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Topic: Totally Confused!
Suzanne20's photo
Mon 06/28/10 05:51 PM
This guy I dated recently and who I thought dumped me just called me. A while back I got a message on Yahoo IM from him saying he found someone else and leave him alone so I kinda moved on. But he called me because he saw my Myspace status and was upset about it. I haven't heard from him since March and now he is swearing up and down he did not send that message. How should I reply to this situation? Is he just trying to get me back because the other girl broke up with him or could it be the truth? Opinions please!

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 06/28/10 05:53 PM
He's lying.

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 06/28/10 05:53 PM
what did his status say at the time?

Regardless....personally...I'd let it go. Someone on his end is into games and drama. If you did get back with him, then whoever sent the message (assuming it's not him) would cause problems.

Just doesn't seem worth it to me.ohwell

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 06/28/10 05:55 PM
It's been a few months now...I agree, he's lying.

Totage's photo
Mon 06/28/10 06:00 PM

This guy I dated recently and who I thought dumped me just called me. A while back I got a message on Yahoo IM from him saying he found someone else and leave him alone so I kinda moved on. But he called me because he saw my Myspace status and was upset about it. I haven't heard from him since March and now he is swearing up and down he did not send that message. How should I reply to this situation? Is he just trying to get me back because the other girl broke up with him or could it be the truth? Opinions please!


I think you're smart enough to figure it out. flowerforyou

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 06/28/10 06:01 PM

Did he tell you he was held prisoner since March and therefore unable to call?

:thumbsup:

Suzanne20's photo
Mon 06/28/10 06:03 PM

Did he tell you he was held prisoner since March and therefore unable to call?


Haha he did say his phone broke in half and he was unable to do anything with it...including Yahoo. But I have to agree that the whole thing is fishy. Stuff like this is the whole reason I stay single in the first place. Just not into games. I know that not every man is like that but it is just easier right now to have friendships.

IndnPrncs's photo
Mon 06/28/10 06:04 PM

Did he tell you he was held prisoner since March and therefore unable to call?


Exactly... Was he in the hospital in traction? Suz, you know the answer.... He's a game player pure and simple...

isaac_dede's photo
Mon 06/28/10 06:05 PM
his new girl probably broke up with him, and he thinks he can manipulate you in getting back together with everything being 'peachy'

Suzanne20's photo
Mon 06/28/10 06:08 PM

his new girl probably broke up with him, and he thinks he can manipulate you in getting back together with everything being 'peachy'


That is what I think too. He thinks I'm stupid enough to fall for it. I may be naive but definitely not stupid.

Suzanne20's photo
Mon 06/28/10 06:09 PM



I always forget the address of someone Im seeing when my phone breaks. Such things prevent me from using library computers too. Its very interesting really.


Right.happy He must have c.r.s.

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 06/28/10 06:09 PM
I've been the back burner girl before....this reeks of it IMO. Don't be that girl. You deserve better

thayet153's photo
Mon 06/28/10 06:10 PM
My advice is to just move on and forget about him. He can swear up and down that he did not say such things, he could be lying, and obviously if you haven't talked to him since March, then you deserve better than that.

Suzanne20's photo
Mon 06/28/10 06:10 PM

He's the guy who prolly tells you youre mean if you dont beleive him and how hurt he is over it.


I wish I could have recorded his voice when he called. Sounded so hurt...lol

Suzanne20's photo
Mon 06/28/10 06:12 PM
Oh I forgot, he said he has been out of town with his daughter because school let out. Supposedly they went to Houston. Guess they don't have pay phones or 411 there.yawn

IndnPrncs's photo
Mon 06/28/10 06:13 PM

Oh I forgot, he said he has been out of town with his daughter because school let out. Supposedly they went to Houston. Guess they don't have pay phones or 411 there.yawn



She got out of school in March?

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 06/28/10 06:15 PM
flowerforyou Marry himflowerforyou

markc48's photo
Mon 06/28/10 06:34 PM
When it all comes down it's your decision. What do you want to do.

Suzanne20's photo
Mon 06/28/10 06:44 PM


Oh I forgot, he said he has been out of town with his daughter because school let out. Supposedly they went to Houston. Guess they don't have pay phones or 411 there.yawn



She got out of school in March?


No, in May. So that still does not excuse the absence.

Suzanne20's photo
Mon 06/28/10 06:45 PM



He's the guy who prolly tells you youre mean if you dont beleive him and how hurt he is over it.


I wish I could have recorded his voice when he called. Sounded so hurt...lol


You should tell him you are so glad we could straiten it all out and that you are due around new years


Still haven't ruled that out...oops

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