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I won't approach a woman that looks real good because I feel like she's too good looking to want anything to do with me.Now I will talk to some but I won't try to ask them out because I've got turned down too many times so I guess I'm scared to get turned down,it makes me feel bad and makes it harder to ask one out again. Well that is a crying shame because I have read your profile and I think you come off as a very nice guy and good looking to boot! The most frusterateing thing is having a great guy talk to you and then he thinks that you won't give him a chance and you end up setting home again or giving up and going with some guy who is a far distant second; usually having a terrible time. |
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the fact that i look like this
   
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Cause they're skeeered of us! Men find women unapproachable, because we dont do the baseball cap tap, the subtle nod, the ball scratch, the adjust the belt shuffle, or the high five. Women are verbal , men are non verbal ....so they have no idea how to approach a woman who holds direct eye contact, matches their toe to hair visual sweep, and doesn't give off any non verbal cue. I think you might be on to something there. Unfortuneately many of the ways women used to give visual clues men could pick up on are considered lame now days. What are these visual cues that are lame? I get approached a lot...by all sorts of people but, what is it that I'm doing that makes it okay sometimes and not others? Well it used to be ok to ask for help to carry something, or have a man pump gas, or even open a door for you now women are so liberated that is considered lame to flirt like that. Men have always known women were strong or skilled but it was part of the social dance to be "helped". I once opened a door for a lady with a stroller and a guy about my age snuck in and cut her off as she was attempting to steer the thing. He said thank you as he went by too. I had a good mental rant then decided to tell him to his face. So, I caught up to him and told him off. That probably makes me sound awful. But, what happened to men being MEN? I know I'm not the strongest, or the fastest- I still like to play sports and show my stuff. And I'll be the first to admit ignorance with tools, cars, and plumbing. In the end I'm always defeated by something I can't reach or a damn pickle jar... I just don't think that opening a door or helping out is lame. It's thoughtful and dependable. No Darlin'; helping out IS always being a Gentleman; and well appreciated. It used to be that if a gentleman made these efforts a LADY would say Thank You and if she was interested she would linger, make direct eye contact and tell him how helpful he was. He would then take that cue to introduce himself. And she might introduce herself and or at least give a clue where she might be encountered again publiclly. The reason women got so tight about offering phone numbers is because a few men abused the power to call and harrass. To know someone's phone number is pretty much possible to extensively invade their privacy. |
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more lovely and kind
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I won't approach a woman that looks real good because I feel like she's too good looking to want anything to do with me.Now I will talk to some but I won't try to ask them out because I've got turned down too many times so I guess I'm scared to get turned down,it makes me feel bad and makes it harder to ask one out again. Dontcha feel like they're looking for the same? |
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The "don't even think about talking to me" look seems to keep them away.
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I get that every now and then.
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I do not know any unapproachable women. Men generally do not understand that women are equals, not sex objects. This reality is at the core of all the problems in male/female relationships. When men finally grasp the fact that their fathers taught them lies about women (that they are emotion wrecks and sub human) life for all of us will improve somewhat.
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well, alright, some women approach.
At the UPS store, she knocked off her scanner thingie from the counter, and then dropped my change all over the floor while asking me if I really want a receipt. so I'm picking up the scanner and the change off the floor and I look up and said..Ummm yeah! please! Too bad she was full of tattoos, more taboos on her arm than skin and she was probably about 50lbs, otherwise i would have asked her a few questions. |
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...a woman unapproachable to you? i bet it's that shitty look on their faces...ya know the one...they look like they smell poop all the time pft 
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...a woman unapproachable to you? Well, I'm a sucker for an easy smile, bright eyes. But someone who laughs at my jokes will get my attention as well. |
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Yelling at her kids at the check out line(get a nanny)
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...a woman unapproachable to you? Not removing the cigarette from her lips as she tells someone to kiss her ***?  |
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i like a woman that has self respect intellect and class
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...a woman unapproachable to you? It's funny. My ex told me that the only guys who will talk to any and every woman is the guy who feels he has nothing to lose...and most of the time these guys are "losers". By losers, I mean the guy that will always treat a woman wrong. I actually went to a club with her after she said this and observed, and it is true...guys who are players, who just want the one thing, who will say smooth stuff just to get into her pants, have no fear at all. If she says no, then no loss. Move on to the next one. If you talk (or attempt to talk to) 30 ladies within a night, the chances are high they will get one to believe there lines. Now, I think that alot of times that when a guy is shy, he is trying to not appear to be a player. I don't think you have to do this. A confident man is sexy to alot of women. I always feel that you just talk, and if she responds, you go from there. If not, no biggie. But, men do hate rejection, so if a woman is really attractive, most men will be fearful of her rejecting them. this is where it all goes wrong... because if that guy(Player) comes up to you and you have been scorned then theres a wall that builds and the next guy that may be that good guy has to pay for that (players) bad form.. Ladies are not unapproachable no matter how beautiful they are its basically the fear of no... and just remember fellas everyone you ask out isnt going to say yesbut YOU NEVER KNOW so ask away just be tactful and respectful O and smile |
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Mostly I'd say that our own assumptive fears get in the way creating the gap. But woman can be pretty crazy too.
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hihihihihh
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i see no woman or man for that matter that is unapproachable. like these easy ones.
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hihihihihh 
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