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Topic: So..........
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Sun 01/24/10 09:03 AM
Is online dating only about sex? Everything in online dating always seems to come back to sex, why?

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Sun 01/24/10 09:05 AM
That happens in real life too, doesn't it?

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Sun 01/24/10 09:05 AM
I don't think THIS site is all about sex. There are people out there who only want that - same as in real life - can't really avoid it, just ignore it.

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Sun 01/24/10 09:15 AM
Edited by Tribbles on Sun 01/24/10 09:15 AM

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Sun 01/24/10 09:15 AM
I have found it can go either way. Made some nice friends here, but also encountered some real zingers! ohwell

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Sun 01/24/10 09:39 AM
Yup...I'm only here to get some action.

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Sun 01/24/10 09:59 AM
Well there's birds and bees see? And somewhere in there are flowers and a whole bunch of other stuff. In the end it all comes down to the fact that people get horny.

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Sun 01/24/10 11:27 AM
Only about sex? I don't think so. I think if someone absolutely only had sex on their mind, they wouldn't go through all the trouble of trying to line up a date on the internet. There would be other, much easier options.

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Sun 01/24/10 11:35 AM

Only about sex? I don't think so. I think if someone absolutely only had sex on their mind, they wouldn't go through all the trouble of trying to line up a date on the internet. There would be other, much easier options.


You should share those options Hutch.. I hear it's not that easy, for guys at least...


Ronny of course it's not just about sex but those types will turn it to that no matter if it's online or in person b/c that's what they're about...

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Sun 01/24/10 11:45 AM
Thanks for the input all.... I guess i know the answer already but just a little frustrated!! It's probably as much my fault... I am just sick of it!

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Sun 01/24/10 11:59 AM

Is online dating only about sex? Everything in online dating always seems to come back to sex, why?


Perhaps the women contacting you assume it's what you're looking for seems you're in a sexy half-naked pose with your shirt off in your profile picture. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate your beautiful body just as much as the next warm blooded female, and you certainly should be proud of it, but if you don't want girls just looking for sex, maybe a different pic. First impressions are hard to overcome. JMOflowerforyou

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Sun 01/24/10 12:04 PM

Thanks for the input all.... I guess i know the answer already but just a little frustrated!! It's probably as much my fault... I am just sick of it!


Perhaps start with posting pictures of you fully clothed?

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Sun 01/24/10 12:13 PM


Is online dating only about sex? Everything in online dating always seems to come back to sex, why?


Perhaps the women contacting you assume it's what you're looking for seems you're in a sexy half-naked pose with your shirt off in your profile picture. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate your beautiful body just as much as the next warm blooded female, and you certainly should be proud of it, but if you don't want girls just looking for sex, maybe a different pic. First impressions are hard to overcome. JMOflowerforyou


Yeah your right! i know this too but it works so well it's hard to stop! When i get fully clothed pics up i get a lot less mail...... lol i guess i'm getting what i deserve?

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Sun 01/24/10 12:29 PM



Is online dating only about sex? Everything in online dating always seems to come back to sex, why?


Perhaps the women contacting you assume it's what you're looking for seems you're in a sexy half-naked pose with your shirt off in your profile picture. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate your beautiful body just as much as the next warm blooded female, and you certainly should be proud of it, but if you don't want girls just looking for sex, maybe a different pic. First impressions are hard to overcome. JMOflowerforyou


Yeah your right! i know this too but it works so well it's hard to stop! When i get fully clothed pics up i get a lot less mail...... lol i guess i'm getting what i deserve?


It's the age old dilemna, about quality vs quantity. I get extremely few emails (like close to none lol) but I prefer it that way. Even if I could pull off half naked pictures, I wouldn't. I want much more than sex. I go for the humorous honesty angle myself.

Ya gotta do what works for you and if you don't like your results, maybe it's time for a new plan of action. Again, just my opinion.

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Sun 01/24/10 12:32 PM



Is online dating only about sex? Everything in online dating always seems to come back to sex, why?


Perhaps the women contacting you assume it's what you're looking for seems you're in a sexy half-naked pose with your shirt off in your profile picture. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate your beautiful body just as much as the next warm blooded female, and you certainly should be proud of it, but if you don't want girls just looking for sex, maybe a different pic. First impressions are hard to overcome. JMOflowerforyou


Yeah your right! i know this too but it works so well it's hard to stop! When i get fully clothed pics up i get a lot less mail...... lol i guess i'm getting what i deserve?


So, you already know why you're getting the responses you're getting and you don't want to change. Why are you complaining?

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Sun 01/24/10 12:34 PM
flowerforyou I agree with the other postersflowerforyou with more clothes you might get less sexual mailflowerforyou

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Sun 01/24/10 12:44 PM




Is online dating only about sex? Everything in online dating always seems to come back to sex, why?


Perhaps the women contacting you assume it's what you're looking for seems you're in a sexy half-naked pose with your shirt off in your profile picture. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate your beautiful body just as much as the next warm blooded female, and you certainly should be proud of it, but if you don't want girls just looking for sex, maybe a different pic. First impressions are hard to overcome. JMOflowerforyou


Yeah your right! i know this too but it works so well it's hard to stop! When i get fully clothed pics up i get a lot less mail...... lol i guess i'm getting what i deserve?



So, you already know why you're getting the responses you're getting and you don't want to change. Why are you complaining?


Well I can seperate the two why can't others? I mean I want an LTR but i want the passion and sex too! Look don't assume too much, it's not like women are not contacting me because of those pics! You may argue different but i wouldn't beleive it! No one is so ignorant to judge one by a photo!

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Sun 01/24/10 12:50 PM
I know for a fact men are generally stimulated by what they read in a woman's profile, not by the pictures they post. Men do not judge women by their looks.

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If you don't like what you are getting, change what you are doing.

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Sun 01/24/10 12:51 PM

Is online dating only about sex? Everything in online dating always seems to come back to sex, why?


It is a massive prostitution ring.

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Sun 01/24/10 12:52 PM


Is online dating only about sex? Everything in online dating always seems to come back to sex, why?


It is a massive prostitution ring.



So I'm pimpin' and I want my cut.... Who took my cut?grumble

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