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Topic: "Arrogant Narcissistic Conceited Jerks" Reloaded
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Sat 11/21/09 10:55 AM

I retort. I'm a nice guy who goes down on chicks, tickles them with feathers, rubs butter on thier nipples, gives them oily massages, and pays close attention to thier ticklish nerve endings for hours until my back gives out. What's wrong with me? I get mine in the end and I strike a fair balance. It's fun to be good, and there's nothing like making a woman smile. Us romantic's are a dieng breed.


You obviously have way too much energy to qualify as a card-carrying "nice guy"....

shades


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Sat 11/21/09 11:00 AM
I guess all the ladies are busy rubbing one out.

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Sat 11/21/09 11:01 AM
Im nice till provoked.....


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Sat 11/21/09 11:34 AM
Not caring about what others think, has it's draw backs but I see no other way to live.

If you go through life always worried if someone likes you, you will not ever live for yourself. Disclaimer: This is not saying that doing kind and considerate things for others with no expectations in return is not the greatest thing in the world either.

I see most "nice guys" as passive aggressive which is a whole mess to deal with anyway.

Now on the flip side of that a narcissistic jerk is no picnic and the woman needs to have a strong disposition so she can put him back in his place when needed. They get way out of control with all their "constructive critism" that really isn't, it is them being an ******* and expecting you to just take it.

I would kinda like to meet someone in the middle somewhere. With enough balls to do what he needs to do in life to obtain his dreams but not so ballsy that he cannot be tender and loving with no fear.

Okay my one cent about it.bigsmile

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Sat 11/21/09 11:39 AM

Not caring about what others think, has it's draw backs but I see no other way to live.

If you go through life always worried if someone likes you, you will not ever live for yourself. Disclaimer: This is not saying that doing kind and considerate things for others with no expectations in return is not the greatest thing in the world either.

I see most "nice guys" as passive aggressive which is a whole mess to deal with anyway.

Now on the flip side of that a narcissistic jerk is no picnic and the woman needs to have a strong disposition so she can put him back in his place when needed. They get way out of control with all their "constructive critism" that really isn't, it is them being an ******* and expecting you to just take it.

I would kinda like to meet someone in the middle somewhere. With enough balls to do what he needs to do in life to obtain his dreams but not so ballsy that he cannot be tender and loving with no fear.

Okay my one cent about it.bigsmile


DAMN YOU Dragoness!!!!

You see right through me!!!!!

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Sat 11/21/09 11:57 AM


Not caring about what others think, has it's draw backs but I see no other way to live.

If you go through life always worried if someone likes you, you will not ever live for yourself. Disclaimer: This is not saying that doing kind and considerate things for others with no expectations in return is not the greatest thing in the world either.

I see most "nice guys" as passive aggressive which is a whole mess to deal with anyway.

Now on the flip side of that a narcissistic jerk is no picnic and the woman needs to have a strong disposition so she can put him back in his place when needed. They get way out of control with all their "constructive critism" that really isn't, it is them being an ******* and expecting you to just take it.

I would kinda like to meet someone in the middle somewhere. With enough balls to do what he needs to do in life to obtain his dreams but not so ballsy that he cannot be tender and loving with no fear.

Okay my one cent about it.bigsmile


DAMN YOU Dragoness!!!!

You see right through me!!!!!


LOL:wink: laugh

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Sat 11/21/09 12:13 PM





This is why I worship the Great Lex.

shades


Me too.


You guys are the best! Seriously....I wish there were more like you around here. Especially once we get all the shorts passed out.




We should add cloning to the Commandments.smokin


Hey, I wanna see clones, I'll go visit MySpace....




laugh laugh Myspace is on a downward spiral, have you seen their new homepage? It's beyond awful.

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Sat 11/21/09 12:30 PM

laugh laugh Myspace is on a downward spiral, have you seen their new homepage? It's beyond awful.


Haven't been there in ages. Once I discovered there was no one worth stalking there, what was the point?


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Mon 11/23/09 08:24 AM

I can assure you I am who I say I am.


I can assure you I'm a nice guy.




I'm SO sick of that crap.


I'm tired of hearing that stuff, only to find out they're nothing like they say they are and are far, far from a nice guy.

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Mon 11/23/09 08:33 AM


I can assure you I am who I say I am.


I can assure you I'm a nice guy.




I'm SO sick of that crap.


I'm tired of hearing that stuff, only to find out they're nothing like they say they are and are far, far from a nice guy.


Exactly. "Law of Opposites." A really nice guy won't have to drone on and on about what a nice guy he is.

I sometimes wonder, when these people get into their elaborate self-assessments, just who it is they're trying to convince.


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Mon 11/23/09 08:38 AM


I can assure you I am who I say I am.


I can assure you I'm a nice guy.




I'm SO sick of that crap.


I'm tired of hearing that stuff, only to find out they're nothing like they say they are and are far, far from a nice guy.

I have to agree with sweet on this. When most of us women hear I am " REALLY A NICE GUY" the first thing we hear is oh great here we go again. If a person was really a nice Guy/Girl why would they have to say so? This should be apparent.
I have met some really "Nice Guys" not one of them had to tell me they were "Nice Guys".

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Mon 11/23/09 08:41 AM



I can assure you I am who I say I am.


I can assure you I'm a nice guy.




I'm SO sick of that crap.


I'm tired of hearing that stuff, only to find out they're nothing like they say they are and are far, far from a nice guy.

I have to agree with sweet on this. When most of us women hear I am " REALLY A NICE GUY" the first thing we hear is oh great here we go again. If a person was really a nice Guy/Girl why would they have to say so? This should be apparent.
I have met some really "Nice Guys" not one of them had to tell me they were "Nice Guys".


I knew a guy who always told me the kind of guy he was. He always said he was the kind of guy that would do the right thing no matter what. Whether it was the easy thing or not. He turned out to be nothing like that.

So, it isn't all nice guys. Just guys that give you these lines, yet turn out to be nothing like what they say.

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Mon 11/23/09 11:32 AM


laugh laugh Myspace is on a downward spiral, have you seen their new homepage? It's beyond awful.


Haven't been there in ages. Once I discovered there was no one worth stalking there, what was the point?




I'm just there to stalk the celebs,laugh

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Mon 11/23/09 12:35 PM




I can assure you I am who I say I am.


I can assure you I'm a nice guy.




I'm SO sick of that crap.


I'm tired of hearing that stuff, only to find out they're nothing like they say they are and are far, far from a nice guy.

I have to agree with sweet on this. When most of us women hear I am " REALLY A NICE GUY" the first thing we hear is oh great here we go again. If a person was really a nice Guy/Girl why would they have to say so? This should be apparent.
I have met some really "Nice Guys" not one of them had to tell me they were "Nice Guys".


I knew a guy who always told me the kind of guy he was. He always said he was the kind of guy that would do the right thing no matter what. Whether it was the easy thing or not. He turned out to be nothing like that.

So, it isn't all nice guys. Just guys that give you these lines, yet turn out to be nothing like what they say.


Sweet this makes my point exactly.. I dont' need a person to tell me that they are a "Nice Guy", "Honorable", or for that matter any of the great qualities that most of us are looking for it will show glaringly if not right off the bat with in a few emails or dates.

I guess I must be getting jaded, in my old age. I dont' want a guy to tell me how great he is I want to find that out all by myself. I have a saying I live by "time will tell me what I want to know".

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Mon 11/23/09 12:43 PM





I can assure you I am who I say I am.


I can assure you I'm a nice guy.




I'm SO sick of that crap.


I'm tired of hearing that stuff, only to find out they're nothing like they say they are and are far, far from a nice guy.

I have to agree with sweet on this. When most of us women hear I am " REALLY A NICE GUY" the first thing we hear is oh great here we go again. If a person was really a nice Guy/Girl why would they have to say so? This should be apparent.
I have met some really "Nice Guys" not one of them had to tell me they were "Nice Guys".


I knew a guy who always told me the kind of guy he was. He always said he was the kind of guy that would do the right thing no matter what. Whether it was the easy thing or not. He turned out to be nothing like that.

So, it isn't all nice guys. Just guys that give you these lines, yet turn out to be nothing like what they say.


Sweet this makes my point exactly.. I dont' need a person to tell me that they are a "Nice Guy", "Honorable", or for that matter any of the great qualities that most of us are looking for it will show glaringly if not right off the bat with in a few emails or dates.

I guess I must be getting jaded, in my old age. I dont' want a guy to tell me how great he is I want to find that out all by myself. I have a saying I live by "time will tell me what I want to know".


:thumbsup: Show me what kind of man you are, words are almost worthless. Unless you write and get paid for it...lol

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Mon 11/23/09 12:46 PM





I can assure you I am who I say I am.


I can assure you I'm a nice guy.




I'm SO sick of that crap.


I'm tired of hearing that stuff, only to find out they're nothing like they say they are and are far, far from a nice guy.

I have to agree with sweet on this. When most of us women hear I am " REALLY A NICE GUY" the first thing we hear is oh great here we go again. If a person was really a nice Guy/Girl why would they have to say so? This should be apparent.
I have met some really "Nice Guys" not one of them had to tell me they were "Nice Guys".


I knew a guy who always told me the kind of guy he was. He always said he was the kind of guy that would do the right thing no matter what. Whether it was the easy thing or not. He turned out to be nothing like that.

So, it isn't all nice guys. Just guys that give you these lines, yet turn out to be nothing like what they say.


Sweet this makes my point exactly.. I dont' need a person to tell me that they are a "Nice Guy", "Honorable", or for that matter any of the great qualities that most of us are looking for it will show glaringly if not right off the bat with in a few emails or dates.

I guess I must be getting jaded, in my old age. I dont' want a guy to tell me how great he is I want to find that out all by myself. I have a saying I live by "time will tell me what I want to know".


Yep, exactly. If the actions don't match the words, the words don't mean a thing.

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Mon 11/23/09 01:23 PM
Whenever someone lists what a nice guy they are I lump it in the same category as guys stating what good Christians they are. If I here that comment it sends up a red flag immediately. Let's not even get me started on "good Christian" married men that hit on me.

I put on my profile that I can be feisty when provoked and may be blunt at times but honest. I require someone that is my match. Not some yes honey guy that will go along with whatever I say. That doesn't mean that they are a**holes. It just means that they have their own opinions and viewpoints and we don't have to agree on everything.

I always watch actions. Some people can be really good at words and it can hook us in. Actions speak volumes about the type of person you are. Pay attention to actions and not words. So I want a man that stands up for his convictions, whatever they may be. He also needs to respect that I stand up for mine. That to me, is hot, and something to be attracted to.

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Mon 11/23/09 05:31 PM

Jersey Coffee Girl: Was his name Robin????


No, his name is Phil....

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