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Hate to sound harsh here, but truth is, this situation is not going to go anywhere for either of you. Yes, he makes you feel special via chats, emails, and blah blah blah. I am sure you do the same for him. Give it two months, and things will change. Or, you two need to figure out a way to meet and see what happens.
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 okay so i have meet a great guy and we both have feelings for each other and everything but we live so far apart hes spain i am in canada. we had agreed to be friends but now we both know theres so much more there than friends. i cant move there because i have kids and court order to stay close to there fathers. he cant come here because he has a business there so we say we well leave it to god but i just dont know if i have the faith in all this just happening on its own. any advice ??????? Life is not a love story. That is the only bit of advice I can give you that will hopefully pull you off the false hope that "it happened in the movie, it can happen in real life...right?" motto. Life sucks, buy a dog.  Cats are better. 
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okay so i have meet a great guy and we both have feelings for each other and everything but we live so far apart hes spain i am in canada. we had agreed to be friends but now we both know theres so much more there than friends. i cant move there because i have kids and court order to stay close to there fathers. he cant come here because he has a business there so we say we well leave it to god but i just dont know if i have the faith in all this just happening on its own. any advice ??????? Life is not a love story. That is the only bit of advice I can give you that will hopefully pull you off the false hope that "it happened in the movie, it can happen in real life...right?" motto. Life sucks, buy a dog. Cats are better. My dog could take your cat.
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okay so i have meet a great guy and we both have feelings for each other and everything but we live so far apart hes spain i am in canada. we had agreed to be friends but now we both know theres so much more there than friends. i cant move there because i have kids and court order to stay close to there fathers. he cant come here because he has a business there so we say we well leave it to god but i just dont know if i have the faith in all this just happening on its own. any advice ??????? Life is not a love story. That is the only bit of advice I can give you that will hopefully pull you off the false hope that "it happened in the movie, it can happen in real life...right?" motto. Life sucks, buy a dog. Cats are better. My dog could take your cat. I'd like to see him try. Btw, do you think my new default will work the way I want it to? 
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okay so i have meet a great guy and we both have feelings for each other and everything but we live so far apart hes spain i am in canada. we had agreed to be friends but now we both know theres so much more there than friends. i cant move there because i have kids and court order to stay close to there fathers. he cant come here because he has a business there so we say we well leave it to god but i just dont know if i have the faith in all this just happening on its own. any advice ??????? Life is not a love story. That is the only bit of advice I can give you that will hopefully pull you off the false hope that "it happened in the movie, it can happen in real life...right?" motto. Life sucks, buy a dog. Cats are better. My dog could take your cat. I'd like to see him try. Btw, do you think my new default will work the way I want it to? Probably not.
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Edited by
Calleigh12
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Tue 12/15/09 02:01 AM
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okay so i have meet a great guy and we both have feelings for each other and everything but we live so far apart hes spain i am in canada. we had agreed to be friends but now we both know theres so much more there than friends. i cant move there because i have kids and court order to stay close to there fathers. he cant come here because he has a business there so we say we well leave it to god but i just dont know if i have the faith in all this just happening on its own. any advice ??????? Life is not a love story. That is the only bit of advice I can give you that will hopefully pull you off the false hope that "it happened in the movie, it can happen in real life...right?" motto. Life sucks, buy a dog. Cats are better. My dog could take your cat. I'd like to see him try. Btw, do you think my new default will work the way I want it to? Probably not. ah come on, it has to work! who in their right mind could find that pic attractive??? Pfft, you might be right, so many desperate idiots out there. Back to my nerdy pic, woot woot! 
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So when I first returned to the dating world I 'met' a very nice lady. We emailed 4-5 times a day, just chat in general. This goes on for 2 months. When my divorce is finally final we meet for coffee....................................... "A few extra lbs". was about 100 more than me. Still a sweet person and I would have gone out with her again, but no romantic connection. Across the ocean and all the other stuff, stay home and take care of self and kids first. And the OP has average. Just saying. 
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you know a lot of you think i don't listen to the things said and i do i don't want to fail again i just want to find a good man that wont hurt my kids and well be good to us i really don't want to be hurt either but i really want my kids to be safe they are number one and i don't think that this crush will go past being a crush because as days go on i know i don't want to leave my family behind to be with a man because over the last 4 years i have learnt that no matter what i do my family has been there and if not my family my friends and if i walk away from all this i got what a man that could just up and walk away like they always do so yes i changed my mind with a little help from some of you and some on my own i still talk to him every day but i told him its going to be just friends or nothing and he was okay with friends. i have had to just stop think and make some wiser decisions for my kids.
i did not plan my life this way but i love my kid and they are my world they come first over everyone even my self some times people say that i have to take care of me first to take care of my kids maybe thats my problem i just try to keep going for my kids. thanks to you all really this has opened my eyes. and its not easy for me to live like this just me my kids. my family well help me when they have to but they dont come around much its me and my kids every day and the only time i get a conversation with adults is on line or the phone with the few friends i have. i am a shy person so i dont meet new people well i am not so shy on line. just dont know anymore |
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This situation is exactly why I love the mail settings feature..there is really no point in getting to know someone so far away knowing that 9 times out of 10 neither of you can move to be with the other..much easier to just focus on things you think MIGHT have a chance of being possible someday..cuts down on the broken hearts and tears!
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This situation is exactly why I love the mail settings feature..there is really no point in getting to know someone so far away knowing that 9 times out of 10 neither of you can move to be with the other..much easier to just focus on things you think MIGHT have a chance of being possible someday..cuts down on the broken hearts and tears! Well said. 
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