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Topic: This may sound strange but...
Totage's photo
Thu 01/14/10 12:01 AM
sometimes I think my life would be a lot better if I was born female. I mean I would certainly be lesbian, but sometimes it seems like my mind and personality is more femminine. I'm not saying I want to be a woman, or anything like that.

I'm just saying I've always felt ackward in life, especially around guys, like I'm not "one of the guys". I'm not into sports or cars or really much of anything that most guys are into. It seems that I'm more sensitive/ emotional than most men.

I don't know, I just kinda wonder sometimes if I were born female, if I would be more comfortable with myself. Not sure exactly what I'm trying to say here, or if it's even coming out right, but...

no photo
Thu 01/14/10 12:02 AM
Why would you want to be a lesbian? Most women are such b!tches...

Totage's photo
Thu 01/14/10 12:09 AM
Well, I would feel much more comfortable in a room full of woman, than I would in a room full of men.

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Thu 01/14/10 12:11 AM
That just means you relate better to women, I feel weird talking to women for a long time, their conversations tend to bore me.

Totage's photo
Thu 01/14/10 12:14 AM
Yeah, that's same way with me when I talk to guys. It's like after a while there is either that ackward silence, or I just drift a way. But, I could talk to a lady for hours and never get bored.

msharmony's photo
Thu 01/14/10 12:20 AM

sometimes I think my life would be a lot better if I was born female. I mean I would certainly be lesbian, but sometimes it seems like my mind and personality is more femminine. I'm not saying I want to be a woman, or anything like that.

I'm just saying I've always felt ackward in life, especially around guys, like I'm not "one of the guys". I'm not into sports or cars or really much of anything that most guys are into. It seems that I'm more sensitive/ emotional than most men.

I don't know, I just kinda wonder sometimes if I were born female, if I would be more comfortable with myself. Not sure exactly what I'm trying to say here, or if it's even coming out right, but...



Having a feminine side doesnt mean you should be female. I think we all were meant to have both and sometimes females will be a bit more masculine(tomboy) , similarly males are sometimes more feminine(sensitive). Try to change the way you look at yourself, instead of awkward, you are special, and that aint so bad.

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Thu 01/14/10 12:22 AM


sometimes I think my life would be a lot better if I was born female. I mean I would certainly be lesbian, but sometimes it seems like my mind and personality is more femminine. I'm not saying I want to be a woman, or anything like that.

I'm just saying I've always felt ackward in life, especially around guys, like I'm not "one of the guys". I'm not into sports or cars or really much of anything that most guys are into. It seems that I'm more sensitive/ emotional than most men.

I don't know, I just kinda wonder sometimes if I were born female, if I would be more comfortable with myself. Not sure exactly what I'm trying to say here, or if it's even coming out right, but...



Having a feminine side doesnt mean you should be female. I think we all were meant to have both and sometimes females will be a bit more masculine(tomboy) , similarly males are sometimes more feminine(sensitive). Try to change the way you look at yourself, instead of awkward, you are special, and that aint so bad.


:thumbsup:

msharmony's photo
Thu 01/14/10 12:22 AM

Well, I would feel much more comfortable in a room full of woman, than I would in a room full of men.


I feel more comfortable around men. Doesnt make me less female though. I think it would be easier and more 'comfortable' to have been born a male but I dont think we are born as mistakes. We are who we are and its just difficult sometimes to embrace who we are on the inside without feeling like something is wrong with our outsides.

Totage's photo
Thu 01/14/10 12:26 AM


sometimes I think my life would be a lot better if I was born female. I mean I would certainly be lesbian, but sometimes it seems like my mind and personality is more femminine. I'm not saying I want to be a woman, or anything like that.

I'm just saying I've always felt ackward in life, especially around guys, like I'm not "one of the guys". I'm not into sports or cars or really much of anything that most guys are into. It seems that I'm more sensitive/ emotional than most men.

I don't know, I just kinda wonder sometimes if I were born female, if I would be more comfortable with myself. Not sure exactly what I'm trying to say here, or if it's even coming out right, but...



Having a feminine side doesnt mean you should be female. I think we all were meant to have both and sometimes females will be a bit more masculine(tomboy) , similarly males are sometimes more feminine(sensitive). Try to change the way you look at yourself, instead of awkward, you are special, and that aint so bad.


Yeah, I've tried that, but in the end it's really just pretty words covering up what's really bothering me.

s1owhand's photo
Thu 01/14/10 12:36 AM
you may be a wimmens trapped in a manbody!!! try dressing up as a beautiful lady. shave carefully (everywhere). put on some nice flattering base - something which compliments your natural coloration. maybe earth tones? and a nice matching blouse or dress. don't get too trashy but it is ok to show off your legs if they are really very nice.

go out dancing. someplace where the light is not too harsh.

and then, when the mood is right - you may find yourself in the arms of a young butch who will really appreciate you. give her and yourself a chance and once you've indulged your inner woman you may never be the same again!

drinker

laugh

just kidding!

msharmony's photo
Thu 01/14/10 12:50 AM



sometimes I think my life would be a lot better if I was born female. I mean I would certainly be lesbian, but sometimes it seems like my mind and personality is more femminine. I'm not saying I want to be a woman, or anything like that.

I'm just saying I've always felt ackward in life, especially around guys, like I'm not "one of the guys". I'm not into sports or cars or really much of anything that most guys are into. It seems that I'm more sensitive/ emotional than most men.

I don't know, I just kinda wonder sometimes if I were born female, if I would be more comfortable with myself. Not sure exactly what I'm trying to say here, or if it's even coming out right, but...



Having a feminine side doesnt mean you should be female. I think we all were meant to have both and sometimes females will be a bit more masculine(tomboy) , similarly males are sometimes more feminine(sensitive). Try to change the way you look at yourself, instead of awkward, you are special, and that aint so bad.


Yeah, I've tried that, but in the end it's really just pretty words covering up what's really bothering me.



so whats really bothering you? perhaps gender is another cover for something else as well? You being born male is not the problem so much as what you seem to feel a man should be,,,,,

perhaps someone professional would be easier to talk to and help sort out the feelings and the causes for them...

s1owhand's photo
Thu 01/14/10 12:54 AM
there are all kinds of people. i mean really all kinds.
being comfortable with yourself is really the important thing.
know what you like and don't like and then...do what you like!

life is too short for dishonesty.
especially with yourself!

:wink:

yellowrose10's photo
Thu 01/14/10 12:55 AM
I get along with men better than women

Beachfarmer's photo
Thu 01/14/10 01:58 AM
always wondered why I could notice and compliment a womans's "accessories" and connect in "that way"

perhaps I could have gotten laid more by belching and grabbing "Dat A$$"....but hey.....quality over quantity right?

be who you are
be what you're like
be like yourself

we're all having a wonderful
but sometimes I'd rather be

...whistling in the dark
...whistling in the dark
...whistling in the dark

no photo
Thu 01/14/10 02:05 AM
I get along better with guys. Sometimes it's good to hang out with the girls, but meh.
Just too much Drama and "OMG? Is he looking at me?...tell me he is looking at me???"


bleh.

myshell711's photo
Thu 01/14/10 02:41 AM

sometimes I think my life would be a lot better if I was born female. I mean I would certainly be lesbian, but sometimes it seems like my mind and personality is more femminine. I'm not saying I want to be a woman, or anything like that.

I'm just saying I've always felt ackward in life, especially around guys, like I'm not "one of the guys". I'm not into sports or cars or really much of anything that most guys are into. It seems that I'm more sensitive/ emotional than most men.

I don't know, I just kinda wonder sometimes if I were born female, if I would be more comfortable with myself. Not sure exactly what I'm trying to say here, or if it's even coming out right, but...


You should look at it as a positive rather a negative...There is nothing wrong with having a more sensitive/emotional side to you...
Just because you aren't into sports doesn't mean your "off"....
Just be yourself!..and everything will unfold for you..flowerforyou

mygenerationbaby's photo
Thu 01/14/10 03:09 AM
Edited by mygenerationbaby on Thu 01/14/10 03:12 AM

sometimes I think my life would be a lot better if I was born female. I mean I would certainly be lesbian, but sometimes it seems like my mind and personality is more femminine. I'm not saying I want to be a woman, or anything like that.

I'm just saying I've always felt ackward in life, especially around guys, like I'm not "one of the guys". I'm not into sports or cars or really much of anything that most guys are into. It seems that I'm more sensitive/ emotional than most men.

I don't know, I just kinda wonder sometimes if I were born female, if I would be more comfortable with myself. Not sure exactly what I'm trying to say here, or if it's even coming out right, but...

No problem. We all think about this stuff. I wanted to be a man....in my teen years, and a few beyond, very seriously. They have so much more power all the way around. Probably your life would be better as a female, psychologically speaking, also in languages, music and arts.. you can still do this in your next life, for real.. I'll sign a contract to trade places with you babe!!

mygenerationbaby's photo
Thu 01/14/10 03:16 AM
We would like to know why Totages account has been deactived. Please provide specific and actual reasons for this. Thank you, my generation.

mygenerationbaby's photo
Thu 01/14/10 03:22 AM
Edited by mygenerationbaby on Thu 01/14/10 03:23 AM

you may be a wimmens trapped in a manbody!!! try dressing up as a beautiful lady. shave carefully (everywhere). put on some nice flattering base - something which compliments your natural coloration. maybe earth tones? and a nice matching blouse or dress. don't get too trashy but it is ok to show off your legs if they are really very nice.

go out dancing. someplace where the light is not too harsh.

and then, when the mood is right - you may find yourself in the arms of a young butch who will really appreciate you. give her and yourself a chance and once you've indulged your inner woman you may never be the same again!

drinker

laugh

just kidding!




Just kidding?
If deletions are necessary, this one would come before the one who started this intreging topic. Hello, is there anybody out there with reality of life on Earth in their scopes?

XenomorphEyez's photo
Thu 01/14/10 08:27 AM


No problem. We all think about this stuff.

Not me. I don't know how men walk around with penis' controlling them all day. laugh

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