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Topic: From 1st date to 2nd date.
CatsLoveMe's photo
Wed 01/20/10 03:02 PM
This is for everyone, and from YOUR point of view, NOT what the men's and women's magazines say to do. Physical appearance aside, lets just assume you find the other person attractive physically;



What does the other person have to do, say, act, behave, respond, to get you to agree or decide to go out on a 2nd or more dates with them? Please don't answer "sex," or it just shows how shallow you are.laugh ohwell :heart:


Positive answers only, not about what they shouldn't or can't do.

littleike's photo
Wed 01/20/10 03:04 PM
i think body language is a big one

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 01/20/10 03:09 PM
Just be themselves

Have fun

Laugh


and dont pressure me for sex!!!!:heart:

Duffy's photo
Wed 01/20/10 03:16 PM
het dr. spock, because cats love u, u should know that u have to have sex on the second date or you won't catch the dude or dudette...love noway

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 01/20/10 03:22 PM
Hummmmm the obvious just ask.:laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

CatsLoveMe's photo
Wed 01/20/10 03:30 PM

Hummmmm the obvious just ask.:laughing: :laughing: :laughing:


Not as obvious as you might think. Remember this is your perspective, what do YOU expect? I think it's more than you asking them or them asking you, something they did impressed or pleased you enough to go or agree to go on another date with them.

CatsLoveMe's photo
Wed 01/20/10 03:31 PM

het dr. spock, because cats love u, u should know that u have to have sex on the second date or you won't catch the dude or dudette...love noway


Yes, I'm the Pied Piper of cats, I dunno why, they just follow me around, maybe I smell like chicken or fish. laugh

MeChrissy2's photo
Wed 01/20/10 03:33 PM
I expect them to be interested in what I am saying. I expect them not to be negative or talk about failed relationships. Oh, and I expect them to hold up their end of the conversation.

Those things would get me to agree to a second date.

CatsLoveMe's photo
Wed 01/20/10 03:35 PM

i think body language is a big one


Body language may be important, but there are many who haven't mastered this fine art, and they may be interested in you but are not aware that they aren't giving you the right visual cues, would you hold that against them? It is possible they might have had an off day at work, or concerned about something, or may be just a little nervous or anxious on that first date, which could throw off the body language a little.

no photo
Wed 01/20/10 03:35 PM
I would hope that she would show some intellectual capacity and be able to talk about various topics. A good conversationalist with communications skills and a creative mind is extremely alluring. Or would be, if such a thing actually existed.


MeChrissy2's photo
Wed 01/20/10 03:38 PM

I would hope that she would show some intellectual capacity and be able to talk about various topics. A good conversationalist with communications skills and a creative mind is extremely alluring. Or would be, if such a thing actually existed.




Boy U R HOTZ! Can I have your digits? How's that Lex, I tried good conversation with extreme communication and a creative way with my spelling.:wink:

no photo
Wed 01/20/10 03:44 PM


I would hope that she would show some intellectual capacity and be able to talk about various topics. A good conversationalist with communications skills and a creative mind is extremely alluring. Or would be, if such a thing actually existed.




Boy U R HOTZ! Can I have your digits? How's that Lex, I tried good conversation with extreme communication and a creative way with my spelling.:wink:


That was actually WAY better than what I usually see!

Plus you spelled "digits" without using the letter J. Extra credit.




motowndowntown's photo
Wed 01/20/10 03:51 PM

This is for everyone, and from YOUR point of view, NOT what the men's and women's magazines say to do. Physical appearance aside, lets just assume you find the other person attractive physically;



What does the other person have to do, say, act, behave, respond, to get you to agree or decide to go out on a 2nd or more dates with them? Please don't answer "sex," or it just shows how shallow you are.laugh ohwell :heart:


Positive answers only, not about what they shouldn't or can't do.


Act like a human-being, say please and thank you, have an open mind, and a nice smile.

no photo
Wed 01/20/10 03:54 PM
I expect him to be able to have an interesting conversation with me. If we get along and have a good time, then I could see going out with him again.

newarkjw's photo
Wed 01/20/10 04:00 PM
I haven't had a date in 24 years. What do I know. I guess as long as she doesn't try and open her bottle of beer with her teeth I would be up for another date.......smokin

shelbylynn's photo
Wed 01/20/10 04:04 PM
Great conversation and chemistry!

Cristinalove's photo
Wed 01/20/10 04:04 PM
I need to feel some "chemistry"...good conversation, common ground, or even a spark in a goodnight kiss. If there's no chemistry, than I usually don't pursue a second date. (Unless I want to add them to my friend's list)

:thumbsup:

motowndowntown's photo
Wed 01/20/10 04:10 PM

I haven't had a date in 24 years. What do I know. I guess as long as she doesn't try and open her bottle of beer with her teeth I would be up for another date.......smokin


If she could open a bottle of beer with her teeth, I'd definitely be looking for a second date. And I'd make sure and film it to show my buddys back at the bar.

newarkjw's photo
Wed 01/20/10 04:17 PM


I haven't had a date in 24 years. What do I know. I guess as long as she doesn't try and open her bottle of beer with her teeth I would be up for another date.......smokin


If she could open a bottle of beer with her teeth, I'd definitely be looking for a second date. And I'd make sure and film it to show my buddys back at the bar.


You have never been too Kentucky have you.....laugh

Duffy's photo
Wed 01/20/10 04:22 PM
buoies and gulls...im here 2 tell ya...that if he/she does not get kiss or sex on first date, then they come back for 2nd, and try 2 get it.....body language, chemistry or no chemistry....
take it froma old bird who knows....

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