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Topic: I love you but..
Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 07/29/10 07:52 AM
Edited by Gossipmpm on Thu 07/29/10 07:55 AM
What does a man mean when he says:

"I love you---Lets be freinds"

he keeps saying your freinds but keeps saying he loves you

I don't get it! Am I the only one who heard this??

Please tell me what it means!!!


Thanks

no photo
Thu 07/29/10 08:00 AM
He says both?

wow..hmmm..

justme659's photo
Thu 07/29/10 08:01 AM
It means exactly what he says: I love you like I love my...sister, friend or pet. Not, I love you like a soul mate, lover or wife. There are different degrees of love. I love my Mom but not in the same way I love my Daughter.

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 07/29/10 08:01 AM
Can you believe iit!!!!:brokenheart

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 07/29/10 08:02 AM
But he wants to have sex!!

What degree is that exactly!brokenheart

no photo
Thu 07/29/10 08:04 AM
then he wants to be FWB..I guess.it sounds like..but I could be wrong..not enough details

Totage's photo
Thu 07/29/10 08:04 AM

What does a man mean when he says:

"I love you---Lets be freinds"

he keeps saying your freinds but keeps saying he loves you

I don't get it! Am I the only one who heard this??

Please tell me what it means!!!


Thanks


I don't know, but if I love you, you're much more than a friend to me. I mean, I like my friends and all, but there's just some things I would only do with a lover and NOT a friend.

justme659's photo
Thu 07/29/10 08:04 AM
Edited by justme659 on Thu 07/29/10 08:05 AM

But he wants to have sex!!

What degree is that exactly!brokenheart


FWB.

lilott's photo
Thu 07/29/10 08:04 AM
There's a difference between love and being in love.

OKCUTIE67's photo
Thu 07/29/10 08:04 AM
Sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too! What's next? "I think we should see other people"???

misstina2's photo
Thu 07/29/10 08:07 AM
flowerforyou He doesn't want to be committedflowerforyou

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 07/29/10 08:10 AM
We have been communicating awhile. If he wNted FWB. Why didn't he say it. He said he's been attracted to me for a long time

this morning he tells me an ex is coming into town. He still has feelings for her but that doesn't change his feelings for me. ?????

Am I just to old????

no photo
Thu 07/29/10 08:15 AM
scared shocked

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 07/29/10 08:18 AM
I am mom right

I'm to old for this Internet dating **** right?

It really hurts when men do this type of ****

even though I'm a tough old broad I hurt like everyone else

I think I turned bitter with this one!!!:heart:

kc0003's photo
Thu 07/29/10 08:19 AM

flowerforyou He doesn't want to be committedflowerforyou


exactly!

he is trying to keep his options open and at the same time keep your 'door' open.

(i was going to say something other than door, but i think you get the picture)

Totage's photo
Thu 07/29/10 08:20 AM
No, you're not old. Sounds like he's trying to relive old feelings.

Teditis's photo
Thu 07/29/10 08:22 AM
Hmm, truly a heart breaker situation.flowerforyou


It's the path he chooses... different than the one you choose... no harm, no foul; so why ask why? That just drives us nuts... still we do it anyway. Grieve the loss of what coulda been, if...

(btw, it's not a gender specific thing... js.)

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 07/29/10 08:25 AM
It's just that you shouldn't use and hurt people while you walk on your merry path and leave them broken on the side of your path

maybe my heart is to good but I can't imagine doing that to a man

I know you are right:heart:

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 07/29/10 08:26 AM

But he wants to have sex!!

What degree is that exactly!brokenheart


Before I read this I was going to say that friends can love one another. Then I saw the above quote and thought; "you're getting played."

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 07/29/10 08:29 AM
Exactly. I was played.

****. ****. Me!!! Grrrrff. Lol

I don't **** my freinds!!!:heart:

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