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Topic: mom or dads this year for x-mas
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Sun 12/20/09 06:18 PM
were are your kids this year with you or your ex ??

i got to say this is hard for me this year is the first year my daughter is at her dads and not with me and her brother for the holidays.

not in the christmas mood tears

cherie091279's photo
Sun 12/20/09 06:23 PM
My kids will be with me until noon on Christmas and then my oldest will go to their dad's and my youngest will be with me. They were both suppose to go, but my youngest broke her leg Friday, so she will be home with me.

mry's photo
Sun 12/20/09 06:25 PM
My son is spending Christmas Eve with me and his Grandparents at my house and Christmas Day at is dads house.

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Sun 12/20/09 06:27 PM

My kids will be with me until noon on Christmas and then my oldest will go to their dad's and my youngest will be with me. They were both suppose to go, but my youngest broke her leg Friday, so she will be home with me.


aww hope her leg gets better soon thats a bad Christmas gift.


i cant wait till the 26 then both kids well be with me and my family. i dont want to sound selfish i am glad she gets to spend this year with her dad and his wife and here 2 brothers and sister there am sure she will have fun.

Etrain's photo
Sun 12/20/09 06:28 PM
Both will be for me as always for Christmas...then the day after, the youngest will go with his Mom for a couple days which is good cause I need a breakfrustrated frustrated frustrated

misstina2's photo
Sun 12/20/09 06:34 PM
Edited by misstina2 on Sun 12/20/09 06:35 PM
their dad don't care its Christmas

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Sun 12/20/09 06:39 PM

their dad don't care its Christmas


am so sorry for you and your kids there was a time when i wished my kids dads would just walk away sing over all rights but now am so glad they are involved in every bit of the kids lives guess i remember my dad not caring or being around dont want it for my kids

beachbum069's photo
Sun 12/20/09 06:41 PM
My son will be with me from Dec 23-Jan 3:thumbsup:

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Sun 12/20/09 06:44 PM
I have my kids with me 24/7 365 days a yr :) would'nt want it any other way! could'nt imagine having to spend a Christmas with out them...

Quietman_2009's photo
Sun 12/20/09 06:49 PM
Edited by Quietman_2009 on Sun 12/20/09 06:51 PM
nope no kids

I never had kids

so to make up for it I like to dress up as Santa Claus. big pillow under my shirt and the red outfit and a fake white beard

and I go to the childrens hospital and the orphanages and play santa

and I yell "RAAAAAWWWWWWWRRRRRR SANTA'S GONNA EAT YOU!!!!"

and chase those terrified screaming kids around


I figure that ought to traumatize em enough to need therapy the rest of their lives

and then I go home and drink eggnog and smoke cigars and chuckle over it

Riardo's photo
Sun 12/20/09 06:49 PM

I have my kids with me 24/7 365 days a yr :) would'nt want it any other way! could'nt imagine having to spend a Christmas with out them...
they need there dad to so you know ....biggrin

Riardo's photo
Sun 12/20/09 06:50 PM

nope no kids

I never had kids

so to make up for it I like to dress up as Santa Claus. big pillow under my shirt and the red outfit and a fake white beard

and I go to the childrens hosptal and the orphanages and play santa

and I yell "RAAAAAWWWWWWWRRRRRR SANTA'S GONNA EAT YOU!!!!"

and chase those terrified screaming kids around


I figure that ought to traumatize em enough to need therapy the rest of their lives

and then I go home and drink eggnog and smoke cigars and chuckle over it
haha

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Sun 12/20/09 06:52 PM
Always with me.Unless he wants ta leave.Then i ship him to illinoisblushing

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Sun 12/20/09 07:04 PM


I have my kids with me 24/7 365 days a yr :) would'nt want it any other way! could'nt imagine having to spend a Christmas with out them...
they need there dad to so you know ....biggrin
haveing a father in the picture is so important so I understand :smile: unfortunately for my kids he doesnt want to be involved....

BlondegalNC's photo
Sun 12/20/09 07:05 PM


I have my kids with me 24/7 365 days a yr :) would'nt want it any other way! could'nt imagine having to spend a Christmas with out them...
they need there dad to so you know ....biggrin

My twins' dad left when I was 7 months preg.He has not seen them since they were 1 1/2.They will be 14 next month.My Mom will be coming over to be with us!

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 12/20/09 07:07 PM
My boys are with me and always have been...

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Sun 12/20/09 07:18 PM



I have my kids with me 24/7 365 days a yr :) would'nt want it any other way! could'nt imagine having to spend a Christmas with out them...
they need there dad to so you know ....biggrin

My twins' dad left when I was 7 months preg.He has not seen them since they were 1 1/2.They will be 14 next month.My Mom will be coming over to be with us!
I cant understand how fathers can just walk away like it means nothing? I couldnt imagine living with out them in my life, It's there loss but at the same time it is so hard to see our children get hurt by it. i got my son a big brother so at least he has a strong male role modle:smile:

BlondegalNC's photo
Sun 12/20/09 07:22 PM
They don't have a Big Brother/Big Sister program anywhere around here.But since they do not know or remember him...can't miss what ya ain't never had.The Lord has a plan for us all,and a reason for everything.Even when we do not understand what it is.

Etrain's photo
Sun 12/20/09 07:24 PM




I have my kids with me 24/7 365 days a yr :) would'nt want it any other way! could'nt imagine having to spend a Christmas with out them...
they need there dad to so you know ....biggrin

My twins' dad left when I was 7 months preg.He has not seen them since they were 1 1/2.They will be 14 next month.My Mom will be coming over to be with us!
I cant understand how fathers can just walk away like it means nothing? I couldnt imagine living with out them in my life, It's there loss but at the same time it is so hard to see our children get hurt by it. i got my son a big brother so at least he has a strong male role modle:smile:

Its a sad, selfish world we live in. My ex wife picks up the youngest once a month if that, and the oldest, not at all...shes to busy you seefrustrated frustrated frustrated

rose27's photo
Sun 12/20/09 07:25 PM
Their dad's. tears

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