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Topic: No, I Don't Want To Date You
eileena9's photo
Tue 09/28/10 05:23 PM
Lex, dont you mene "lamaz"?? Thats how me ticher tol me itz speld...

Duffy's photo
Tue 09/28/10 05:26 PM
la mays is a garbage group up here in wa state. is that what u mean elaine?
ah well, lamaz is a medical term for babies. i forgot what that is about 2.
then, FO off means, something else in piglatin. oink.:banana:

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Tue 09/28/10 05:27 PM

Lex, dont you mene "lamaz"?? Thats how me ticher tol me itz speld...


The capital of Bolivia?


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Tue 09/28/10 05:29 PM
I must really be ditzy because I could never get the hang of pig latin, Duffy..laugh laugh

Then again.....I can't play a kazoo either.embarassed frown

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Tue 09/28/10 08:13 PM


Why is it that some people get offended and offensive at the thought that some people here in Mingle are only here for the friendship? Is that really hard to understand? Have you encountered the same thing?


I think the internet is THE place for a lot of people to get offended, because it's so much safer than doing it in real life.

And, as this is a site for all kinds of people looking for all kinds of interactions, why should we just pigeonhole everybody into one category? I've seen posts that say "Married people should not be on this site!" even if they're just looking for friends. It's a little harsh.

If I had a nickel for every woman who got offended on line because I wouldn't date her, well, I'd have about $5.85 by now.

I figure, hey, it's their choice to be offended. Who am I to tell them what to do?

shades


So true. :smile:

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Tue 09/28/10 08:14 PM

If I got offended every time someone didn't want to go out with me, I'd be pissed all the time and have no one left to talk too!!! laugh



I actually viewed a profile once...that's all, just viewed..She sends me an email back yelling all kinds of paranoid crap...laugh laugh ...I sent her one back, telling her to kindly F--- O--!!drinker


Too funny! laugh

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Tue 09/28/10 08:20 PM
Edited by red_lace on Tue 09/28/10 08:58 PM

okay so ur going to send them a message that if they don't answer u r going to cut ur wrists with a rusty butter knife because they just sound interesting.
um well, in a case like this, i would consult the site administrators, and c what they would say.

personally, i cannot comment on a condition that runs through your head like this. i could get just like Eileena9....."i don't know what 2 write here".......



In my very first statement, that was not what I was trying to say. The recent one is about an entirely different subject, but I thought to post it here because, in a way, I thought it's somehow related.

In any case, I was actually referring to this guy who recently wrote to me. When I replied to him, out of courtesy, I told him my reason for being here on Mingle, since from the gist of his message, he seems interested on a more romantic level. I thought that the most decent thing for me to do was to tell him that I'm only here for my friends, and if lucky, to establish more friendships, but he got a bit hostile, in my opinion. For him, there is no reason why anyone should be here if it's only for friendship. I'm not going to go into details, but suffice to say he got offended at the notion that there are people here who does not have dating as their objective. So I asked if there are other people who experiences the same thing. Thank you very much for your advice though, I did consider it. flowerforyou

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Wed 09/29/10 02:18 AM


okay so ur going to send them a message that if they don't answer u r going to cut ur wrists with a rusty butter knife because they just sound interesting.
um well, in a case like this, i would consult the site administrators, and c what they would say.

personally, i cannot comment on a condition that runs through your head like this. i could get just like Eileena9....."i don't know what 2 write here".......



In my very first statement, that was not what I was trying to say. The recent one is about an entirely different subject, but I thought to post it here because, in a way, I thought it's somehow related.

In any case, I was actually referring to this guy who recently wrote to me. When I replied to him, out of courtesy, I told him my reason for being here on Mingle, since from the gist of his message, he seems interested on a more romantic level. I thought that the most decent thing for me to do was to tell him that I'm only here for my friends, and if lucky, to establish more friendships, but he got a bit hostile, in my opinion. For him, there is no reason why anyone should be here if it's only for friendship. I'm not going to go into details, but suffice to say he got offended at the notion that there are people here who does not have dating as their objective. So I asked if there are other people who experiences the same thing. Thank you very much for your advice though, I did consider it. flowerforyou



so i take it you didnt get to the pie?

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Wed 09/29/10 09:27 AM

so i take it you didnt get to the pie?


Bah, been waiting for that pie bribe for ages and still no luck. noway laugh

1Bartolo's photo
Wed 09/29/10 09:39 AM
Hey Red click my profile Lets-Be-Friends

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Wed 09/29/10 10:39 AM


so i take it you didnt get to the pie?


Bah, been waiting for that pie bribe for ages and still no luck. noway laugh


RedLace, don't rely on a pie bribe from a man. tongue2

Here is pie for you - no strings attached! flowerforyou


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Wed 09/29/10 10:47 AM
I'm hungry now

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Wed 09/29/10 11:03 AM



so i take it you didnt get to the pie?


Bah, been waiting for that pie bribe for ages and still no luck. noway laugh


RedLace, don't rely on a pie bribe from a man. tongue2

Here is pie for you - no strings attached! flowerforyou




Melody! My hero! :heart:

My favorite kind too! :thumbsup:

Thank you! You rock!bigsmile

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Thu 09/30/10 08:01 AM
I am on this site to find people to have fun getting to know.. I am not on here for sexual encounters. LOL.. that will automatically eliminate many men from replying to my post...lol... my situation is like this... I am a nurse who also trained in other areas of study. I am married... but I am pretty certain my husband is trying to dump me before long. I would like to just meet people so that when he does .. I already have friends and the transition will be easier for me. I walk when I can.. but have gained some weight. My spouse is on all these dating sites while married to me and always comes across as single or divorced or separated... of which he is none. Which gave me the idea that he is looking for a new lover to replace me since I have gained some weight. I am ok with it because I really do not want a cheater. I will lose my weight ... and be ok.. I just would like some friends I know and have fun with so that my heart can heal. I am not mental in what I am seeing in my husband .. he never calls me to see if I am ok... he walks way ahead of me when we are out and about... and in social gatherings he always goes over to other women and chats them up leaving me by myself. He will not hold my hand .. and he even sleeps in a different bedroom from me so he can go online chats in the early morning.. he is always sending me articles on the obesity of women and articles on flabby sex. I think he is an abuser... I just wanted to be able to readjust to going it on my own before long because all the marks are there that he is seeking to replace me with a new trophy wife... I don't mind really ... because even if I have gained some weight I would still be better off by myself than with a man who tries to destroy women. Just wondered if there we any friends out there who might have had similar things happen to them and would maybe not mind getting to know me as a friend.

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Thu 09/30/10 05:32 PM
okay so i was off a little

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