Topic: i left him
southern_bee's photo
Mon 10/25/10 06:08 PM
i did it!i told him i wanted to break up with him..and im hoping he doesnt call!


ujGearhead's photo
Mon 10/25/10 06:29 PM
Good. I think?

Suzanne20's photo
Mon 10/25/10 06:34 PM
Good, that's the first step. If he does call...DON'T ANSWER.flowerforyou

AndyBgood's photo
Mon 10/25/10 06:40 PM
Or do answer by telling him whatever it was the answer is no and to go away!

Then tell him to get a life because you have one that does not include him!

End it with,"you burned the bridge you crossed behind you and you can't cross it back the way you came so keep moving the other direction!"

You could also have a big gay friend answer the phone and invite him over for a discussion about what 'no' means. Let's see how he fares when he has someone not take no for an answer from him...

Shoe on other foot?

Suzanne20's photo
Mon 10/25/10 06:44 PM

Or do answer by telling him whatever it was the answer is no and to go away!

Then tell him to get a life because you have one that does not include him!

End it with,"you burned the bridge you crossed behind you and you can't cross it back the way you came so keep moving the other direction!"

You could also have a big gay friend answer the phone and invite him over for a discussion about what 'no' means. Let's see how he fares when he has someone not take no for an answer from him...

Shoe on other foot?


I've done that more than oncelaugh laugh

ujGearhead's photo
Mon 10/25/10 07:05 PM

Or do answer by telling him whatever it was the answer is no and to go away!

Then tell him to get a life because you have one that does not include him!

End it with,"you burned the bridge you crossed behind you and you can't cross it back the way you came so keep moving the other direction!"

You could also have a big gay friend answer the phone and invite him over for a discussion about what 'no' means. Let's see how he fares when he has someone not take no for an answer from him...

Shoe on other foot?


I'm not sure about the big, gay friend part. How can you tell how big somebody is on the phone? However, having a guy answer could be one way.

eklectek's photo
Mon 10/25/10 07:08 PM

i did it!i told him i wanted to break up with him..and im hoping he doesnt call!


um....ok

no photo
Mon 10/25/10 07:23 PM

i did it!i told him i wanted to break up with him..and im hoping he doesnt call!




how do feel about it all now?

fireflysgirl's photo
Mon 10/25/10 07:40 PM

End it with,"you burned the bridge you crossed behind you and you can't cross it back the way you came so keep moving the other direction!"


I so needed that one a month or so ago!!
Good advice!

I thought it was really gonna be hard to get use to being alone, but I actually enjoy the peace and quiet to appreciate living on such a lovely piece of land along the river with a crap ton of critters (domestic & wildlife)!!! Who effin' needs man drama? No offense guys!

no photo
Wed 10/27/10 02:10 AM
Good for you?!
If its over, its over-- Onto bigger and better things and men, Or better and bigger things and men. OR MY FAVORITE (hehehe) Onto bigger and better mens things. LOL laugh