romance has to involve sex?

wow, IM really the odd one out in this conversation I guess....

But the topic is "no sex" not no romance

true, but many are implying its not a relationship without sex

I thought relationships were about romance,, thats why I was asking the question

I want romance AND sex, not one or the other.

Me too

ok babe you've pulled get yer coat

Romance is love

having sex with a romantic man is " making love"

deep
soft
sweet
sex

until he slaps my ***!!!


Then it's on baby!!!! Lol

of course, ideally, that is wonderful

but romance WITHOUT sex is not a deal breaker for me

of course, ideally, that is wonderful

but romance WITHOUT sex is not a deal breaker for me

I get that all people on here are horny ?!! I think what really makes a relationship is the uniqueness of the chemistry between a man and a woman, you know that the sparkles differ from one relationship to another even for guys, I think sex comes and goes but that special someone is always hard to find. so personally I would enjoy spending every moment with my girl and getting to know her every little detail, thats what matters...sex is a big bonus for sure though !

There has to be sexual chemistry with me

BIG TIME!!


It's a top 3 for me really

not because I'm horny all the time - or am I????

But to me it's waaaaay important!!

Sure I could, but if the sex is good....I'm going for it! lol

The no sex thing is fine with me. I do not know any better. Clueless to what all the fuss is about.

you are a lucky one,,,,good for you

you are a good man!

when i'm good i'm good when i'm bad i'm better

Take it from someone who knows. When you go long enough without sex, it becomes something separate from the idea of a relationship.

Sure, sex is something that should, in time, be a part of any healthy, loving relationship. However, it isn't what a person really wants from a relationship, a relationship is more about other things.

Do I miss having sex? Well, I would miss it more if I could remember it, but what I miss most is feeling close to someone. I miss having someone to talk with. I miss having someone hug me when I'm happy or sad. I miss sharing a laugh, or a knowing look. I miss seeing someone smile just at the sight of me. I miss having someone get excited because just the two of us are doing something together.

Sex, well it can be found anywhere. They outright sell it in Nevada and Amsterdam, but it isn't the same as a relationship. It isn't even the most important part.

Yep

sex can be found anywhere

you can even buy it if ya want

but

when two people are intertwined

heart and
soul

then sex is important

if that's not there (for me anyway)

the rest will slowly fade-- it is part of the whole pkg to me

if I fall head over heels for you-- love you-- but there's no/bad sex

I can't stay

I'm just saying I can wait. I'm not going to be all over someone, until of course she lets me know she's ready. Of course if she's wise she won't tell me in a restaurant or some other public place.