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| Topic: should you stop talking to your ex because your girlfriend | |
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My other ex hated any girl that would talk to me, as a matter of fact she would threaten any girl that would talk to me. and even though this girl was magazine quality, this is when I learned looks will never be the sole determining factor of a relationship for me ever again! That type of jealousy drove me away far away! lol Damn...is this the same girl we talking about?  just kidding...sounds the same 2 me...but 1 problem..she still call my home phone and threaten me daily (I wouldn't keep it,if it's not 4 my dsl line), one different tho' this girl is reaaaallllyyy ugly and undesireable (don't even want 2 sleep with her if I am lesbian), but she still call like a STUPID IDIOT..make it worst, she sent mails 2 my house telling me 2 stop being friend with him or else (he's d 1 who calls, NOT me..she FORGOT that) shame this woman is acting the fool - if she has a beef at all it's not with you but with her man. Were it me, I'd let her know not to call again as I would report her telephone calls as harrassing and threatening to the cops. another question, why isn't your friend handling this? I did report her calls and mails, but doesn't do any good  ,maybe one day it will...who knows; I don't know why he doesn't want 2 handle this problem...I beg him 2 do so, but he's just a BUTT-HEAD I guess, or maybe he told her we're sleeping 2gether I don't know; no..no..I don't sleep with him, even if he wants 2...just can't...the distance doesn't let him (unless he got a realllly long one  )and he's realllllly FAT now...I don't think I can breath under him and if I'm on top he'll have a heart attack  ...don't worry...I'll have my shot guns ready incase she shows up    just kidding  girl good for you, gotta keep the sense of humor going It is his problem, his girlfriend, his dilemna - not yours F^%&( her if she can't take a joke - Where it me I'd be feeding her wrong info, like he's here with me now, he just left, guess what I just got... but then again, never said I was nice 
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I'd rather she talk to her x than to her parole officer or credit collecting agencies.
And I wish she should wish it the same way for me, if she was me, and I was her. Or the other way around. |
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girl good for you, gotta keep the sense of humor going It is his problem, his girlfriend, his dilemna - not yours F^%&( her if she can't take a joke - Where it me I'd be feeding her wrong info, like he's here with me now, he just left, guess what I just got... but then again, never said I was nice I like your suggestion  , yeahhh...u rigt...I should screw up with her head since she still calling (last nite..I didn't answer like always just let her talk 2 machine), and her boyfriend left yesterday (she said so)...hemmmm...what a great idea...  ...thanx a lot...promise I won't blame u  if she get wacko...I think it's time fo me to be realllly naughty....   
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depends upon the approach,,,ultimatums never work for me so
'stop talking to your ex or,,,,," would insure I kept talking to my ex. But 'I feel very uncomfortable that you are still bonding with your ex' would cause me to reconsider the ex relationship. |
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i dont deal with ex's thats just weird n disrespectful to the current one
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girl good for you, gotta keep the sense of humor going It is his problem, his girlfriend, his dilemna - not yours F^%&( her if she can't take a joke - Where it me I'd be feeding her wrong info, like he's here with me now, he just left, guess what I just got... but then again, never said I was nice I like your suggestion , yeahhh...u rigt...I should screw up with her head since she still calling (last nite..I didn't answer like always just let her talk 2 machine), and her boyfriend left yesterday (she said so)...hemmmm...what a great idea... ...thanx a lot...promise I won't blame u if she get wacko...I think it's time fo me to be realllly naughty.... or just answer your phone and tell her, hold on let me get him for you!!! call back in 5 he's almost finished with me (while moaning)  OHH I can go on and on... |
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I'd rather she talk to her x than to her parole officer or credit collecting agencies. parole officer????? auuuuchhhhh...  collection agencies??? hemmmmm....Yikes 
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i dont deal with ex's thats just weird n disrespectful to the current one I can understand if the ex is just ex and never been friend before, but in my case, we've been best friend "only" since I was 13 (that's when dinosaurs just started to roam the earth ) and after I broke-up with him we're still friend, untill his new gf float to the surface and cause all kind of problems for me...I don't care if she cause problems for him...
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or just answer your phone and tell her, hold on let me get him for you!!! call back in 5 he's almost finished with me (while moaning) OHH I can go on and on... Damnnnnn....you're realllly naughty....but it makes me laugh..that's all I care... Anyway...keep the sugestion coming....I'm sure I can benefit on some of them at least...well..maybe ALL??  BTW...u know u shouldn't be naughty around x-mas time... |
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or just answer your phone and tell her, hold on let me get him for you!!! call back in 5 he's almost finished with me (while moaning) OHH I can go on and on... Damnnnnn....you're realllly naughty....but it makes me laugh..that's all I care... Anyway...keep the sugestion coming....I'm sure I can benefit on some of them at least...well..maybe ALL?? BTW...u know u shouldn't be naughty around x-mas time... good girls get gifts naughty girls get everything else |
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...like diseases, children,, labels.....
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...like diseases, children,, labels..... wrong, so wrong on so many counts  |
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Well....my divorce has been pretty amicable. We have two kids, one who is 18 and lives with me, the other is a minor and still lives with her. We still co-own the house.....So communication and contact while not frequent all the time, there are times when we seem to interact more than others. It's just the way it is for now....I expect that after the youngest goes away to college and the house is sold contact will be quite minimal.
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or just answer your phone and tell her, hold on let me get him for you!!! call back in 5 he's almost finished with me (while moaning) OHH I can go on and on... Damnnnnn....you're realllly naughty....but it makes me laugh..that's all I care... Anyway...keep the sugestion coming....I'm sure I can benefit on some of them at least...well..maybe ALL?? BTW...u know u shouldn't be naughty around x-mas time... good girls get gifts naughty girls get everything else And then there are chicks like Fran, who get to keep the pet midget. |
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or just answer your phone and tell her, hold on let me get him for you!!! call back in 5 he's almost finished with me (while moaning) OHH I can go on and on... Damnnnnn....you're realllly naughty....but it makes me laugh..that's all I care... Anyway...keep the sugestion coming....I'm sure I can benefit on some of them at least...well..maybe ALL?? BTW...u know u shouldn't be naughty around x-mas time... good girls get gifts naughty girls get everything else And then there are chicks like Fran, who get to keep the pet midget. sad but true, I am the mighty midget magnet
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Edited by
Smileycoll
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Wed 12/09/09 10:42 AM
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Okay...I know not all of you keep your friendship alive after you broke up with your "once upon a time the love of your life"  , but for those who still keep in touch with their ex's...would and should you let your current boy/girlfriend stop you from talking to your ex? It depends upon the relationship. Personally, if I dont have a ring on my finger, noone gets input as to who my friends are. In the case of engagement or marriage, however, my partner and I should be able to discuss what is important to us and most likely I would not completely cut off a friend but because of the sensitive nature of someone being an ex lover, I would not initiate contact with them anymore except to explain that it made my partner too uncomfortable. |
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Okay...I know not all of you keep your friendship alive after you broke up with your "once upon a time the love of your life" , but for those who still keep in touch with their ex's...would and should you let your current boy/girlfriend stop you from talking to your ex? It depends upon the relationship. Personally, if I dont have a ring on my finger, noone gets input as to who my friends are. In the case of engagement or marriage, however, my partner and I should be able to discuss what is important to us and most likely I would not completely cut off a friend but because of the sensitive nature of someone being an ex lover, I would not initiate contact with them anymore except to explain that it made my partner too uncomfortable. you would cease being friends with an ex because of a ring? What happened to trust? or does the trust go out the window when the ring is introduced? |
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Okay...I know not all of you keep your friendship alive after you broke up with your "once upon a time the love of your life" , but for those who still keep in touch with their ex's...would and should you let your current boy/girlfriend stop you from talking to your ex? It depends upon the relationship. Personally, if I dont have a ring on my finger, noone gets input as to who my friends are. In the case of engagement or marriage, however, my partner and I should be able to discuss what is important to us and most likely I would not completely cut off a friend but because of the sensitive nature of someone being an ex lover, I would not initiate contact with them anymore except to explain that it made my partner too uncomfortable. you would cease being friends with an ex because of a ring? What happened to trust? or does the trust go out the window when the ring is introduced? |
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Okay...I know not all of you keep your friendship alive after you broke up with your "once upon a time the love of your life" , but for those who still keep in touch with their ex's...would and should you let your current boy/girlfriend stop you from talking to your ex? It depends upon the relationship. Personally, if I dont have a ring on my finger, noone gets input as to who my friends are. In the case of engagement or marriage, however, my partner and I should be able to discuss what is important to us and most likely I would not completely cut off a friend but because of the sensitive nature of someone being an ex lover, I would not initiate contact with them anymore except to explain that it made my partner too uncomfortable. you would cease being friends with an ex because of a ring? What happened to trust? or does the trust go out the window when the ring is introduced? Two people cannot become one - they are two individuals with common interests, goals, purposes but they are never one (jmo) The ring should not make it any easier nor harder to sit across from one's EX-bf/gf, who slept with your husband/wife. |
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you would cease being friends with an ex because of a ring? What happened to trust? or does the trust go out the window when the ring is introduced? Two people cannot become one - they are two individuals with common interests, goals, purposes but they are never one (jmo) The ring should not make it any easier nor harder to sit across from one's EX-bf/gf, who slept with your husband/wife. I agree...unless u r like sauron...  try to rule things with the ring and let darkness binds them... |
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