Topic: What is wrong with me?
PurpleIris82's photo
Fri 01/08/10 10:04 PM
The only people who seem interested in me are ones who are 40 or over. I'm only 27, and not interested in someone so close to my parents' ages. I don't get why people my age aren't interested in me.

How should I change my profile to get people interested?

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Fri 01/08/10 10:08 PM

The only people who seem interested in me are ones who are 40 or over. I'm only 27, and not interested in someone so close to my parents' ages. I don't get why people my age aren't interested in me.

How should I change my profile to get people interested?

flowerforyou I would tell you,,,but,,,,THEN.....

You would see me as one of them old parent types and think I was hitting on ya....So,,,,,I must go rest,,,,and sit down for a bit,,
sorry,,,,its my,,,,,,aging bones and b-------------o-dy.....:wink:

EmmieCee's photo
Fri 01/08/10 10:14 PM
I have the same thing happening, I think that they are just reaching, trying to recapture the tenacity of their youth, a suggestion, try taking to guys who are around your age, dont be afraid to reach out, you are a pretty woman, and you seem, from what I can tell, nice!
Best of luck!
-Emmie

JustAGuy2112's photo
Fri 01/08/10 10:17 PM
Edited by JustAGuy2112 on Fri 01/08/10 10:18 PM

The only people who seem interested in me are ones who are 40 or over. I'm only 27, and not interested in someone so close to my parents' ages. I don't get why people my age aren't interested in me.

How should I change my profile to get people interested?


Never mind.

I was gonna suggest using the email filters, but I see you already have them set up.

PurpleIris82's photo
Fri 01/08/10 10:23 PM
I didn't mean to imply that there was something wrong with people over 40, I just don't feel comfortable with the age difference, (I would totally go for Vincent D'Onofrio if I met him, and he's my dad's age)I just won't have anything in common with someone only nine years younger than my mom.

So I actually do want to know what I should do to improve my profile.

PurpleIris82's photo
Fri 01/08/10 10:27 PM

I have the same thing happening, I think that they are just reaching, trying to recapture the tenacity of their youth, a suggestion, try taking to guys who are around your age, dont be afraid to reach out, you are a pretty woman, and you seem, from what I can tell, nice!
Best of luck!
-Emmie


Thanks for saying I'm pretty. Being the first to make the move makes me nervous, but I'll try to do it more often. Thanks

Aries151's photo
Fri 01/08/10 10:41 PM

I didn't mean to imply that there was something wrong with people over 40, I just don't feel comfortable with the age difference, (I would totally go for Vincent D'Onofrio if I met him, and he's my dad's age)I just won't have anything in common with someone only nine years younger than my mom.

So I actually do want to know what I should do to improve my profile.


I have noticed that cleavage shots seem to work for some women on here......

FaithfulOne78's photo
Fri 01/08/10 11:13 PM


I didn't mean to imply that there was something wrong with people over 40, I just don't feel comfortable with the age difference, (I would totally go for Vincent D'Onofrio if I met him, and he's my dad's age)I just won't have anything in common with someone only nine years younger than my mom.

So I actually do want to know what I should do to improve my profile.


I have noticed that cleavage shots seem to work for some women on here......


:laughing: slaphead is that the only reason peeps talk to me!! Damn...I knew it wasn't for my brain!!surprised rofl

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Fri 01/08/10 11:57 PM

I didn't mean to imply that there was something wrong with people over 40, I just don't feel comfortable with the age difference, (I would totally go for Vincent D'Onofrio if I met him, and he's my dad's age)I just won't have anything in common with someone only nine years younger than my mom.

So I actually do want to know what I should do to improve my profile.


well, heh, I like 'em older soo...laugh

I completely agree about Vincent D'Onofrio...he is such a fox!bigsmile


no photo
Sat 01/09/10 07:01 AM

I didn't mean to imply that there was something wrong with people over 40, I just don't feel comfortable with the age difference, (I would totally go for Vincent D'Onofrio if I met him, and he's my dad's age)I just won't have anything in common with someone only nine years younger than my mom.

So I actually do want to know what I should do to improve my profile.
:wink: I was just giving you a hard time, its ok..
Every place where all ages of people are.
You will have this happen.
I have this happen,lol..
ITS NOT YOU, its just some older women and men, like younger women.
And THEN, you have the forever perverted,, who have no age in mind as long as they our the opposite sex,lol,:wink:

Just try and be nice in telling them NO,,lol,or ignore their emails of asking you out? They will get the hint..

Have fun here, and don't worry to much about attractions, your young and pretty, THEY WILL FIND YOU,,,lol the dudes your trying to find..flowerforyou :wink:

kolhauszer's photo
Sat 01/09/10 07:43 AM
as far as this guy is conserned there really is no REAL way to improve on your profile.
there is only one way to talk about yourself and your needs and who youre looking for.

i guess if some older guy starts to get a yen for you just tell him that he's to old for you.
but..
on the other hand..
say that you do start to get a friendship going with an older man,and you find that you have many things in common,who knows?..you might just change your mind.

nahhh there's nothing about your profile that needs to be improved

Gamouth's photo
Mon 01/11/10 06:13 PM
I would suggest more than one picture. In my Scanning and looking I seemed to be more interested in the people with more pictures and shots that show people in different settings. It give people variety, that way if for whatever reason they are not crazy about one pic they can see another one they are more interested in.

The other issue is, not to be to derogatory to my own Sex and age group, but allot of guys our age are only looking for NSA sex.

Gossipmpm's photo
Mon 01/11/10 06:16 PM
waving waving waving waving waving waving waving waving

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 01/11/10 06:30 PM
So your father became a dad at age 13what

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 01/11/10 09:49 PM
I am sure you have more pizazz than your picture or profile gets across.

BlueEyedAriesGuy's photo
Mon 01/11/10 11:24 PM

So your father became a dad at age 13what


LOL yeah, that would be true if 40 is the minimum age we're talking about here. I think 40 is just a baseline age she was mentioning. Like, only guys 40+ have shown interest. With that in mind, my suggestion is to put an age range on your profile, such as "Interested in guys 27-37."

BlueEyedAriesGuy's photo
Mon 01/11/10 11:27 PM
Edited by BlueEyedAriesGuy on Mon 01/11/10 11:28 PM
Oh okay, just looked at your profile and saw that you did that. Wow, 22...you sure like em young huh? lol

Maybe post some more pics, too, as another suggestion.

PurpleIris82's photo
Thu 01/14/10 10:20 PM
I updated my profile. I don't know why it said as young as 22. You were right, I meant 40+, I did say I wasn't comfortable with someone only nine years younger than my mom. Why would anyone think that would mean my dad was 13 when my mom had me?