Topic: 5 unfair questions women ask....
PacificStar48's photo
Mon 11/02/09 06:14 PM


1. "What are you thinking?"
2. "Do you love me?"
3. "Do I look fat?"
4. "Do you think she is prettier than me?"
5. "What would you do if I died?"

These are not fair questions to ask! They all have the high probability of starting an argument. So I sit here with outstretched arms and ask why do you ask these things of us?


Probably better than saying....

1. "What could you possible be thinking with that goofy look on your face?
2. "Do you think putting your nasty muddy boots on my clean kitchen floor feels like love?
3. Do I look fat because I am wondering why you ate what I put in the refrigerator for my lunch tomorrow again?
4. Do you think she is prettier than me because you really look like a pervert leering at another woman with your wife standing right here?
5. What would you do if I died because you are working me to death and you won't get my paycheck to blow?

62easygoing's photo
Mon 11/02/09 06:19 PM
Peccy....you are one lucky man, to get angel. (I see her with you, in your latest photo.) All I can say is, Lucky, Lucky, Lucky you. (Congrats, again.) waving waving

Peccy's photo
Mon 11/02/09 06:23 PM
Edited by Peccy on Mon 11/02/09 07:19 PM

Peccy....you are one lucky man, to get angel. (I see her with you, in your latest photo.) All I can say is, Lucky, Lucky, Lucky you. (Congrats, again.) waving waving
Thanks bro', I am very lucky I know!!!! Actually I didn't get her, just her heart was all I was after!

galendgirl's photo
Mon 11/02/09 06:24 PM


1. "What are you thinking?"
2. "Do you love me?"
3. "Do I look fat?"
4. "Do you think she is prettier than me?"
5. "What would you do if I died?"

These are not fair questions to ask! They all have the high probability of starting an argument. So I sit here with outstretched arms and ask why do you ask these things of us?


I used to tell my kids that if they didn't have anything to tell Oprah, I'd failed as a mother...
Maybe that same rule applies to male/female relationships??? LOL!
noway

62easygoing's photo
Tue 11/03/09 11:17 AM
her heart; would have been all I was after also. She is beautiful, inside and out. waving waving (again, lucky, lucky, lucky you.)waving

no photo
Tue 11/03/09 11:29 AM
Peccy,,Please don't forget these,,,,,

Am I the best you ever had?noway

Do I feel tight down there?shocked

Should I wear the shorts or the jeans?slaphead

Is my chest big enough for youscared

Do you think my feet are bigsurprised


Just some more to add,wink,lol,lolwhoa rofl


Atlantis75's photo
Tue 11/03/09 01:25 PM


1. "What are you thinking?"
2. "Do you love me?"
3. "Do I look fat?"
4. "Do you think she is prettier than me?"
5. "What would you do if I died?"

These are not fair questions to ask! They all have the high probability of starting an argument. So I sit here with outstretched arms and ask why do you ask these things of us?


I answer all of them all the time. If they get a negative answer, it's their fault. I'm just being honest.

Example:

for
1. I'm thinking about eating because I'm hungry
2. Yes
3. Sometimes
4. (it depends if the girl is prettier or uglier) so it's either 'yes' or 'no'.
5. After some time I would find somebody else, depending where my life is taking me.

Jess642's photo
Tue 11/03/09 01:42 PM


1. "What are you thinking?"
2. "Do you love me?"
3. "Do I look fat?"
4. "Do you think she is prettier than me?"
5. "What would you do if I died?"

These are not fair questions to ask! They all have the high probability of starting an argument. So I sit here with outstretched arms and ask why do you ask these things of us?



SOME women ask these things...

a number of reasons...low self esteem, insecurity... or you blokes are just so dang aloof...they dont have a clue if you are even remotely interested in them as a person...

ALL those questions, drag your attention back to the PERSON... you actually have to stop and think about her for a moment.

Ladies... if you find yourself asking this of your fella.... dump him.... he's not remotely interested in YOU.... just what he can 'get' from you.

MelodyGirl's photo
Tue 11/03/09 01:46 PM


Do I feel tight down there?shocked



whoa

MelodyGirl's photo
Tue 11/03/09 01:47 PM



1. "What are you thinking?"
2. "Do you love me?"
3. "Do I look fat?"
4. "Do you think she is prettier than me?"
5. "What would you do if I died?"

These are not fair questions to ask! They all have the high probability of starting an argument. So I sit here with outstretched arms and ask why do you ask these things of us?



SOME women ask these things...

a number of reasons...low self esteem, insecurity... or you blokes are just so dang aloof...they dont have a clue if you are even remotely interested in them as a person...

ALL those questions, drag your attention back to the PERSON... you actually have to stop and think about her for a moment.

Ladies... if you find yourself asking this of your fella.... dump him.... he's not remotely interested in YOU.... just what he can 'get' from you.


drinker :thumbsup:

Atlantis75's photo
Tue 11/03/09 01:47 PM



Ladies... if you find yourself asking this of your fella.... dump him.... he's not remotely interested in YOU.... just what he can 'get' from you.


Ohhhh I see. It's his fault. Only his. Gotcha.

MelodyGirl's photo
Tue 11/03/09 01:48 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Tue 11/03/09 01:50 PM




Ladies... if you find yourself asking this of your fella.... dump him.... he's not remotely interested in YOU.... just what he can 'get' from you.


Ohhhh I see. It's his fault. Only his. Gotcha.


No -- Lee also included potential esteem problems that may infect women who feel the need to ask such asinine questions. winking

I know these situations -- presented as jokes -- are true in some form. I have never, ever asked those type of questions.

I honestly don't give a rat's azzzzz how he feels because if he didn't dig ALL of me then he wouldn't BE with me.

Why pick at a scab?? slaphead

Jess642's photo
Tue 11/03/09 01:51 PM




Ladies... if you find yourself asking this of your fella.... dump him.... he's not remotely interested in YOU.... just what he can 'get' from you.


Ohhhh I see. It's his fault. Only his. Gotcha.




it's either or...

she's either devastatingly insecure.... or he's not that into her.

Either way.... why would he be into a devastatingly insecure woman?

Or...why is she with a man that doesn't 'see' her....if he was THAT into her...she would never need to ask the questions...

seriously.... if you are that into a chicka... you are reassuring her through your actions that YOU Are into her.... and the questions never get asked.

Atlantis75's photo
Tue 11/03/09 01:51 PM
So basically if a woman who loves (?) me or says so, ask me these questions, I should just answer:


-Honey, you seemed to have a low self esteem and I because you got such questions circling in your mind, you better off dumping me.

Jess642's photo
Tue 11/03/09 01:52 PM

So basically if a woman who loves (?) me or says so, ask me these questions, I should just answer:


-Honey, you seemed to have a low self esteem and I because you got such questions circling in your mind, you better off dumping me.



hahahaha YEP...cause you aint doing the work.... if you don't know something, you ask, yeah?


Well guess what, so do women.

Jess642's photo
Tue 11/03/09 01:58 PM


1. "What are you thinking?"
Asked because.....I have NO idea what you are thinking... I can feel your lack of connection, and want to feel 'close' to you....outside of the sack.

2. "Do you love me?"

Because I am not sure.... I feel the distance between us.... and need reassurance that you are still into me.

3. "Do I look fat?"

Is it possible that you are no longer that into me... and find me less attractive than you did before...I don't feel as 'close' to you, anymore.

4. "Do you think she is prettier than me?"

Again.... I feel your attention has wandered away from me, your focus, and energy is elsewhere.... have you lost interest in me?

5. "What would you do if I died?"

I need to know I am so important to you, that the sense of loss if I died, would be huge for you....I can then feel safe in your love for me.


Atlantis75's photo
Tue 11/03/09 01:58 PM


So basically if a woman who loves (?) me or says so, ask me these questions, I should just answer:


-Honey, you seemed to have a low self esteem and I because you got such questions circling in your mind, you better off dumping me.



hahahaha YEP...cause you aint doing the work.... if you don't know something, you ask, yeah?


Well guess what, so do women.


I know. It's the "man's job" to keep up a relationship. Women out to be loved. If a woman somehow ending up asking these questions, the man failed his duties to keep up the relationship.
Too bad, that relationship and love is not shared as each having a responsiblity, because that would be just too easy. It's the man's responsibility and women having stupid questions is the fault of the men.
/sarcasm intended/

Gotcha.

jukebox001's photo
Tue 11/03/09 02:01 PM
Wow! Chinen is good!!! LOL

Jess642's photo
Tue 11/03/09 02:05 PM



So basically if a woman who loves (?) me or says so, ask me these questions, I should just answer:


-Honey, you seemed to have a low self esteem and I because you got such questions circling in your mind, you better off dumping me.



hahahaha YEP...cause you aint doing the work.... if you don't know something, you ask, yeah?


Well guess what, so do women.


I know. It's the "man's job" to keep up a relationship. Women out to be loved. If a woman somehow ending up asking these questions, the man failed his duties to keep up the relationship.
Too bad, that relationship and love is not shared as each having a responsiblity, because that would be just too easy. It's the man's responsibility and women having stupid questions is the fault of the men.
/sarcasm intended/

Gotcha.


Sorry you get that from my posts Atlantis...

I cannot be held accountable for the filters you choose to see through....


The OP asked a question...

I answered it.

Don't like my answers?

Don't read them..:angel:

Atlantis75's photo
Tue 11/03/09 02:08 PM




So basically if a woman who loves (?) me or says so, ask me these questions, I should just answer:


-Honey, you seemed to have a low self esteem and I because you got such questions circling in your mind, you better off dumping me.



hahahaha YEP...cause you aint doing the work.... if you don't know something, you ask, yeah?


Well guess what, so do women.


I know. It's the "man's job" to keep up a relationship. Women out to be loved. If a woman somehow ending up asking these questions, the man failed his duties to keep up the relationship.
Too bad, that relationship and love is not shared as each having a responsiblity, because that would be just too easy. It's the man's responsibility and women having stupid questions is the fault of the men.
/sarcasm intended/

Gotcha.


Sorry you get that from my posts Atlantis...

I cannot be held accountable for the filters you choose to see through....


The OP asked a question...

I answered it.

Don't like my answers?

Don't read them..:angel:


I know, it's hard to be criticized. I thought women likes guys who criticize and don't blindly accept everything they say. I guess that person who said that was wrong.