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Topic: Your Opinion Please...
JUSTSAYINGHELLOO's photo
Tue 09/21/10 10:14 AM

sounds like its time to build a bridge and just move on
smokin


Its being build and on the verge of termination ...:heart:

msharmony's photo
Tue 09/21/10 10:36 AM
sounds like emotional games,, you should probably cut loose of the expectations you have there and be more open to meeting someone who is offering what you are needing,,,

OKCUTIE67's photo
Tue 09/21/10 10:49 AM



odds are 10 to 1 he found someone else. sorry.


Unfortunately, I agree. Sorry hun, but I think it's time to move on. flowerforyou


thanks okcutie67

I will move on....the only thing is when someone treats you like a princess the entire relationship, and then one day you get hit without knowing it, you are a bit dizzy getting back up and now I am just trying to regain my balance...flowerforyou


Don't have to tell me hun! I was married for 10 years and thought we had a wonderful relationship until he walked out on me one Thursday night and never came back. I later found out he had been seeing someone else for quite a while. But right up until he walked out the door he was still doing sweet little things for me as he always had so I had no idea! Talk about "out of the blue"!!! Leaves you wondering how you could be so clueless as to how your life really was and how well you thought you knew that other person! brokenheart

tanyaann's photo
Tue 09/21/10 10:58 AM

Wont call back in a month!!!!!!!! WTF!!!!!!


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TAMMYS OPINION TAMMYS OPINION TAMMYS OPINION TAMMYS OPINION
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A. He does not care about you

B. He is playing games with you

C. Hes a coward for not letting go

D. He is married and cant pull off the game anymore

E. He is schtipping someone else

F. The internet is not real


also known as Tammys humble opinion:heart:


I second Tammy's Opinion!

JUSTSAYINGHELLOO's photo
Tue 09/21/10 11:06 AM




odds are 10 to 1 he found someone else. sorry.


Unfortunately, I agree. Sorry hun, but I think it's time to move on. flowerforyou


thanks okcutie67

I will move on....the only thing is when someone treats you like a princess the entire relationship, and then one day you get hit without knowing it, you are a bit dizzy getting back up and now I am just trying to regain my balance...flowerforyou


Don't have to tell me hun! I was married for 10 years and thought we had a wonderful relationship until he walked out on me one Thursday night and never came back. I later found out he had been seeing someone else for quite a while. But right up until he walked out the door he was still doing sweet little things for me as he always had so I had no idea! Talk about "out of the blue"!!! Leaves you wondering how you could be so clueless as to how your life really was and how well you thought you knew that other person! brokenheart


Sorry hun...brokenheart

JUSTSAYINGHELLOO's photo
Tue 09/21/10 11:07 AM


Wont call back in a month!!!!!!!! WTF!!!!!!


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TAMMYS OPINION TAMMYS OPINION TAMMYS OPINION TAMMYS OPINION
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A. He does not care about you

B. He is playing games with you

C. Hes a coward for not letting go

D. He is married and cant pull off the game anymore

E. He is schtipping someone else

F. The internet is not real


also known as Tammys humble opinion:heart:


I second Tammy's Opinion!


happy Tammy should start her club, she would have lots of members..bigsmile

JUSTSAYINGHELLOO's photo
Tue 09/21/10 11:07 AM

sounds like emotional games,, you should probably cut loose of the expectations you have there and be more open to meeting someone who is offering what you are needing,,,

Thanks flowerforyou

southern_bee's photo
Tue 09/21/10 11:50 AM
from my experience and reading "hes just not that into you" by greg Bernhardt.
it was probably convenient at the time to be with somebody but not deal with the real inter workings of a relationship where he sees them all the time.
for what ever reason he may he gotten bored or met someone closer and handled breaking it off with you in a very crappy way!

JUSTSAYINGHELLOO's photo
Tue 09/21/10 11:56 AM

from my experience and reading "hes just not that into you" by greg Bernhardt.
it was probably convenient at the time to be with somebody but not deal with the real inter workings of a relationship where he sees them all the time.
for what ever reason he may he gotten bored or met someone closer and handled breaking it off with you in a very crappy way!


Thank you souther_bee and all of your for your advice and opinionbrokenheart flowerforyou

no photo
Tue 09/21/10 08:54 PM





odds are 10 to 1 he found someone else. sorry.


Unfortunately, I agree. Sorry hun, but I think it's time to move on. flowerforyou


thanks okcutie67

I will move on....the only thing is when someone treats you like a princess the entire relationship, and then one day you get hit without knowing it, you are a bit dizzy getting back up and now I am just trying to regain my balance...flowerforyou


Don't have to tell me hun! I was married for 10 years and thought we had a wonderful relationship until he walked out on me one Thursday night and never came back. I later found out he had been seeing someone else for quite a while. But right up until he walked out the door he was still doing sweet little things for me as he always had so I had no idea! Talk about "out of the blue"!!! Leaves you wondering how you could be so clueless as to how your life really was and how well you thought you knew that other person! brokenheart


Sorry hun...brokenheart


"Out of the blue" means that YOU were the one left in the dark wondering -- WTF. He had probably been planning it all along. Sorry you had to experience this kind of cowardice. I've been there too.

darkdragon6977's photo
Tue 09/21/10 10:09 PM
Edited by darkdragon6977 on Tue 09/21/10 10:12 PM

I was in a long distance relationship for two years and from one day to the next it was over, he dropped me like a log, via email. And his reasoning was, I was complaining too much that He did not call me often enough. Although I would call him but he would never return my phone calls.
Well yes, I was complaining because it was over a month that I had not spoken to him on the telephone and the only means of communication he was responding to was emails. His defense was he was very busy and it was just bad timing.
Am I wrong thinking after all this invested time something must be up and he is totally a coward not being man enough to call me and being honest with me??
what is your opinion...

wow sounds so familiar the only differences in our story's is that the women that left me she said that i wanted to talk to often go figure so i guess putting your story and mine together the only logical thing i can come up with is that long distance relationships just don't work period

Dragoness's photo
Tue 09/21/10 10:17 PM
If you don't talk to someone for a month except on email, that is a pen pal.

So I think you already know the answer.

southern_bee's photo
Tue 09/21/10 10:44 PM


from my experience and reading "hes just not that into you" by greg Bernhardt.
it was probably convenient at the time to be with somebody but not deal with the real inter workings of a relationship where he sees them all the time.
for what ever reason he may he gotten bored or met someone closer and handled breaking it off with you in a very crappy way!


Thank you souther_bee and all of your for your advice and opinionbrokenheart flowerforyou


hey no prob!it sucks definitely at first but dont spend your energy on someone who is an ***!

no photo
Tue 09/21/10 11:13 PM

I was in a long distance relationship for two years and from one day to the next it was over, he dropped me like a log, via email. And his reasoning was, I was complaining too much that He did not call me often enough. Although I would call him but he would never return my phone calls.
Well yes, I was complaining because it was over a month that I had not spoken to him on the telephone and the only means of communication he was responding to was emails. His defense was he was very busy and it was just bad timing.
Am I wrong thinking after all this invested time something must be up and he is totally a coward not being man enough to call me and being honest with me??
what is your opinion...
Just always remember this, PLEASE,,,NEVERA trust your heart to someone you have never met in person.......

MANY HERE, will rip your guts out before lunch the first day,,,or,to the last day. Its some peoples idea of SPORT and PLAY!!!!!!

Just saying,,,,,,I know,,,as I have had them do THAT,,,to me..

JUSTSAYINGHELLOO's photo
Wed 09/22/10 06:30 AM

If you don't talk to someone for a month except on email, that is a pen pal.

So I think you already know the answer.


PEN PAL!! Your right!!oops

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