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| Topic: "Arrogant Narcissistic Conceited Jerks" Reloaded | |
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I can assure you I am who I say I am. I can assure you I'm a nice guy. I'm SO sick of that crap. Yeah, don't you love the self-assessments? They're SOOOOOOOOO valuable....! I figure it this way -- if you don't know who I am after I've made 23,000 posts, then that's not my problem. |
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I love it when men say "every woman says she wants a nice guy, but-" because I've never said I wanted a nice guy I also crack up at this, to my knowledge I can't find any woman that is worth her salt says this..We want a "real guy" most of us that has their head on straight knows there is no such thing 24/7. Great thread Lex.. |
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I love it when men say "every woman says she wants a nice guy, but-" because I've never said I wanted a nice guy I also crack up at this, to my knowledge I can't find any woman that is worth her salt says this..We want a "real guy" most of us that has their head on straight knows there is no such thing 24/7. Great thread Lex.. Exactly.
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What's "nice" got to with it?
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I love it when men say "every woman says she wants a nice guy, but-" because I've never said I wanted a nice guy I also crack up at this, to my knowledge I can't find any woman that is worth her salt says this..We want a "real guy" most of us that has their head on straight knows there is no such thing 24/7. Great thread Lex.. Exactly. The pathetic part is that this stuff even needs to be said in the first place. Let's stop pretending we're carboard cutouts pretending to be better cardboard cutouts pretending to be real people. That's what MySpace is for. |
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Perhaps the reason that guys "say" there are a nice guy, is because in alot of women's profiles it says something to the effect of, "I want a nice, sweet guy". You get what you asked for.
I mean, if I asked for "hot, redheaded or dirty blonde Bimbos need only apply to date The Goof", then I will stick to that standard. If I say I want that...guess what....I freaking want that! Look, every man and woman on this site wants to meet someone that will treat them good. However, we don't want the a-hole or beatch who will ruin us for the worse. You know what? I am gonna put the bimbo thing in my profile.  |
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Perhaps the reason that guys "say" there are a nice guy, is because in alot of women's profiles it says something to the effect of, "I want a nice, sweet guy". You get what you asked for. Which, in theory, is fine, BUT the reality is different -- the women are not really looking for a nice guy. That's something they write because a.) they think they're supposed to, and b.) that's what everybody else writes. There's some sort of reluctance to say anything real -- it's better, in their minds, to come across as totally inoffensive, totally non-shallow and non-superficial. The problem is that they end up getting contacted by people who are NOT what they want, and no connections end up being made. Here's the ironic part -- the guys who claim to be the "nice guys" because they think that's what women WANT, are almost invariably NOT actually nice guys. So, on that level, they may actually BE what the women want (i.e., NOT "nice guys") but the women are so busy accepting the guys' self-assessments that they never bother to look beneath the "nice" surface -- they just automatically reject the guy because HE has characterized HIMSELF as a "nice guy." So, they may all be rejecting the thing they actually DO want but are too afraid to admit to. If people would stop all this putzing around and just say what they mean, a lot of this idiocy could be avoided. |
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Well, at the risk of being spanked by the upper eschelon hierarchy, (I have been asked to avoid contact with you).....when it comes to being Arrogant, Narccisistic and Concieted....I have GOT to stand up and be counted. (Raising hand...."Yo!")
And now I leave in peace. Nosdrowie'! |
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Perhaps the reason that guys "say" there are a nice guy, is because in alot of women's profiles it says something to the effect of, "I want a nice, sweet guy". You get what you asked for. Which, in theory, is fine, BUT the reality is different -- the women are not really looking for a nice guy. That's something they write because a.) they think they're supposed to, and b.) that's what everybody else writes. There's some sort of reluctance to say anything real -- it's better, in their minds, to come across as totally inoffensive, totally non-shallow and non-superficial. The problem is that they end up getting contacted by people who are NOT what they want, and no connections end up being made. Here's the ironic part -- the guys who claim to be the "nice guys" because they think that's what women WANT, are almost invariably NOT actually nice guys. So, on that level, they may actually BE what the women want (i.e., NOT "nice guys") but the women are so busy accepting the guys' self-assessments that they never bother to look beneath the "nice" surface -- they just automatically reject the guy because HE has characterized HIMSELF as a "nice guy." So, they may all be rejecting the thing they actually DO want but are too afraid to admit to. If people would stop all this putzing around and just say what they mean, a lot of this idiocy could be avoided. So...to sum it up...if people would just be real, then the world would be a better place. I am so writing the bimbo comment in my profile now.
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People should worry about who they are and stop complaining about what others are, just sounds like a cry baby thread to me.
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So...to sum it up...if people would just be real, then the world would be a better place. I am so writing the bimbo comment in my profile now. Well, yeah, although my concern here is not nearly so big as whether the world, per se, would be better -- I'm just thinking about this site and the people here. And you should see some of the e-mails I get, simply because I'm not reluctant to say what I want and what I don't want. It's like I murdered somebody or something. But I'm not afraid of the "S" words -- "shallow" and "superficial." I embrace the whole concept. If it's shallow and superficial to be up front about my preferences, and to not wish to waste any time elsewhere, then I'm OK with that. |
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This is why I worship the Great Lex.  Me too. You guys are the best! Seriously....I wish there were more like you around here. Especially once we get all the shorts passed out. |
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Jersey Coffee Girl: Was his name Robin????
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Nice guys. Nice guy threads. Nice guy towels, socks, and underwear. Purina Nice Guy Chow. It's all a waste of time, people. Nice guys are....well, too nice. Boring. Safe. Passive. Non-threatening. Goatlike, in many ways, although perhaps without the horns. That's another topic for another day. I want to make it clear that I am NOT a nice guy. People have ALWAYS told me "You're really really difficult to live with." It got worse after I turned 6. OK, so for all you women who CLAIM to want a nice guy, and for all you guys who SAY "Hey, I'm a nice guy," then tell me, O Wise Ones (I'm being sarcastic here; it works better verbally but what can you do?), WHY are all of you not getting together? It's because all of you are TOO NICE to tell the truth. Yeah, that's right. That's why I can sit here and say (or type) I'm NOT a nice guy. I don't HAVE to be. I have no NEED to try to be anything for anybody. I don't CARE what they think. I will just go ON capitalizing RANDOM words FOR no reason because IT'S fun to do THAT. Wait, I got a little off-track there. Creative people, like myself, who write books and do whatever the hell else is considered creative anymore, tend to be a little bit narcissistic. I think we need that, because it spurs us on to be more creative and someday get huge movie option deals and T-shirts and coffee mugs with our books' logos on them, and then maybe get to meet important people and celebrities like Billie Piper who is British but really incredibly gorgeous anyway. As I was saying.... So don't blame me if you think being a "nice guy" will get you anywhere. Maybe it will, but if you're the kind of guy who likes to lie down in front of a door and write "WELCOME" on your shirt, people are probably going to step on you. ====================================================== All people who are creative and write books are Not narcissistic. I am a published author, including a book. 
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This is why I worship the Great Lex. Me too. You guys are the best! Seriously....I wish there were more like you around here. Especially once we get all the shorts passed out. We should add cloning to the Commandments. 
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Nice guys. Nice guy threads. Nice guy towels, socks, and underwear. Purina Nice Guy Chow. It's all a waste of time, people. Nice guys are....well, too nice. Boring. Safe. Passive. Non-threatening. Goatlike, in many ways, although perhaps without the horns. That's another topic for another day. I want to make it clear that I am NOT a nice guy. People have ALWAYS told me "You're really really difficult to live with." It got worse after I turned 6. OK, so for all you women who CLAIM to want a nice guy, and for all you guys who SAY "Hey, I'm a nice guy," then tell me, O Wise Ones (I'm being sarcastic here; it works better verbally but what can you do?), WHY are all of you not getting together? It's because all of you are TOO NICE to tell the truth. Yeah, that's right. That's why I can sit here and say (or type) I'm NOT a nice guy. I don't HAVE to be. I have no NEED to try to be anything for anybody. I don't CARE what they think. I will just go ON capitalizing RANDOM words FOR no reason because IT'S fun to do THAT. Wait, I got a little off-track there. Creative people, like myself, who write books and do whatever the hell else is considered creative anymore, tend to be a little bit narcissistic. I think we need that, because it spurs us on to be more creative and someday get huge movie option deals and T-shirts and coffee mugs with our books' logos on them, and then maybe get to meet important people and celebrities like Billie Piper who is British but really incredibly gorgeous anyway. As I was saying.... So don't blame me if you think being a "nice guy" will get you anywhere. Maybe it will, but if you're the kind of guy who likes to lie down in front of a door and write "WELCOME" on your shirt, people are probably going to step on you. ====================================================== All people who are creative and write books are Not narcissistic. I am a published author, including a book. Then you should be familiar with the term "hyperbole." |
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Edited by
freeonthree
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Sat 11/21/09 09:42 AM
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I must have ADD, ADHD, or something
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This is why I worship the Great Lex. Me too. You guys are the best! Seriously....I wish there were more like you around here. Especially once we get all the shorts passed out. We should add cloning to the Commandments. Hey, I wanna see clones, I'll go visit MySpace.... |
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I retort. I'm a nice guy who goes down on chicks, tickles them with feathers, rubs butter on thier nipples, gives them oily massages, and pays close attention to thier ticklish nerve endings for hours until my back gives out. What's wrong with me? I get mine in the end and I strike a fair balance. It's fun to be good, and there's nothing like making a woman smile. Us romantic's are a dieng breed.
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