Topic: Why don't you respond?
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Sun 06/27/10 08:58 PM
I am not scared of a guy's phone number. But if I have never exchanged an email with the person and the first email I get from someone is ....

'What's up? Call me. xxx-xxxx. blah blah blah'


I don't think so!


If someone doesn't take the time to get to know me.... I am sure as heck not going to call them.

Ok then you don't like talking on the phone? What would you do if we had no internet or email?

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Sun 06/27/10 08:58 PM
Well....I know this isn't gonna be the PC thing to say......but....it's the truth.....I don't sometimes because, well it's a dating site and I start with my eyes.....so....well you know the rest. I do respond if it's a sweet email, but if it's slang or sexual..never.

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Sun 06/27/10 08:59 PM
Weil sie sich seltsam.

*What language is this?

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Sun 06/27/10 09:00 PM

I am not scared of a guy's phone number. But if I have never exchanged an email with the person and the first email I get from someone is ....

'What's up? Call me. xxx-xxxx. blah blah blah'


I don't think so!


If someone doesn't take the time to get to know me.... I am sure as heck not going to call them.

Ok then you don't like talking on the phone? What would you do if we had no internet or email?


If they are sending me an email from a dating site.... what hmmmmm. okay.

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Sun 06/27/10 09:01 PM
Edited by HannahHatesBananas on Sun 06/27/10 09:01 PM


I am not scared of a guy's phone number. But if I have never exchanged an email with the person and the first email I get from someone is ....

'What's up? Call me. xxx-xxxx. blah blah blah'


I don't think so!


If someone doesn't take the time to get to know me.... I am sure as heck not going to call them.


Ok then you don't like talking on the phone? What would you do if we had no internet or email?


She wouldn't have guys she didn't know pestering her to call them?

or less often anywayslaphead :laughing:

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Sun 06/27/10 09:01 PM

Weil sie sich seltsam.

*What language is this?


A szóösszetételből és a betűzésből ítélve német.

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Sun 06/27/10 09:02 PM
Edited by FearandLoathing on Sun 06/27/10 09:03 PM

Weil sie sich seltsam.

*What language is this?


Deutsch.

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Sun 06/27/10 09:03 PM

Hmm. I wonder if this is going to help you get more responses?

Ok if I'm wrong than give me an example why.


Good looking is going to be subjective. But basically you're saying anyone you think is good looking is going to treat you like crap? If you're going to be negative right up front, you're not going to get anything positive from anyone else.


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Sun 06/27/10 09:05 PM
She wouldn't have guys she didn't know pestering her to call them?

or less often anyway

*I'm going to rip the phone cord out of the wall then and never talk on the phone again.

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Sun 06/27/10 09:05 PM


Hmm. I wonder if this is going to help you get more responses?

Ok if I'm wrong than give me an example why.


Good looking is going to be subjective. But basically you're saying anyone you think is good looking is going to treat you like crap? If you're going to be negative right up front, you're not going to get anything positive from anyone else.




And that pretty much sums it up.

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Sun 06/27/10 09:06 PM
These are the reason I do not respond to emails:
A. They live in India
B. They are too old or too young (actually changed my email settings so this isn't so much of a problem anymore)
C. They ask me something in the first email that is clearly covered in my profile.
D. Their profile or lack of one tells me something I don't like ie no profile says they aren't taking this seriously at all or their profile goes on and on about how sexy or great they are. No thanks.
E. They call me sexy/honey/baby/sweetie with out even knowing me.
F. I don't feel like it.

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Sun 06/27/10 09:06 PM

So here we go down this path again.
Still WAITING! laugh :wink:

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Sun 06/27/10 09:06 PM
Good looking is going to be subjective. But basically you're saying anyone you think is good looking is going to treat you like crap? If you're going to be negative right up front, you're not going to get anything positive from anyone else.

*Why because what I said the truth?

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Sun 06/27/10 09:07 PM


She wouldn't have guys she didn't know pestering her to call them?

or less often anyway



*I'm going to rip the phone cord out of the wall then and never talk on the phone again.


mmk.indifferent

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Sun 06/27/10 09:09 PM
Edited by Atlantis75 on Sun 06/27/10 09:09 PM

These are the reason I do not respond to emails:
A. They live in India
B. They are too old or too young (actually changed my email settings so this isn't so much of a problem anymore)
C. They ask me something in the first email that is clearly covered in my profile.
D. Their profile or lack of one tells me something I don't like ie no profile says they aren't taking this seriously at all or their profile goes on and on about how sexy or great they are. No thanks.
E. They call me sexy/honey/baby/sweetie with out even knowing me.
F. I don't feel like it.


I'm a 45 year old guy from India I'm good with sex, and I'm never serious, honey! Do you feel like talking to me? What color is your hair and what do you do for living? :wink: laugh happy


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Sun 06/27/10 09:12 PM
Deutsch.

Ok Ill say it right now this guy is smarter than I.

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Sun 06/27/10 09:12 PM

Good looking is going to be subjective. But basically you're saying anyone you think is good looking is going to treat you like crap? If you're going to be negative right up front, you're not going to get anything positive from anyone else.

*Why because what I said the truth?


You must have missed the part about being negative. Complaining isn't going to help you. I'd say if it's working, keep it up, but you've said it isn't working. So why continue to be so negative?

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Sun 06/27/10 09:15 PM
Thats a good game sir. Tell them they are 'good looking so they will be mean', and thereby challenging them to give you a shot. Hows it workin?

Pretty women never give you a shot. So whats the point of asking this question.

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Sun 06/27/10 09:16 PM
You must have missed the part about being negative. Complaining isn't going to help you. I'd say if it's working, keep it up, but you've said it isn't working. So why continue to be so negative?

*I agree with being positive. However I also agree with being honest.

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Sun 06/27/10 09:18 PM
Well, continue to think any woman you may find to be good looking will treat you like crap. It's likely to happen with that attitude. :thumbsup: