Topic: rude or not
Edy_ca's photo
Sun 09/12/10 10:41 PM




if someone takes the time to email you when you are asking people to respond to your profile,it seems to me the least you could do is to answer them in some sort or fashion.i realize that you don,t want to hurt peoples feelings but i believe that most people would rather you be honest with them than be ignored.i know i would but i may be in the minority.what do you think,is it rude to not respond at all.


I hate it when people judge you before even talking to you. I have gotten emails saying your ugly, your hideous, I would never date someone as ugly as you, pull your lip over your face and swallow and you might then be attractive. I have heard them all and it really hurts.

I have a lot to offer someone. I treat who ever im with like gold. But people are so hung up on looks, that all that matters. They would rather be with some hot guy who treat them like dirt then some ugly guy like me who would make them so happy and would think the world of them.


they called you ugly?! um, i would take you any day smokin


I've tried, member? You don't respond tears


but i didn't cal you ugly, just to lazy to write back rofl rofl

ArtGurl's photo
Sun 09/12/10 10:41 PM



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How's your neck doing sistah?




Still the same....they want to do more steroid shots because the first doctor missed all six herniated disks. Only thing is, I get sick after the shots and am really not looking forward to another three sets of shots.:cry:



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Lpdon's photo
Sun 09/12/10 10:41 PM

I haven't received hate mail or even scammers lately. I am losing my touch laugh


That's cause they know with one click you will just ban them. laugh

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 09/12/10 10:42 PM


I haven't received hate mail or even scammers lately. I am losing my touch laugh


That's cause they know with one click you will just ban them. laugh


nah.....I don't have that power...YET pitchfork

Lpdon's photo
Sun 09/12/10 10:42 PM





if someone takes the time to email you when you are asking people to respond to your profile,it seems to me the least you could do is to answer them in some sort or fashion.i realize that you don,t want to hurt peoples feelings but i believe that most people would rather you be honest with them than be ignored.i know i would but i may be in the minority.what do you think,is it rude to not respond at all.


I hate it when people judge you before even talking to you. I have gotten emails saying your ugly, your hideous, I would never date someone as ugly as you, pull your lip over your face and swallow and you might then be attractive. I have heard them all and it really hurts.

I have a lot to offer someone. I treat who ever im with like gold. But people are so hung up on looks, that all that matters. They would rather be with some hot guy who treat them like dirt then some ugly guy like me who would make them so happy and would think the world of them.


they called you ugly?! um, i would take you any day smokin


I've tried, member? You don't respond tears


but i didn't cal you ugly, just to lazy to write back rofl rofl


tears But you have to write back to take me...........

Lpdon's photo
Sun 09/12/10 10:43 PM
All's I know is I want to be married and have a family more then anything.

Edy_ca's photo
Sun 09/12/10 10:44 PM

All's I know is I want to be married and have a family more then anything.


oh no, i want the opposite, daing...so close lol

Lpdon's photo
Sun 09/12/10 11:03 PM


All's I know is I want to be married and have a family more then anything.


oh no, i want the opposite, daing...so close lol


There is always compromise.

Edy_ca's photo
Sun 09/12/10 11:05 PM
Edited by Edy_ca on Sun 09/12/10 11:05 PM



All's I know is I want to be married and have a family more then anything.


oh no, i want the opposite, daing...so close lol


There is always compromise.


im not always good at the, you can teach me, and then...when i dont get it...you can punish meblushing

no photo
Sun 09/12/10 11:42 PM
I always answer, unless it's an obvious scammer. If I'm not interested, I always let the guy know (politely) so he doesn't waste his time.

Suzanne20's photo
Sun 09/12/10 11:42 PM
I used to respond to all messages. Til I got sick of looking up landmarks to draw on the maps I was making for them in order to get to the cliff they were to drive off of at 110mph. I don't respond to the pervs or anyone that starts off "hey sexy" or "hey baby"..I am nobody's baby except my parents. drinker

bigojockey's photo
Mon 09/13/10 02:54 AM

I always see that as a quandary too. It seems really rude not to reply, especially if someone has taken the time to write a long message and they're polite. But there's always the fear that by replying you're showing an interest which may not be there, thus leaving you with the dilemma of having to say 'no' at some point!

But if anyone is crude in any way in their introductory message I don't bother replying at all.
in that case,the time to say no would be in your reply.you can reply and let someone know that your not interested at the same time,IMO

bigojockey's photo
Mon 09/13/10 03:25 AM


if someone takes the time to email you when you are asking people to respond to your profile,it seems to me the least you could do is to answer them in some sort or fashion.i realize that you don,t want to hurt peoples feelings but i believe that most people would rather you be honest with them than be ignored.i know i would but i may be in the minority.what do you think,is it rude to not respond at all.


I hate it when people judge you before even talking to you. I have gotten emails saying your ugly, your hideous, I would never date someone as ugly as you, pull your lip over your face and swallow and you might then be attractive. I have heard them all and it really hurts.

I have a lot to offer someone. I treat who ever im with like gold. But people are so hung up on looks, that all that matters. They would rather be with some hot guy who treat them like dirt then some ugly guy like me who would make them so happy and would think the world of them.
i think that you are right about how much people care about looks(looks matter to most people more than they want to admit)i scan pictures and pick the ones i want to read as i think most people do.thats probably one of the reasons people don,t respond to emails from people they don,t find attractive(don,t want to hurt their feelings)i think you can tell someone your not attracted to them without being mean after all beauty is in the eye of the beholder.its the people that use other excuses in those situations rather than being honest that bother me.some of them can,t even be honest with themselves because then they have to admit how much looks really matter.

Lpdon's photo
Mon 09/13/10 11:01 AM
Edited by Lpdon on Mon 09/13/10 11:02 AM




All's I know is I want to be married and have a family more then anything.


oh no, i want the opposite, daing...so close lol


There is always compromise.


im not always good at the, you can teach me, and then...when i dont get it...you can punish meblushing


Works for me! Let' get started!

First lesson, whenever you see me you are to refer to me as Daddy. bigsmile

Lpdon's photo
Mon 09/13/10 11:08 AM



if someone takes the time to email you when you are asking people to respond to your profile,it seems to me the least you could do is to answer them in some sort or fashion.i realize that you don,t want to hurt peoples feelings but i believe that most people would rather you be honest with them than be ignored.i know i would but i may be in the minority.what do you think,is it rude to not respond at all.


I hate it when people judge you before even talking to you. I have gotten emails saying your ugly, your hideous, I would never date someone as ugly as you, pull your lip over your face and swallow and you might then be attractive. I have heard them all and it really hurts.

I have a lot to offer someone. I treat who ever im with like gold. But people are so hung up on looks, that all that matters. They would rather be with some hot guy who treat them like dirt then some ugly guy like me who would make them so happy and would think the world of them.
i think that you are right about how much people care about looks(looks matter to most people more than they want to admit)i scan pictures and pick the ones i want to read as i think most people do.thats probably one of the reasons people don,t respond to emails from people they don,t find attractive(don,t want to hurt their feelings)i think you can tell someone your not attracted to them without being mean after all beauty is in the eye of the beholder.its the people that use other excuses in those situations rather than being honest that bother me.some of them can,t even be honest with themselves because then they have to admit how much looks really matter.


My thing is, I don't determine attraction until after I have talked to the person. True attraction lies withinb the person, not outside.

Edy_ca's photo
Mon 09/13/10 11:19 AM
Hi, Daddy bigsmile

AllenAqua's photo
Mon 09/13/10 11:32 AM
I don't think it's rude to not respond to an email from a stranger.

Why would it be so? Common courtesy might be called for if it was from an acquaintance perhaps, but a random stranger? No... It's only prudent at worst...

During summers in highschool, I had a small yard care thing going on for extra spending money. In the fall I'd go door to door at the houses in my nieghborhood that obviously needed their leaves raked. More often than not I'd at least get a "no thank you" if my service wasn't wanted, but there was this one lady who taught me a life lesson when after I'd rung her doorbell three times, she EXPLODED at the door giving me what for and making sure that I understood to NEVER knock or ring more than once...

I got the lesson and it has served me well...


She wasn't being rude by any stretch... I was the rude one...

Lpdon's photo
Mon 09/13/10 12:49 PM

Hi, Daddy bigsmile


Hi Princess! How is the most beautiful woman in the world and mother of the year doing today? love

irisheyes79's photo
Mon 09/13/10 02:02 PM
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EquusDancer's photo
Mon 09/13/10 03:28 PM
What are emails?!

laugh