well i would say your wrong. looks at least you know may be true their profile is almost never true!

Pimpin' is cool

Sarcasm owns...FTW!!

yes i knew that..... let me elaborate..... Profiles are are generally full of lies and a waste of time.....hence men don't choose not to read simply because they are visual but also because people are liars! It's always about looks on both sides men and women......

I don't share this sentiment.

Yes, I look at the photos. But I also read the profiles to get a sense of their personality. I will ignore a very pleasing photo that has a profile that seems to indicate 'airhead' or 'snob'. I want someone down to earth, reasonably intelligent and open minded, even if that person could not be a VS model.

I'm not sure what you're complaining about. You have a half naked photo and alot of women..like alot of men..will respond to that. And you like that response as opposed to being clothed and gathering..fewer..responses.

lol...nevermind! It's pointless i guess! It is what it is.......Maybe i'm living in a different world???? But, in my experience i have read countless profiles staing they are the girl next door and yet i am still here....so go figure man???? someone is lying!

Maybe it is a different world. But I do believe there are very few people who can be whats called a perfect match for you. The annoyance of course is going through dozens, or even hundreds of women to find what you could call that 'perfect match'.

But think about what you're offering. I don't know you at all, but if I was a girl I'd probably think you were more interested in offering a good night (through your photo) than much more than that.

Although I will say I'm probably the absolute WRONG person to take advice from...as I've yet to have any responses here. So you know what..just keep doing what you're doing. It's working better than what I've tried.

I can only tell you what I believe.

So let me get this clear...just so i understand.

What you are saying, is that you get plenty of emails from women. A lot of them saying that they are the proverbial "girl next door", but once you get to know them, they are only interested in getting into your pants?

it's hard to find someone you really like, who also really likes you, and you're both available and live near eachother too, here or in 3D world --- real love is a gift, like real friendship.

So, you're saying that all women lie in their profiles and you don't read them because of that. Yet, you're wondering why you're still here? After assuming they're all lying?

Realists, cynics, know-it-alls and the bitterly horny: Sex.

Idealists, romantics, hypocrites and those awsomely over-the-hill (not only by age): Everything but sex, except at the end, when it boils down.

Other door... OTHER DOOR, you idiot.

I know Goof is nothing but a manwhore!

Dude, your pic reeks of sex.
You are 6'3" and nearly naked.
I wouldn't need you to clean windows.

Depends on the person, I imagine. There are those whose primary concern is sex, there are those who have other primary concerns.

I think the sex-seekers are more visible because a.) there may be more of them, b.) they tend to be very socially unskilled and are therefore likely to be noticeably crude and even offensive, c.) they generate more (and more vitriolic) reactions (generally negative, but not always) than people who are actually looking for a relationship, and d.) to some degree, this sort of infantile behavior is encouraged by other members of the sites.

I dont see a lot of sex really

I do see a lot of mindless flirting

Sometimes its so easy to flirt on here when ya know there is not a chance of you ever seeing each other Ya know its safe for the person who would be to inhibited to do it in real life

we really dont know what goes on behind closed emails though haha

I once took a trip into the mingle underground I heard so much about

Lame really

This seems to be a really good way to put it...a gift.

I will be honest about something here about how I percieved that.

I was in a marriage for 10 years. I honestly did not view her as my soulmate and felt very unhappy. But I married her because in my own mind..that someone loved me the way she did was a gift and I better damn well accept it and like it because if I didn't, I'd be alone. She was the only 'gift' I would receive. (This was what I convinced myself). Obviously eventually we divorced because I could not give her what she needed. I tried..but I just could not feel the same way towards her.

Real love is a gift. If both feel it, thats one of the best gifts you can recieve. The truth is many don't know how to handle it, and many feel love is 'disposable'.

Yes it's just a big old orgy for the masses.

sweet...I brought rubbers!!