Topic: what kind of a relationship is when
Atlantis75's photo
Sun 08/15/10 07:05 PM
neither of them say "I love you" to each other?

Have you been in such? See each other and like each other, kiss each other and hug each other, have sex, go out and the whole nine yards.

But the "I love you" is absolutely off limits. Neither of them will say it.

JamieRawxx's photo
Sun 08/15/10 07:17 PM

neither of them say "I love you" to each other?

Have you been in such? See each other and like each other, kiss each other and hug each other, have sex, go out and the whole nine yards.

But the "I love you" is absolutely off limits. Neither of them will say it.


It's called friends with benefits, or it could be a relationship and they just haven't reached that point yet. One or the other has to make it clear as to what they want. Do they want a serious relationship? do they just want to have fun no limits? it is up to the parties involved. maybe they haven't been dating long enough for the "Love" to come out.

Derekkye's photo
Sun 08/15/10 07:21 PM

dont have to say it to feel it...many people say and dont mean it...I would rather not say it, but live/feel it

thayet153's photo
Sun 08/15/10 07:25 PM
Personally, I won't say 'I love you' in a relationship unless I am absolutely certain that I love him. But then again I also wouldn't have sex with him until I am certain I love him as well.

Derekkye's photo
Sun 08/15/10 07:26 PM

Personally, I won't say 'I love you' in a relationship unless I am absolutely certain that I love him. But then again I also wouldn't have sex with him until I am certain I love him as well.


a woman of substance - flowerforyou

oldsage's photo
Sun 08/15/10 07:26 PM
I firmly believe "actions speak louder than words.

I show my feeling by my actions, always have & always will.

Been lied to, most of my life & have a large truth in words thing.


no photo
Sun 08/15/10 07:48 PM

Personally, I won't say 'I love you' in a relationship unless I am absolutely certain that I love him. But then again I also wouldn't have sex with him until I am certain I love him as well.


I completely agree with this statement. I think there are a lot of people out there who just either don't feel the need to say it.

It took me a few bad relationships to finally find the guy that I love. I figure you shouldn't say it unless you absolutely mean it. Otherwise its just three words that have no meaning

JamieRawxx's photo
Sun 08/15/10 07:53 PM
There's a difference in sex and love. sex without love is harmless it's just sex but i have to say sex with love is the greatest thing to ever happen.

ArtGurl's photo
Sun 08/15/10 10:11 PM
I won't say it if I don't mean it ... but when I mean it ... I say it often

Jtevans's photo
Sun 08/15/10 11:02 PM
Friends With Benefits glasses

msharmony's photo
Mon 08/16/10 03:24 AM

neither of them say "I love you" to each other?

Have you been in such? See each other and like each other, kiss each other and hug each other, have sex, go out and the whole nine yards.

But the "I love you" is absolutely off limits. Neither of them will say it.



havent done that, cause I even say I love you to my friends

but isnt that a 'girlfriend experience' or 'friends with benefits' ,,??

JamieRawxx's photo
Mon 08/16/10 05:18 AM
There are a lot of stipulations when you ask a question like this.