I hope stories like this don't discourage my beauuuutiful cougars! I love 'em!

http://www.momlogic.com/2010/05/cougars_die_young_sugar_daddies_live_longer.php
Cougars beware -- having a boy toy husband increases a woman's chances of an early death, according to a German study reported Thursday by the Daily Mail.

And the younger her spouse is, the harder it is on a woman's health, researchers found.

However, the trend is reversed when an older man opts for a younger woman. The more youthful his wife, the longer the husband is expected to live.

The finding will come as a blow to the growing numbers of cougars - defined as middle-aged women who shun older men in search of younger guys.

Celebrity cougars include Demi Moore, 47, who is 15 years older than husband Ashton Kutcher, and "Friends" actress Courteney Cox, who is married to film star David Arquette -- seven years her junior.

The trend was identified by an analysis of marriage and death records belonging to almost two million Dutch men and women.

A woman who bags a man seven to nine years younger than her is 20 percent more likely to die than someone married to a man her own age. And when a cougar weds someone more than 15 years younger than her, the risk soars to more than 30 percent.

"The greater the age difference, the lower the wife's life expectancy," Sven Drefahl of the Max Planck Institute for Demographic Research in Germany, said. "The best choice for a woman is to marry a man of exactly the same age."

Drefahl believed that having a relationship with a younger man may mean more stress for women because they are "violating social norms and thus suffer from social sanctions," which could result in a more stressful life, he said.

A "sugar daddy" with a wife seven to nine years his junior is seven percent less likely to die early -- probably because she's more likely to nurse him in old age. By contrast, a younger man tends to be less inclined to look after his elderly wife. And cougars are more likely to be seen as predatory -- making it less likely for them to maintain friends and dependents, another factor researchers suggested could explain their findings.



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Figures eh? Not only are we frowned upon in general in dating society but also are going to die earlier too?

WHATEVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!

It's not fair, is it? I think you should just do what you like! (as long as you don't hurt anyone)

as long as i die HAPPY

Well obviously the key is to NOT GIVE A RAT'S A** what society thinks.

I don't.



And they forget to mention that dating younger keeps YOU younger .. ya what now???

So ya .. no dyin early here

i sooooooooooooooooo agree!!!!

theres NO truth to that above OP statement!
It was probably made by some man whose wife left him for
a YOUNGER man!

Can NOT tell you how many angry letters I've received from older men .. not my fault if they don't cut it for me. There's someone for everyone so we all need to just deal eh?

Funny though I do not consider myself a so called cougar what does it matter hell women live longer then men do anyway by around 10-20 years so what if they start dying younger damn at least they will go out happy..........

Agreed on all counts ..

wow..in the nick of time. I was seriously looking into cougar life.
NOT!