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Topic: Am I attractive enough?
Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 01/31/11 01:36 PM

Im just mainly tired of all the time iv waisted on females, all the time iv givin to them and iv havent gotten a single thing in return. Just want someone who is guna be real with me for once., you know what im tryn to say?


ALL the time!?!?!

OMG...your 18

laugh

msharmony's photo
Mon 01/31/11 01:41 PM


Im just mainly tired of all the time iv waisted on females, all the time iv givin to them and iv havent gotten a single thing in return. Just want someone who is guna be real with me for once., you know what im tryn to say?


Why do you think they're not being real? You have to remember that everyone has different preferences. And for the most part, there has to be some attraction there for anything to start.


u r such a doll, bottom line is not everyone we are attracted to will be attracted to us,,,and we move on,,,,,


I think people usually have tastes in line with other tastes, meaning those who wear 'prep' clothes probably aspire to 'preppy' type goals and have 'preppy' type hobbies

likewise, when people wear 'hip hop' type clothing, it probably sends a message that they have a strong identity in 'hip hop' type hobbies and goals as well

not everyone is attracted to prep and likewise not everyone is attracted to hip hop, but its no indicator of anything more significant than compatibility and who would want someone they arent compatible with anyway?

kissablekiss's photo
Mon 01/31/11 02:10 PM
damn i got the same problem man
...............but i really don't care what people think about me
neither should you.....

cuzdog's photo
Mon 01/31/11 02:21 PM
See I might be 18 but age aint nothing but a number. Numbers go up and down either way. An what im tryn to say is that people should just accept people the way they are, instead of judging them. Im not a judgementle person, I dont see why everyone else has to. But I guess its just life.

Totage's photo
Mon 01/31/11 02:22 PM
I don't judge people but I do judge actions.

cuzdog's photo
Mon 01/31/11 02:24 PM
Well yeah actions tell alot about that person, but the fact is that they should know how to act like an adult instead of a middle school kid.

Totage's photo
Mon 01/31/11 02:47 PM
Middle school kid? That's way too much maturity for some people.

cuzdog's photo
Mon 01/31/11 02:50 PM
You right on that one. People just gotta realize this is life and not play land.

Totage's photo
Mon 01/31/11 03:02 PM
I think some lack the capcity to grow up and some are just too afraid to.

cuzdog's photo
Mon 01/31/11 08:12 PM
But either way they gotta grow up. Life is going to get harder and harder if they dont.

no photo
Wed 02/02/11 03:42 AM

See I might be 18 but age aint nothing but a number. Numbers go up and down either way. An what im tryn to say is that people should just accept people the way they are, instead of judging them. Im not a judgementle person, I dont see why everyone else has to. But I guess its just life.


You aren't accepting others for the way they are, though. You want everyone to like you and aren't seeing that everyone has different preferences.

Gwendolyn2009's photo
Wed 02/02/11 12:08 PM

Im tired of being told that I cant be with someone because of what im wearing or what I look like! I thought it was it doesnt matter what you are on the outside but on the inside.!


Welcome to the real world! For the rest of your life, you will be judged on what you look like and what you wear. People give lip service to the whole "inside" being important--and some do buy into it--but overall, we are a society based on looks.

If you venture further out into the world, you will also be judged on how you talk, your education, and how much money you make.

Life is fair--the cake is not always cut into equal pieces.

By the way, I might be able to accept someone for the way that he/she is, but that doesn't mean that I want that person for a friend or lover. I don't like beards, for example, and if a man with a beard said, "This is me, take it or leave it," I would walk away.

I expect others to do the same if they don't like something integral about me.

1488mason's photo
Wed 02/02/11 01:25 PM
I GET MORE HANDSOME EVERYDAY

no photo
Wed 02/02/11 01:30 PM
IM to OLDnoway

Totage's photo
Wed 02/02/11 02:40 PM

IM to OLDnoway


noway You're not old

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