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Don't have any expectations for the first date. Other than that, relax a bit and have a good time. As for those who have someone call them during the date.. if my date answered the phone during the first date, I'd be kind of turned off. If I heard anyone ever uses the colors blue orred in a phone conversation, I'd be livid |
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I have a friend call me at the 15 minute mark of the date. Now, I act like it is an important call, and within the first sentence, I issues one of two code words. If I mention "blue", all is well and the date continues. If I mention "red", then I start to get all wigged out on the phone because my friend will tell me that my PS3 is in a coma. Of course, once I hang up the phone, I tell my date that my friend just got hit by a semi truck, but he is ok, but I must leave. So basically...if a woman figures out how to convince me she isn't insane be 15 minutes, she is golden. So far, my operation has been successful. OMG! And, I have been worried sick about your friend ever since our date! Me too.....ummmmm.....yeah....he hasn't woke up yet....soooooooo.... You are EVIL! Hey, ya wanna help me out with some assasinations? I'm getting a little behind and I could use some help. |
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I have a friend call me at the 15 minute mark of the date. Now, I act like it is an important call, and within the first sentence, I issues one of two code words. If I mention "blue", all is well and the date continues. If I mention "red", then I start to get all wigged out on the phone because my friend will tell me that my PS3 is in a coma. Of course, once I hang up the phone, I tell my date that my friend just got hit by a semi truck, but he is ok, but I must leave. So basically...if a woman figures out how to convince me she isn't insane be 15 minutes, she is golden. So far, my operation has been successful. OMG! And, I have been worried sick about your friend ever since our date! Me too.....ummmmm.....yeah....he hasn't woke up yet....soooooooo.... You are EVIL! Hey, ya wanna help me out with some assasinations? I'm getting a little behind and I could use some help. Of course I will help. Assassinations make me all gooey inside. |
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Of course I will help. Assassinations make me all gooey inside. Me too. But, after that I'm not speaking to you again! |
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Of course I will help. Assassinations make me all gooey inside. Me too. But, after that I'm not speaking to you again! But...but..... |
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Edited by
KeepingTheFaith
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Thu 12/31/09 09:10 AM
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Don't have any expectations for the first date. Other than that, relax a bit and have a good time. As for those who have someone call them during the date.. if my date answered the phone during the first date, I'd be kind of turned off. If I heard anyone ever uses the colors blue orred in a phone conversation, I'd be livid Well, I'd see right through Goofball's "code," but because I hang out with alot of political dorks, hearing red or blue would NOT be out of the norm for me!! LOL.... |
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Yep, I don't date, that keeps me pretty safe.
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I let someone else know I'm going out.
I keep my phone with me at all times (on silent... i don't text or call during a date. that = rude) No alcohol, no sex, etc. etc. Who would honestly believe that your friend got hit by a semi-truck, and that he's okay? He would be in intensive care. :/ I would be kind of upset and worried about him afterwards... |
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Are there any rules or guidelines you stick to for a first date Yeah I have a few. I tell someone where I am going. I keep my cell phone handy I keep the meeting in a very public place. I don't allow alot of physical contact on the first meet and greet. I look at meet and greets as just that then I figure we both will decide if we want to date. I dont' share alot of personal info on my family etc. I dont' drink on the first meet and greet want a clear head. I think the biggest one of all I don't expect anymore than to put a face in the physical sense to the person I have been talking to and webcamming with. I do print out a still shot of the last webcam session since if that isn't teh person that shows up there is no meet and greet. yeah had that happen once or twice s omeone not looking like their pictures |
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I always let someone know where, when and who I am meeting and this is after many emails, and phone calls. I also show a few friends the actual profile so that way the person can be traced by the website to the IP adress. I know I watch a lot of CSI but it is helpful.
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