correct,no answer says alot.it tells me they are not at all interested in me,they,re rude,have very little class,and they are consise(say all that without hitting a button).i prefer these people over liars.

EXACTLY. I used to do the same, because I was taught that is just common courtesy.

But when you receive back some ugly response to your decency? Nah .. not doin that anymore. You're right, rejection is not handled well by many.

I don't think anyone should feel badly if someone doesn't sense chemistry .. geesh

I don't think badly of people who can't sense chemistry. I use to mix acid with chlorine when I was working cleanup at Tyson's chicken processing. I thought it would make the stainless steel brighter. It didn't though. All it would do was leave this yellow color on the stainless steel. My supervisor could sense chemistry though and told me to cut it out because people around me were trying to breathe.

Reading your post I was curious and read your profile. You are right you have a lot to offer someone but the way your selling it is really no offense meant killing you off at the gate. Wrote your profile like you would sell your favorite candidate and things will improve. You have a lot of pictures but they are confuseing and not particularly flattering you. Sad because once you figure out who you are I see a pretty clean cut easy on the eyes young man.

I am sorry you got such ugly responses. It is hard to shake off that kind of soul crushing but but don't assume someone who doesn't respond is equally mean. They just may be busy, met someone recently they like but are not ready to declare, or like you focusing on being a parent when needed. Maybe they got a scarey response and they are rebuilding their confidence. It is hard to believe some of the responses and the shear volume that young women get on line. There are a lot of free sites so they could be over whelmed.

It is sad sometimes no response is just trying to be kind. No one really wants to hear even "Thanks but no thanks." We say we do but you really want to see "You got mail followed by a "no thanks"?

Hang in there it is a numbers and timing thing. I have seen it hundreds of times late 20's Early 30's peaking and valleying trudgeing through the dateing thing but somehow they connect if they keep going. Good Luck!

((((( Mikey ))))) You know I luv ya babe

i don't know....i guess the no reply is an answer...not a nice one lol as it leavse you wonderin...did i say something wrong lol.

*shrugs* i try not to take it personally and brush it off and keep on rollin :)

ditto...

If you're going to be on a site like this, you need to have a little thicker skin. If someone does not respond, they're just not interested. No reason to get upset about it. There are many other people out there for you to talk to. It doesn't mean they're rude, have little class or anything like that. As someone else stated, I used to reply to everything, but after getting a bunch of nasty emails in return, I don't always respond.