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Topic: Too boring for most?!
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Thu 12/10/09 10:01 PM
Damn, Sometimes I think I should join the club.
Lie like crazy to attract a partner.

My life in a nutshell,
I have a good job, Southern attire, serious but joke a lot to avoid most stress, somewhat of a home body, remodeling my home is my biggest joy at the moment, Love to take something that looks like crap and make it look new again, so... between work and remodeling it don't leave a lot of free time.
I don't need to get drunk to enjoy life.
Dinning out is a treat not something I do often.
I tell it like it is, and not into bs..ing just to find someone.
They can take me as I am or keep walking.

That said....
Seems all of the women I have met want the BS.
As if the more a guy can lie and make himself appear to be such a catch, Even if it is CLEARLY bull...thats the one she wants.

Is reality and down to earth really such bad traits in a guy??

IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 12/10/09 10:03 PM
Sooooooo what about how you described yourself makes you boring or a bad catch?

Ohhhhhhh the one's that want to be wined and dined and jewelry, etc? Aren't those the one's you'd rather avoid???flowerforyou

Katzenschnauzer's photo
Thu 12/10/09 10:04 PM
It seems like men like you always live over 500 miles from me!grumble sad

CatsLoveMe's photo
Thu 12/10/09 10:06 PM
I always wondered, if you lied and told them you were an astronaut or a doctor, and then the truth be told after that magical moment, what would their reaction be? Maybe more people can love people for who they are, not what they do, or how much they make. If the case is the latter, then I need a really hot sugar-mama to make me happy and buy me stuff.:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

Jill298's photo
Thu 12/10/09 10:07 PM
trying my hardest to figure out why anyone would wanna try and attract someone that wants them to be someone else? huh that seems like a disaster waiting to happen.

CatsLoveMe's photo
Thu 12/10/09 10:08 PM

It seems like men like you always live over 500 miles from me!grumble sad


You know, Katz, they really do have some great super-saver deals on Southwest and Frontier these days.laugh

IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 12/10/09 10:08 PM

trying my hardest to figure out why anyone would wanna try and attract someone that wants them to be someone else? huh that seems like a disaster waiting to happen.



Shhhh don't tell..

Jill298's photo
Thu 12/10/09 10:09 PM


trying my hardest to figure out why anyone would wanna try and attract someone that wants them to be someone else? huh that seems like a disaster waiting to happen.



Shhhh don't tell..
ooh sorry ohwell

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Thu 12/10/09 10:09 PM

Sooooooo what about how you described yourself makes you boring or a bad catch?

Ohhhhhhh the one's that want to be wined and dined and jewelry, etc? Aren't those the one's you'd rather avoid???flowerforyou


That was my question happy
But the truth sure make women run the other way pretty fast,
I don't understand it myself.

Is like women was the fantasy world??
Hell.. even the drunk unemployed bum down the street usually has women hanging around.
Go figure!!


Jill298's photo
Thu 12/10/09 10:10 PM


Sooooooo what about how you described yourself makes you boring or a bad catch?

Ohhhhhhh the one's that want to be wined and dined and jewelry, etc? Aren't those the one's you'd rather avoid???flowerforyou


That was my question happy
But the truth sure make women run the other way pretty fast,
I don't understand it myself.

Is like women was the fantasy world??
Hell.. even the drunk unemployed bum down the street usually has women hanging around.
Go figure!!


maybe they run because self pity is very unattractive...

IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 12/10/09 10:10 PM
Then let those women have those guys... Not all women are that way.. It's the special one that will stand out and be the one...

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Thu 12/10/09 10:12 PM

trying my hardest to figure out why anyone would wanna try and attract someone that wants them to be someone else? huh that seems like a disaster waiting to happen.


Thats it, just waiting to find that right someone else!
I can't lie and roll play.

Jill298's photo
Thu 12/10/09 10:13 PM


trying my hardest to figure out why anyone would wanna try and attract someone that wants them to be someone else? huh that seems like a disaster waiting to happen.


Thats it, just waiting to find that right someone else!
I can't lie and roll play.

well... then don't laugh it's really that simple.

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Thu 12/10/09 10:14 PM

It seems like men like you always live over 500 miles from me!grumble sad


Aint that the truth!
Usually when I find one that catches my interest.. she is hundreds of miles awayfrustrated

Jill298's photo
Thu 12/10/09 10:14 PM
You would be surprised at some of the little random things that are attractive to some women. If you're not being yourself, you won't find someone who is genuinely attracted to you.

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Thu 12/10/09 10:16 PM



Sooooooo what about how you described yourself makes you boring or a bad catch?

Ohhhhhhh the one's that want to be wined and dined and jewelry, etc? Aren't those the one's you'd rather avoid???flowerforyou


That was my question happy
But the truth sure make women run the other way pretty fast,
I don't understand it myself.

Is like women was the fantasy world??
Hell.. even the drunk unemployed bum down the street usually has women hanging around.
Go figure!!


maybe they run because self pity is very unattractive...


Self pity hardlylaugh
Id be a damn good catch and wont just settle for the first gal that comes along.

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Thu 12/10/09 10:20 PM

You would be surprised at some of the little random things that are attractive to some women. If you're not being yourself, you won't find someone who is genuinely attracted to you.


So maybe just a toolbelt would worklaugh

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Thu 12/10/09 10:21 PM

Then let those women have those guys... Not all women are that way.. It's the special one that will stand out and be the one...

You are right there, none of them are the type I would want.

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Thu 12/10/09 10:23 PM
Edited by Dan99 on Thu 12/10/09 10:23 PM

Damn, Sometimes I think I should join the club.
Lie like crazy to attract a partner.

My life in a nutshell,
I have a good job, Southern attire, serious but joke a lot to avoid most stress, somewhat of a home body, remodeling my home is my biggest joy at the moment, Love to take something that looks like crap and make it look new again, so... between work and remodeling it don't leave a lot of free time.
I don't need to get drunk to enjoy life.
Dinning out is a treat not something I do often.
I tell it like it is, and not into bs..ing just to find someone.
They can take me as I am or keep walking.

That said....
Seems all of the women I have met want the BS.
As if the more a guy can lie and make himself appear to be such a catch, Even if it is CLEARLY bull...thats the one she wants.

Is reality and down to earth really such bad traits in a guy??


You sound like you are a nice guy..

Jill298's photo
Thu 12/10/09 10:25 PM


Damn, Sometimes I think I should join the club.
Lie like crazy to attract a partner.

My life in a nutshell,
I have a good job, Southern attire, serious but joke a lot to avoid most stress, somewhat of a home body, remodeling my home is my biggest joy at the moment, Love to take something that looks like crap and make it look new again, so... between work and remodeling it don't leave a lot of free time.
I don't need to get drunk to enjoy life.
Dinning out is a treat not something I do often.
I tell it like it is, and not into bs..ing just to find someone.
They can take me as I am or keep walking.

That said....
Seems all of the women I have met want the BS.
As if the more a guy can lie and make himself appear to be such a catch, Even if it is CLEARLY bull...thats the one she wants.

Is reality and down to earth really such bad traits in a guy??


You sound like you are a nice guy..
damnit dan... I was just gonna say that

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