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Topic: cyber friends
SolitaryMan52402 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 21147	Mon 02/01/10 07:29 PM
maybe its time I start passing the things down to my kids, then they can be the ones to lose or break it

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Mon 02/01/10 07:31 PM
That's a good idea....but my kids don't want my stuff

SolitaryMan52402 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 21147	Mon 02/01/10 07:36 PM
That's a good idea....but my kids don't want my stuff Its going to take awhile to figure out who gets what, but then they need to have room for it too

SolitaryMan52402 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 21147	Mon 02/01/10 07:38 PM
night all

Shasta1 Joined Wed 09/09/09 Posts: 3308	Mon 02/01/10 07:40 PM Edited by Shasta1 on Mon 02/01/10 07:40 PM
S*cks that you lost your necklace. I'm usually losing things and the they turn up in the weirdest places. My brother got me a little statue a few years ago of St Anne- The Patron Saint of Lost Objects. On the back it was written :PRAYER to Assist in Finding Your Stuff and he wrote YOUR MIND? He's a funny guy that one is. Not too far off base tho.

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Mon 02/01/10 07:47 PM
I do love that neckless...was always getting compliments on it..it is unique...just hate that some one will find it and not appreciate what they have.But all good things have to go sometime...

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Tue 02/02/10 08:13 AM
Well I lost my fsvorite neckless today...and I'm made as he!! about it!! It was a one of a kind..and cannot be replaced!! Can I vent about that on this thread?? Im sorry you lost it. Maybe you will find it one day soon. I had to learn the hard way that things are not worth getting worked up about. After the fire my out look was total different how so Tim?What changed the most? stuff is just that stuff!! I use to hold on to things because of the memory's they held. It just doesn't seam to matter any more Thats areally a good way of looking at things.I need to do that too,have a basement full of "stuff" mostly belonging to dead realatives. For some silly reason I feel like I would be dishonouring them by throwing it out. Stupid way of thinking I know !!

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Tue 02/02/10 08:16 AM
S*cks that you lost your necklace. I'm usually losing things and the they turn up in the weirdest places. My brother got me a little statue a few years ago of St Anne- The Patron Saint of Lost Objects. On the back it was written :PRAYER to Assist in Finding Your Stuff and he wrote YOUR MIND? He's a funny guy that one is. Not too far off base tho. Gees no wonder I never find my lost things.I have been praying to the wrong Saint.I always thought it was ST.Anthony Sorry about that ST.Anne!

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Tue 02/02/10 08:27 AM
On here? He'll yea!!! There's some nut jobs and I see them doin it with others who havnt got a clue!

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Tue 02/02/10 08:57 AM Edited by BettyB on Tue 02/02/10 08:57 AM
On the flip side of this,do you also find that many of your":cyber friends" are more caring and loving towards you than some of your real life friends and family? I know have!

tazzops Joined Sat 12/20/08 Posts: 33333	Tue 02/02/10 08:59 AM
On the flip side of this,do you also find that many of your":cyber friends" are more caring and loving towards you than some of your real life friends and family? I know have! Yes indeed dear lady

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Tue 02/02/10 09:09 AM
That's kinda sad. Jmo noone online could ever be more caring loving giving than my real life freinds and esp. My wonderful family!!!!

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Tue 02/02/10 09:14 AM Edited by BettyB on Tue 02/02/10 09:35 AM
Its may be sad ...buts its true. No all but some . Actually on second thought I don't think its sad at all,in fact I think its wonderful that this can open you up to a world of friends that you would not have had the chance to have . And once I get to talk to them on the phone or meet them in person I know longer consider them"Cyber".

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Tue 02/02/10 09:16 AM
On the flip side of this,do you also find that many of your":cyber friends" are more caring and loving towards you than some of your real life friends and family? I know have! Yes indeed dear lady Morning Jeff!!

tazzops Joined Sat 12/20/08 Posts: 33333	Tue 02/02/10 11:23 AM
On the flip side of this,do you also find that many of your":cyber friends" are more caring and loving towards you than some of your real life friends and family? I know have! Yes indeed dear lady Morning Jeff!! Hello dear lady

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Tue 02/02/10 12:03 PM
But on your deathbed won't it be family! Or if ya in bed with cancer won't it be family!! If your friends are cyber or ya meet once or twice and only talk on the phone as a relationship who will save you if your drowning I KNOW without a doubt in this crazy world it would be family and freinds I have had for years who I touch and hug and kiss everyday the ones who travel through my front door everyday the ones who hold my hand who kiss my cheek everyday jmo jmo thank the Lord for my life!! Jmo jmo

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Tue 02/02/10 01:23 PM
But on your deathbed won't it be family! Or if ya in bed with cancer won't it be family!! If your friends are cyber or ya meet once or twice and only talk on the phone as a relationship who will save you if your drowning I KNOW without a doubt in this crazy world it would be family and freinds I have had for years who I touch and hug and kiss everyday the ones who travel through my front door everyday the ones who hold my hand who kiss my cheek everyday jmo jmo thank the Lord for my life!! Jmo jmo I see more of the folks here, than my family. Different story for each one of us. Some people just hide how much they care.

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Tue 02/02/10 03:03 PM Edited by vivian2981 on Tue 02/02/10 03:04 PM
But on your deathbed won't it be family! Or if ya in bed with cancer won't it be family!! If your friends are cyber or ya meet once or twice and only talk on the phone as a relationship who will save you if your drowning I KNOW without a doubt in this crazy world it would be family and freinds I have had for years who I touch and hug and kiss everyday the ones who travel through my front door everyday the ones who hold my hand who kiss my cheek everyday jmo jmo thank the Lord for my life!! Jmo jmo [/quote Just asking......but if you have such a wonderful relationship with your family and friends everyday who walk through your door, whom you can see, feel and touch....why are you on here? JMO but you sure there isn't something missing?

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Tue 02/02/10 03:10 PM
I'm sorry if I struck a nerve I'm on here while they are working in school away there is noone on any online site who has more worth to me than my family or freinds I have recently spent a couple days away from the comp to be with my family and friends my life with them is wonderful!!!!!! Thank you online people are just that. Online people. I like most of them but god not love them if you even have to question if someone elses family or freinds mean that much to them than somthing is wrong maybe some should question and question deeply why do people online mean so much to me!! And I am a truly loving woman:

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Tue 02/02/10 03:30 PM
never said family and friends aren't important.I said SOME of my "Cyber" Friends are more caring and loving than SOME of my real life family and friends.SOME is the operative word here and I am sure you have SOME family memebers that aren't all that loving either. And if you don't you really are in the minority I would think.