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Topic: Constant negative threads...
Shasta1's photo
Fri 12/11/09 12:30 PM
Whats up with these people? Pity parties, negative 'I don't like and why should there be because it doesn't suit me' sort of things constantly? I really feel bad for them that their attitude is so bad about life. We've all got it rough but am getting to the point of simply suggesting 'honey...maybe you need therapy'.
We should have one of those signs instead of 'off topic' saying 'NO WHINING!!!!!!!. A vent or rant is one thing but every new topic they post???
Get a grip people! If your not part of the solution, your a part of the problem.

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 12/11/09 12:32 PM
Because we would have nothing to fight about if we didn't! noway

:wink: flowerforyou

Jill298's photo
Fri 12/11/09 12:32 PM
why are you being so negative against the negative people? :wink:

Jill298's photo
Fri 12/11/09 12:32 PM
positive isn't very news worthy. lol check the news I promise, there's nothing nice on there either.

misstina2's photo
Fri 12/11/09 12:43 PM
flowerforyou I think the negative thread makers will read this and never make a negative thread againflowerforyou thank you so muchflowerforyou

no photo
Fri 12/11/09 12:43 PM
I think I did read those.:angel:

samgem's photo
Fri 12/11/09 12:52 PM

positive isn't very news worthy. lol check the news I promise, there's nothing nice on there either.


LOL very true

Shasta1's photo
Fri 12/11/09 12:59 PM

positive isn't very news worthy. lol check the news I promise, there's nothing nice on there either.


Life is difficult, I rarely watch the news, it's not 'news' so to speak but more of the same..and it's rarely objective.

Shasta1's photo
Fri 12/11/09 12:59 PM
Edited by Shasta1 on Fri 12/11/09 01:00 PM
I wonder if they will recognize themselves.

no photo
Fri 12/11/09 01:02 PM
Doubtful change will come at all, a chronic b!tcher will always be a b!tcher.

TxsSun's photo
Fri 12/11/09 01:04 PM
waving Welcome to the wonderful world of internet dating

CatsLoveMe's photo
Fri 12/11/09 01:14 PM
well if it's not a negative post, it's often a sweeping generalization.

no photo
Fri 12/11/09 01:16 PM
I have to admit,I have been reading alot of neg., almost rude posts.

Makes you wonder, who left the door open.surprised scared

Shasta1's photo
Fri 12/11/09 01:25 PM

I have to admit,I have been reading alot of neg., almost rude posts.

Makes you wonder, who left the door open.surprised scared


Would someone find that door and close it please?flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 12/11/09 01:28 PM
:angel:

Shasta1's photo
Fri 12/11/09 01:29 PM

flowerforyou I think the negative thread makers will read this and never make a negative thread againflowerforyou thank you so muchflowerforyou

We hope.....sometimes the last thing negative people see is their own negativity. The more they focus on it, the more it comes to them.
Some get sucked into it for awhile and see that and make changes....self awareness takes practice.

no photo
Fri 12/11/09 01:30 PM
They are here....mingling among us.scared scared scared

LashV1200's photo
Fri 12/11/09 01:34 PM

why are you being so negative against the negative people? :wink:


:laughing:

People of the corporate world after everyday hooray of expressing their overwhelming positive attitude are seeking balance. Mingle is a perfect place to be Mr. Hyde for Dr. Jekyll, unless the one is looking for a date. In the latter case Mr. Hyde promotes oneself as Dr. Jekyll.

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 12/11/09 01:44 PM
People in an unhappy place lives in that place (even if it's just a short time) Some people just vent and when they do, they can vent a lot.


no photo
Fri 12/11/09 02:23 PM

Whats up with these people? Pity parties, negative 'I don't like and why should there be because it doesn't suit me' sort of things constantly? I really feel bad for them that their attitude is so bad about life. We've all got it rough but am getting to the point of simply suggesting 'honey...maybe you need therapy'.
We should have one of those signs instead of 'off topic' saying 'NO WHINING!!!!!!!. A vent or rant is one thing but every new topic they post???
Get a grip people! If your not part of the solution, your a part of the problem.


There's an ebb and flow to forums, a cycle if you will. It will pass. I think perhaps right now some people may be finding the holidays hard to cope with for various reasons.

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