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Topic: first date since the breakup
blueeyedcutie93's photo
Sat 10/23/10 10:44 AM
well i had my first date since me and my fiancee ended things....
dinner (mexican) and a movie (social network)...
it was good... feels kinda weird because its not Jerry but i guess it takes some getting used to for a while.
Not too sure how fast i want this whole dating thing to move right now. i know im young but when your hurt, age knows no difference

venusenvy's photo
Sat 10/23/10 10:48 AM
Please take it slow...give yourself time to heal and get your head straight. Go easy on yourself for awhile. Remember the crappiest thing about rebounding is...we dont know we are and all that comes from it is two peeps end up hurt. Have a relationship with yourself for a bit ...your next love affair will be much better for it flowerforyou

blueeyedcutie93's photo
Sat 10/23/10 10:51 AM
thanks venus.... i will take it slow.. just seems like theres a huge hole there that needs to be filled somehow

venusenvy's photo
Sat 10/23/10 10:55 AM
I know Ive totally been there...turns out the "hole" is a big wound that needs to heal...and it will. Your beautiful and have everything to look forward too in life. I know it seems impossible, but the day will come when you think about this dude (if you EVER do) and you will just shake your head and laugh at the fool.smooched flowerforyou

blueeyedcutie93's photo
Sat 10/23/10 10:57 AM
o lord let that day come fast!!!! right now all i can do is get mad and unfortunately cry:(
the thing is.. i already had major trust issues because of previous issues(family and etc. related) and now well lets just say i basically dont trust any guy

TonkaTruck3's photo
Sat 10/23/10 03:31 PM

thanks venus.... i will take it slow.. just seems like theres a huge hole there that needs to be filled somehow

Maybe I can help you with that!!:tongue:

RKISIT's photo
Sat 10/23/10 03:34 PM
Edited by RKISIT on Sat 10/23/10 03:44 PM
if he took you to a mexican restaurant he is a good man,means he doesn't care if you fart in front of him

soufiehere's photo
Sat 10/23/10 03:38 PM
Wisdom.

buttons's photo
Sat 10/23/10 03:40 PM

if he took you took a mexican restaurant he is a good man,means he doesn't care if you fart in front of him
omg! lmao! sorry op!rofl rofl rofl rofl

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Sat 10/23/10 03:42 PM

Wisdom.


/Pretentious BS. indifferent

buttons's photo
Sat 10/23/10 03:43 PM
if you arent sure if you are ready to date.. most often from my experience anyway you arent ready.. take your time...

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Sat 10/23/10 03:46 PM


thanks venus.... i will take it slow.. just seems like theres a huge hole there that needs to be filled somehow

Maybe I can help you with that!!:tongue:

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OP, I think u are doing fine (withtout the truck guylaugh pitchfork )ur dating friend can help to fill that emptiness. not as burden for him but as a joy to u both

RKISIT's photo
Sat 10/23/10 03:47 PM


if he took you took a mexican restaurant he is a good man,means he doesn't care if you fart in front of him
omg! lmao! sorry op!rofl rofl rofl rofl
oh you couldn't wait till i edited my post i just realized i typed took took twice....lol

kc0003's photo
Sat 10/23/10 03:54 PM

thanks venus.... i will take it slow.. just seems like theres a huge hole there that needs to be filled somehow




very slow would be wise.

you are the only one who can fill this "huge hole" by healing not by replacing one person for the next.


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Sat 10/23/10 04:04 PM
cripes u guys dont want anyone to have any fun just cuz u arent

she a date foe crying out loud- not a wedding shower

i think it's great that she keeps company

kc0003's photo
Sat 10/23/10 04:10 PM

cripes u guys dont want anyone to have any fun just cuz u arent

she a date foe crying out loud- not a wedding shower

i think it's great that she keeps company



company is fine...but as she has expressed, she doesn't trust all "guys"

i'm just suggesting that she works on herself before she gets involved in a serious relationship.

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Sat 10/23/10 04:13 PM


cripes u guys dont want anyone to have any fun just cuz u arent

she a date foe crying out loud- not a wedding shower

i think it's great that she keeps company



company is fine...but as she has expressed, she doesn't trust all "guys"

i'm just suggesting that she works on herself before she gets involved in a serious relationship.


no one should trust "all guys"

and she prolly never will - she is the only one who knows when it's time for a new relationship.

I do agree that just dating for awhile is a good idea. I waited ti date even for about a year after my divorce, but thinking back on it, I wish I hadn't waited quite so long

kc0003's photo
Sat 10/23/10 04:17 PM



cripes u guys dont want anyone to have any fun just cuz u arent

she a date foe crying out loud- not a wedding shower

i think it's great that she keeps company



company is fine...but as she has expressed, she doesn't trust all "guys"

i'm just suggesting that she works on herself before she gets involved in a serious relationship.


no one should trust "all guys"

and she prolly never will - she is the only one who knows when it's time for a new relationship.

I do agree that just dating for awhile is a good idea. I waited ti date even for about a year after my divorce, but thinking back on it, I wish I hadn't waited quite so long


you're right, only she knows, but we do see it all too often here.
people jumping from one disaster to another and never taking the time they need for themselves.

Drifters13's photo
Sat 10/23/10 06:57 PM

well i had my first date since me and my fiancee ended things....
dinner (mexican) and a movie (social network)...
it was good... feels kinda weird because its not Jerry but i guess it takes some getting used to for a while.
Not too sure how fast i want this whole dating thing to move right now. i know im young but when your hurt, age knows no difference


It will take time.

I've been on a few dates since my ex left me, and it still dosen't feel right to me.

And we split 5 years ago on oct.31st.

Point is, it will take time, sometimes you never do get over it. It all depends on your background, what you've been through and your personality.

Best to ya.

RKISIT's photo
Sat 10/23/10 06:58 PM

well i had my first date since me and my fiancee ended things....
dinner (mexican) and a movie (social network)...
it was good... feels kinda weird because its not Jerry but i guess it takes some getting used to for a while.
Not too sure how fast i want this whole dating thing to move right now. i know im young but when your hurt, age knows no difference
you have a pair that would beat a royal flushlove

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