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Topic: man looking for a real lady
Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 05/24/10 08:52 PM



ah, c'mon..it's his first post. Be nice.

hello and welcome waving


That is correct, it is his first post. His introduction if you will, do you start every introduction to new people telling them how nice you are? Or even that you are looking for a sweet man/woman...this is why internet dating fails, because people think they can jump right into a relationship in a matter of minutes, which is consequently why online dating gets a bad name...because most of those 'jump on, say I want a lady, tell them I'm nice' relationships fail within the first 1-3 months.

Approach every dating area the same that you would in real life and eventually you find someone you click with, it isn't as easy as '1, 2, 3.'



all dating sites with pictures and profiles operate similarly, with a similar mentality (jumping into a relationship within 1 month or less), they intend to work like resumes if you ask me, that's why it doesn't work. There is no way an no how I would get excited by a girl sending me smileys and "auto replies" of "hey how are you" or "I like your picture".

That's why I don't like those dating sites, since I refuse to be like an employer or "get employed" by someone.


oh c'mon..it works for some. It's worked for many on here and I don't think it happened in a month for most of them. There are are some that have been coupled up since I've been here almost a year now. You get back what ya put into it....

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 05/24/10 08:52 PM



ah, c'mon..it's his first post. Be nice.

hello and welcome waving


That is correct, it is his first post. His introduction if you will, do you start every introduction to new people telling them how nice you are? Or even that you are looking for a sweet man/woman...this is why internet dating fails, because people think they can jump right into a relationship in a matter of minutes, which is consequently why online dating gets a bad name...because most of those 'jump on, say I want a lady, tell them I'm nice' relationships fail within the first 1-3 months.

Approach every dating area the same that you would in real life and eventually you find someone you click with, it isn't as easy as '1, 2, 3.'



all dating sites with pictures and profiles operate similarly, with a similar mentality (jumping into a relationship within 1 month or less), they intend to work like resumes if you ask me, that's why it doesn't work. There is no way an no how I would get excited by a girl sending me smileys and "auto replies" of "hey how are you" or "I like your picture".

That's why I don't like those dating sites, since I refuse to be like an employer or "get employed" by someone.


True, but I've found not jumping the bandwagon and flying right into a relationship tends to work better in the long-run...eventually ends either way, but at least it lasts longer.

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 05/24/10 08:53 PM


It use to be sooooo easy......


Since you asked !


Mike Myers makes ya horny Bob??? :tongue: laugh

Atlantis75's photo
Mon 05/24/10 08:55 PM




ah, c'mon..it's his first post. Be nice.

hello and welcome waving


That is correct, it is his first post. His introduction if you will, do you start every introduction to new people telling them how nice you are? Or even that you are looking for a sweet man/woman...this is why internet dating fails, because people think they can jump right into a relationship in a matter of minutes, which is consequently why online dating gets a bad name...because most of those 'jump on, say I want a lady, tell them I'm nice' relationships fail within the first 1-3 months.

Approach every dating area the same that you would in real life and eventually you find someone you click with, it isn't as easy as '1, 2, 3.'



all dating sites with pictures and profiles operate similarly, with a similar mentality (jumping into a relationship within 1 month or less), they intend to work like resumes if you ask me, that's why it doesn't work. There is no way an no how I would get excited by a girl sending me smileys and "auto replies" of "hey how are you" or "I like your picture".

That's why I don't like those dating sites, since I refuse to be like an employer or "get employed" by someone.


oh c'mon..it works for some. It's worked for many on here and I don't think it happened in a month for most of them. There are are some that have been coupled up since I've been here almost a year now. You get back what ya put into it....


I was talking about online sites with really nothing else but a picture profile and the ability to send a few lines.

Goofball73's photo
Mon 05/24/10 08:55 PM



It use to be sooooo easy......


Since you asked !


Mike Myers makes ya horny Bob??? :tongue: laugh



BURN!laugh laugh laugh laugh

STARTRAVELER's photo
Mon 05/24/10 08:57 PM



It use to be sooooo easy......


Since you asked !


Mike Myers makes ya horny Bob??? :tongue: laugh
Iknew you'd do that to me ! I'll never learn !

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 05/24/10 08:58 PM




It use to be sooooo easy......


Since you asked !


Mike Myers makes ya horny Bob??? :tongue: laugh
Iknew you'd do that to me ! I'll never learn !


Being aware is the first step....laugh flowerforyou

skydancingA's photo
Mon 05/24/10 09:02 PM
He can't be all bad.
He doesn't like golf..

STARTRAVELER's photo
Mon 05/24/10 09:04 PM





It use to be sooooo easy......


Since you asked !


Mike Myers makes ya horny Bob??? :tongue: laugh
Iknew you'd do that to me ! I'll never learn !


Being aware is the first step....laugh flowerforyou
Just put me in your next fire please !

no photo
Mon 05/24/10 09:04 PM

I long for the good ol' days when you could just walk up to a chick and say "Nice shoes. Wanna shag?" When did that go out the window?frustrated sad laugh
what's stoppin ya?

and what if she's not wearing shoes????:laughing: what

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 05/24/10 09:06 PM






It use to be sooooo easy......


Since you asked !


Mike Myers makes ya horny Bob??? :tongue: laugh
Iknew you'd do that to me ! I'll never learn !


Being aware is the first step....laugh flowerforyou
Just put me in your next fire please !


You got it..end of the month, you'll be there with me

flowerforyou

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 05/24/10 09:06 PM

He can't be all bad.
He doesn't like golf..


haha..I noticed that too...great minds :wink:

STARTRAVELER's photo
Mon 05/24/10 09:11 PM







It use to be sooooo easy......


Since you asked !


Mike Myers makes ya horny Bob??? :tongue: laugh
Iknew you'd do that to me ! I'll never learn !


Being aware is the first step....laugh flowerforyou
Just put me in your next fire please !


You got it..end of the month, you'll be there with me

flowerforyou
Sweet !

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