Community > 50 and over

Topic: cyber friends
Shasta1 Joined Wed 09/09/09 Posts: 3308	Thu 02/04/10 01:04 AM
Haha in no way whatsoever did ya strike a nerve (thanks though) well I'm totaly honest and most of the time quite blunt Lex once said to me: "you say what has to be said" and most of the time I do and have just as many people Not like me than do!! Haha and for me yes ( don't take offense please!) most online people are not really worth knowing. I like to sit and watch the different personalities float across my screen some are so easy to figure. Some so complex sometimes my friends or family will sit here watching the forums just as a formoentertainment is all! You did take the online sentence wrong. A little to personaly I think but that was your inner feelings it touched and you ran with it I was only voicing my own opinion. Never really thought it would offend another Thank you BettyB for being so open and explaining your position. It clarifies your position and clearly explains why you are here. I thank you! So the debate ends it was good as most are here I send only love Can I ask why you said "...most online people are not really worth knowing."? and why you and 'your friends will sit here and watch the forums just as a formoentertainment'? Do you sit and make jokes at the expense of others, while in your lr to simply amuse yourselves, especially when they can't hear you? Do you then converse with them online, add your own little comments to those you've entertained your guests with? Why are you questioning that your responses have offended people? Guess I'm a little too honest also. I'm just curious...JMO

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Thu 02/04/10 04:57 AM Edited by Gossipmpm on Thu 02/04/10 05:27 AM
Haha no. Not at all!! I hope others hear me through my postings in the various threads there's no other way to share my voice I ask the "offend ?" only because when I spark somthing in anothers inner being they seem to go on the attack. Not all but some. I try to communicate in a general sort of way but it dosent always come across that way and I'm always hitting a nerve in someone. So if I do I try to apologize. I never attack back I'm not like that I wish we could hear each other. Well maybe not. Haha with my thick Brooklyn accent I'd come across as a real *****! Haha Some threads my daughters and I watch because they open up avenues of conversation. Like the parenting thread we watch a lot Esp those dealing with drugs/alcohol/ etc my girlfriends and o enjoy watching the dating and relationship forum alot also last night it spurred a good debate on women in combat! The kooky threads have us laughing like heck ! The music thread the other night had us breaking out bob Dylan sometimes some people have us laughing. But that was thier intent! I have the comp hooked up to a big screen so we sit around just watching the interaction between folks. No harm done!! There is comedy, drama, satire here on mingle! And for me personaly. Very few would I want to meet you might want to meet them all!! And that's great we are all different! Why would you think we are sitting here just making fun of people? That's weird someone is probably out there making fun of me ( haha I know it!) or making fun of you who cares! Let them. It didn't mean anything in the scheme of things I don't take this all to serious really all my love

musichic Joined Wed 04/11/07 Posts: 8937	Fri 02/05/10 01:46 PM
I've made a lot of friends on here. Some of you I have even met in person. None the less, you are all my friends. However, sometimes circumstances prevent us from being able to maintain the same kind of contact we've had in the past. It doesn't mean that the friendship is gone. Perhaps it just has to adapt. I know I miss many of you on here. I've even suggested alternate means to stay in touch but I guess people are just too busy. Best wishes to all of you.

tazzops Joined Sat 12/20/08 Posts: 33333	Fri 02/05/10 02:43 PM
I've made a lot of friends on here. Some of you I have even met in person. None the less, you are all my friends. However, sometimes circumstances prevent us from being able to maintain the same kind of contact we've had in the past. It doesn't mean that the friendship is gone. Perhaps it just has to adapt. I know I miss many of you on here. I've even suggested alternate means to stay in touch but I guess people are just too busy. Best wishes to all of you. Feel the same way dear lady.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Sat 02/06/10 09:24 AM
I've made a lot of friends on here. Some of you I have even met in person. None the less, you are all my friends. However, sometimes circumstances prevent us from being able to maintain the same kind of contact we've had in the past. It doesn't mean that the friendship is gone. Perhaps it just has to adapt. I know I miss many of you on here. I've even suggested alternate means to stay in touch but I guess people are just too busy. Best wishes to all of you. very good point Carol!You are da bomb Glad to see things going well for you .Take care, and keep in touch when you can!

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Sat 02/06/10 02:07 PM
I've made a lot of friends on here. Some of you I have even met in person. None the less, you are all my friends. However, sometimes circumstances prevent us from being able to maintain the same kind of contact we've had in the past. It doesn't mean that the friendship is gone. Perhaps it just has to adapt. I know I miss many of you on here. I've even suggested alternate means to stay in touch but I guess people are just too busy. Best wishes to all of you. very good point Carol!You are da bomb Glad to see things going well for you .Take care, and keep in touch when you can! About time you came back to your thread Betts!

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Sat 02/06/10 03:30 PM
Came back??Did I go somewhere?

tazzops Joined Sat 12/20/08 Posts: 33333	Sat 02/06/10 07:12 PM
Came back??Did I go somewhere? Yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Sat 02/06/10 07:30 PM
Gee...wonder where I went

tazzops Joined Sat 12/20/08 Posts: 33333	Sat 02/06/10 07:32 PM
Gee...wonder where I went In the Betty place!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Sat 02/06/10 07:37 PM
I must have been hiding there.

tazzops Joined Sat 12/20/08 Posts: 33333	Sat 02/06/10 07:39 PM
No you where there for all to view dear lady.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Sun 02/07/10 08:09 AM
Gee that sounds kind of scary.Hopw I behaved myself.

tazzops Joined Sat 12/20/08 Posts: 33333	Sun 02/07/10 09:29 AM
Gee that sounds kind of scary.Hopw I behaved myself.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Sun 02/07/10 11:15 AM
does that mean No? I'll try better next time!!

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Sun 02/07/10 11:21 AM
Gee that sounds kind of scary.Hopw I behaved myself. You really need to work on that Betts...Misbehaving takes practice!

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Sun 02/07/10 11:26 AM Edited by BettyB on Sun 02/07/10 11:27 AM
Hey Viv... We all know I would never misbehave, just like you wouldn,t

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Sun 02/07/10 11:31 AM
Hey Viv... We all know I would never misbehave, just like you wouldn,t Now THAT is going to hinder us!

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Sun 02/07/10 11:35 AM
is liar on my profile ?

delilady Joined Fri 07/24/09 Posts: 23825	Sun 02/07/10 11:35 AM
Well I know I behave as well as the two of you!!