt terrible. I felt guilty that I asked her to do this instead of getting it myself. I mean, who the hellll am I? I hired her. She's early 50's and an awesome person. I do nice things for her and her family. Her husband is an avid fisherman and set him up on a week long vacation in Wisconsin that I paid for this summer. So I try to do the right things and treat her well. But today I felt guilty. It was weird. 
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No ... but I keep one in my closet just in case ...
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No, but I have a secretary and slave at home....
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No ... but I keep one in my closet just in case ... 
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I have one and I rarely ask for coffee/tea but once in a while I'm stuck in meetings and can't walk away so I ask her...
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I have one and I rarely ask for coffee/tea but once in a while I'm stuck in meetings and can't walk away so I ask her... Right. Do you feel bad? |
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Hmmm I don't feel bad but I know what you mean, I feel a little weird asking someone to do those things for me...
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And if you do, do you ever feel bad for making them do things for you? Today I felt bad. I asked her to get me a cup of coffee and I felt terrible. I felt guilty that I asked her to do this instead of getting it myself. I mean, who the hellll am I? I hired her. She's early 50's and an awesome person. I do nice things for her and her family. Her husband is an avid fisherman and set him up on a week long vacation in Wisconsin that I paid for this summer. So I try to do the right things and treat her well. But today I felt guilty. It was weird. Is it in her job description? |
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I want to be a secretary
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Edited by
Holly4459
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Thu 10/01/09 06:32 PM
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I AM the secretary
assistant/bookeeper/scheduler/biller-and housekeeper at my office!  oh and I'm 50 too.... 
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If it makes you feel weird don't do it. Get your own coffee, bring enough to the meeting to last through it, call a coffee break during the meeting, or do without.
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 When I managed an office I had a secretary. Several actually. Nothing naughty ever happened. I feared sexual harrasment lawsuits too much. I replaced the last guy that got busted on sexual harrasment. I favored the secretary (her name was Laura)that could get the job done the best.
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I AM the secretary assistant/bookeeper/scheduler/biller-and housekeeper at my office! oh and I'm 50 too.... |
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If it makes you feel weird don't do it. Get your own coffee, bring enough to the meeting to last through it, call a coffee break during the meeting, or do without. 
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Edited by
robert1652
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Thu 10/01/09 06:39 PM
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I have a secretary
She is divorced, some days in good mood some days not so good Slim slender legs which go up and up and up she is 47 good looking smoker (ugh) faily good looking and I like her When she started she was not very good but she has improved and like Mirror says you can't even speak out of place in the fear of sexual lawsuits and you know how California is famous for that
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And if you do, do you ever feel bad for making them do things for you? Today I felt bad. I asked her to get me a cup of coffee and I felt terrible. I felt guilty that I asked her to do this instead of getting it myself. I mean, who the hellll am I? I hired her. She's early 50's and an awesome person. I do nice things for her and her family. Her husband is an avid fisherman and set him up on a week long vacation in Wisconsin that I paid for this summer. So I try to do the right things and treat her well. But today I felt guilty. It was weird. |
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My question to you: is fixing, brewing coffee for you or running errands for you is part of her job description?
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I AM the secretary assistant/bookeeper/scheduler/biller-and housekeeper at my office! oh and I'm 50 too.... but-I don't get anyone coffee...I'm the only one who drinks it
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I AM the secretary assistant/bookeeper/scheduler/biller-and housekeeper at my office! oh and I'm 50 too.... but-I don't get anyone coffee...I'm the only one who drinks it YUmmy coffee
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 I always got my own coffee
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