Topic: Is it just me?
lilott's photo
Mon 10/18/10 09:35 PM
Almost 17 years alone.

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Tue 10/19/10 10:56 AM
theres a difference between being alone and lonely...one can be alone for many years and be completely happy, while 24 hours of loneliness can feel like a lifetime...

Dragoness's photo
Tue 10/19/10 10:58 AM

I have been single going on 4 years now. Tell me is it just me or am I the only one that has been single for that long?


Since 2004 here.

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 10/19/10 11:00 AM
10 years............with little flings in between!!!!bigsmile :heart:

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 10/19/10 11:00 AM
Ohhhhhhhhhhhh hell I have been divorced since 1991 but sure the hell does not mean I have become a hermit.....noway :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

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Tue 10/19/10 11:13 AM

theres a difference between being alone and lonely...one can be alone for many years and be completely happy, while 24 hours of loneliness can feel like a lifetime...


very well saiddrinker

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Tue 10/19/10 12:00 PM


theres a difference between being alone and lonely...one can be alone for many years and be completely happy, while 24 hours of loneliness can feel like a lifetime...


very well saiddrinker


...thank you....blushing

venusenvy's photo
Tue 10/19/10 12:04 PM
Nope...Ive been "single" for 7 yrs now. I would love to meet my forever man, but I also really enjoy my life. More and more peeps are making the decision to live alone. Your just part of the wave and far from alone. flowerforyou

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 10/19/10 03:58 PM
i have met the one..................he was put in my path and I in his in our lives.....................so



I think after all is said and done......................



the fairy tale will begin.......bigsmile :heart:

no photo
Thu 10/21/10 09:34 AM
sad I have been divorced and single since 2004 I would love to be with a man who genuinely loves and accepts me.
I am not yet confident in trying to start a new relationship its just a matter of time before I meet someone ( well that's what I keep telling myself) flowers smitten



prashant01's photo
Thu 10/21/10 09:43 AM

sometimes being single is better than being with the wrong person... i made that mistake, and now am single again..


Well said

1Bartolo's photo
Thu 10/21/10 09:47 AM
Running 10 years almost got married in 2000 Happy I didn't things would have been alot worse for me today

prashant01's photo
Thu 10/21/10 09:47 AM

I have been single going on 4 years now. Tell me is it just me or am I the only one that has been single for that long?

I think no one is double laugh in this world.
I mean everyone is single....just like u.....!! & ofcource me....drinker

msharmony's photo
Thu 10/21/10 09:47 AM
I have not seen my husband for two years, but for some I am still not single because I havent officially gotten a divorce


but I have been ALONE for about four years (I saw him for ONE week two years ago) now

prashant01's photo
Thu 10/21/10 09:48 AM

Almost 17 years alone.


Dont worry uncle....everyone is ALONE heredrinker

flawlessmeans's photo
Thu 10/21/10 10:37 AM

I have been single going on 4 years now. Tell me is it just me or am I the only one that has been single for that long?


Nope its just you! LOLhuh :laughing:

AGoodGuy1026's photo
Thu 10/21/10 10:39 AM

Nope...Ive been "single" for 7 yrs now. I would love to meet my forever man, but I also really enjoy my life. More and more peeps are making the decision to live alone. Your just part of the wave and far from alone. flowerforyou


slaphead Noooooo!! sad

rofl smile2

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leveller1's photo
Thu 10/21/10 12:27 PM
Got divorced in 1998, had a year long relationship in 2003 - been single since. Situation doesn't worry me as it happens. I am a firm believer in the saying that you can only be happy with someone else when once you have accepted whatever might have happened in your world and are happy within your own skin. Carrying around a lot of unresolved stuff (otherwise known as emotional baggage) - then imposing it upon someone else is simply not fair - and frankly creates an unworkable situation in my opinion.

Jess642's photo
Thu 10/21/10 01:14 PM
....why would 4 years single be abnormal...you are a young busy mum, who appears to have her priorities in perfect order.

I call it discerning...you've not jumped into the first crazy thing that turned up....I applaude you.


I've been comfortably single all my life..(I think there's only one of me in here..noway laugh )...

Nah...I like people...and have many deep and rewarding relationships with people...extremely satisfying...intimate in the way of honesty and mutual affection for each other...without the labels and the whole spastic-ness of this man/woman obligation-ridden romantic relationship thingo.

I love, and am loved....what more does a human require?

Sex....that's available anywhere!:wink:

Beachfarmer's photo
Thu 10/21/10 01:26 PM
flowerforyou Perhaps "friends with benefits?"

rofl

Counting days til kopesetic schedules! (Mid-November)flowerforyou