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Topic: How long?
peladac Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 5099	Tue 10/27/09 04:23 PM
How long should one have to wait before they get a picture of who they are talking to? Say this guy has a certain kind of job where he cannot post his picture online or can't call that often. The other person wants to know who is behind all the words they've exchanged. The person who's face is not shown has the advantage. So, they don't talk much but nice emails, emails only on mingle. She gave him her email address and she's guessing because of security reasons that he has not either emailed her nor sent her a picture. They don't live in the same state either. So again, how long before someone should send a picture to the one they have been emailing on mingle extensively?

laughsandgiggles Joined Sun 10/28/07 Posts: 3560	Tue 10/27/09 04:26 PM
Ummm I would want it pretty soon!! so I would have to say Now!! otherwise im going to think he is hiding something- security or no- he has her private email and a distinct advantage.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Tue 10/27/09 04:30 PM
Are you sure he isn't married?

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Tue 10/27/09 04:32 PM
I generally don't talk to anyone without a pic or pics!

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Tue 10/27/09 04:33 PM
The last guy who pulled that crap with me turned out to be a total liar. This guy is hiding something, be careful.

CyPoet Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 12494	Tue 10/27/09 04:34 PM
Hmmmm! Private e-mail exchanged & yet no pic.exchanged?? Security reasons?? It sounds as if this person is being elusive.(jmo) Godspeed!Cy

aladytoo Joined Tue 02/03/09 Posts: 833	Tue 10/27/09 04:36 PM
I'v Had that happen to me as well.99% of those people have something to hide.Cut your loss and move on.... sorry to say

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Tue 10/27/09 04:36 PM Edited by Gossipmpm on Tue 10/27/09 04:37 PM
I know I looked at that angelic face... That beautiful smile.... And thought.... I hope some married azzhole Is not taking advantage of her!

papersmile Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 5148	Tue 10/27/09 04:38 PM
i've heard that excuse before and i have to wonder what sort of job does one have to have in order to not post their photo online? a CIA agent? i don't buy it; they are either ugly as sin, married, or have some other reason to hide.

metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Tue 10/27/09 04:40 PM
You should get it as soon as it's asked for.

Anton_k Joined Sun 02/10/08 Posts: 32665	Tue 10/27/09 04:41 PM Edited by Anton_k on Tue 10/27/09 04:46 PM
How long should one have to wait before they get a picture of who they are talking to? Say this guy has a certain kind of job where he cannot post his picture online or can't call that often. The other person wants to know who is behind all the words they've exchanged. The person who's face is not shown has the advantage. So, they don't talk much but nice emails, emails only on mingle. She gave him her email address and she's guessing because of security reasons that he has not either emailed her nor sent her a picture. They don't live in the same state either. So again, how long before someone should send a picture to the one they have been emailing on mingle extensively? what a load he's passing her..tell quasimodo to cough up the pic or hit the bricks..

MelodyGirl Joined Sun 01/25/09 Posts: 9452	Tue 10/27/09 04:44 PM
I generally don't talk to anyone without a pic or pics! Same here! If the person doesn't post a pic, call Bullllchit! They are "more than likely" hiding something: marriage, girlfriend, fugly, or being on America's Most Wanted )

Mikey117 Joined Mon 11/20/06 Posts: 23736	Tue 10/27/09 04:45 PM
Honey Id drop him like a hot rock!! (AND I Do have a pic!! )

MelodyGirl Joined Sun 01/25/09 Posts: 9452	Tue 10/27/09 04:45 PM
i've heard that excuse before and i have to wonder what sort of job does one have to have in order to not post their photo online? a CIA agent? i don't buy it; they are either ugly as sin, married, or have some other reason to hide. Yea, who is he? Jason Bourne?

peladac Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 5099	Tue 10/27/09 04:46 PM
wow pretty much the same responses. So this woman's feelings are valid then. I'll have to tell her.

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Tue 10/27/09 04:51 PM
Shut this guy down. He is playing games. If he can't it is either in jail, married, or just having fun enjoying your interest while trying to gather enough info to run some kind of con game. Probably sold your email to half a dozen lists. It is pretty sure with in 15 minutes of getting your email he did and info search on you and knows more about you than you know about yourself. Don't feel bad some of these guys are really charming when they want to. You are too nice for this creep. Put your energy where it is deserved.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Tue 10/27/09 04:51 PM
I generally don't talk to anyone without a pic or pics! Same here! If the person doesn't post a pic, call Bullllchit! They are "more than likely" hiding something: marriage, girlfriend, fugly, or being on America's Most Wanted ) I agree

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Tue 10/27/09 04:53 PM
Are men really allowed on here from jail?????

peladac Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 5099	Tue 10/27/09 05:10 PM Edited by peladac on Tue 10/27/09 05:11 PM
Did someone say jail? Why some don't break down and give pics is beyond me. One guy insists on meeting me, I have him my email address and said he couldn't send it to that email address. Haha I get emails on that everyday. Now the guy wants my phone # and says he will text me a pic. Uh I don't think so. Do I have "gullible" written on my forehead.

Mikey117 Joined Mon 11/20/06 Posts: 23736	Tue 10/27/09 05:11 PM
No my dear it happens all the time!!