Topic: tired of all the games and lies
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Mon 02/28/11 08:02 AM
wuts wrong wit ppl these days they say they want love but then they won't let love luv them they say they want sum1 who will treat them right but then they act a fool all the lies and heartache is it really worth it?

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Mon 02/28/11 08:10 AM
That is when you learn to walk away from the ones that lie and play the games and associate with those that are real and know what they want. Does not always mean that you will find that special love within that group but sooner or later you will come across someone that is real and sees things the same way you do......

Sometimes it all comes down to who we associate ourselves with........whoa

Life is always worth it but it is something that we must work at as well it is not just handed to you on a silver platter.......noway

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Mon 02/28/11 08:15 AM

That is when you learn to walk away from the ones that lie and play the games and associate with those that are real and know what they want. Does not always mean that you will find that special love within that group but sooner or later you will come across someone that is real and sees things the same way you do......

Sometimes it all comes down to who we associate ourselves with........whoa

Life is always worth it but it is something that we must work at as well it is not just handed to you on a silver platter.......noway


nice, can i hang around with you flowerforyou

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Mon 02/28/11 08:16 AM


That is when you learn to walk away from the ones that lie and play the games and associate with those that are real and know what they want. Does not always mean that you will find that special love within that group but sooner or later you will come across someone that is real and sees things the same way you do......

Sometimes it all comes down to who we associate ourselves with........whoa

Life is always worth it but it is something that we must work at as well it is not just handed to you on a silver platter.......noway


nice, can i hang around with you flowerforyou


ese ya welcomed around here anytime.......bigsmile

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Mon 02/28/11 08:16 AM
:heart: I'd say SLOW-DOWN then,,and search deeper,,and look for MORE,,before you OPEN your hearts door..
Just a thought as I know, love IS something worth LIVING FOR.
Good Luck with all you seek to find..:wink: drinker :banana:

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Mon 02/28/11 08:22 AM
Edited by artlo on Mon 02/28/11 08:23 AM
Fact of life is that a lot of people lie. For the most part, they don't want to hurt other people, but everybody wants to get something for themself, and they're often not even honest with themselves. That's why you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find a Prince (you don't really want to get intimate with a frog. They aren't very cuddly).

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Mon 02/28/11 08:37 AM
Here ,

watch this you tube video , it might make you feel better ...


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lyL-c3xe1_E


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Mon 02/28/11 08:42 AM

... is it really worth it?

Everything has a price.
You determine what you are willing to pay.

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Mon 02/28/11 09:39 AM


...i learned a long time ago that if i couldn't trust my parents...then the rest of the world didn't stand much of a chance..smokin

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Mon 02/28/11 05:20 PM

wuts wrong wit ppl these days they say they want love but then they won't let love luv them they say they want sum1 who will treat them right but then they act a fool all the lies and heartache is it really worth it?


it's a matter often of their interested- the more interested the man is in u - the more likely he is to straighten up & fly right

but too often women misinterpret that for weakness - BIG mistake

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Tue 03/01/11 02:51 AM

wuts wrong wit ppl these days they say they want love but then they won't let love luv them they say they want sum1 who will treat them right but then they act a fool all the lies and heartache is it really worth it?


People really want love...perhaps it is another lover they want it from.
They want someone who will treat them right, maybe their perspective of being treated right is different from yours.
They do not act foolish, just want to fool a little with somebody who grabs a little foolishness...:wink: happy laugh

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Tue 03/01/11 03:27 AM
I've come to find there are a couple of problems, in today's society everthing is here and now no waiting. If you want dinner you can have it at your carside in less than 3 minutes. If you want that high priced item don't worry about saving just pull out that credit card. I think this same type of thought process is going in to relationships. People find someone they "lust" not "love" as soon as they hit a rough patch they are out the door because they need that feeling of self gratification. Instead of working through the issues and building apon a stronger relationship. I am not saying that everything is able to be worked out. Divorce rate is ridicously high and I can't name a couple who I know that has spent more than 15 years together.

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Tue 03/01/11 09:52 PM

wuts wrong wit ppl these days they say they want love but then they won't let love luv them they say they want sum1 who will treat them right but then they act a fool all the lies and heartache is it really worth it?


Worth it or not...its the only game in town.

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Tue 03/01/11 11:14 PM
I've come to find there are a couple of problems, in today's society everthing is here and now no waiting. If you want dinner you can have it at your carside in less than 3 minutes. If you want that high priced item don't worry about saving just pull out that credit card. I think this same type of thought process is going in to relationships. People find someone they "lust" not "love" as soon as they hit a rough patch they are out the door because they need that feeling of self gratification. Instead of working through the issues and building apon a stronger relationship. I am not saying that everything is able to be worked out. Divorce rate is ridicously high and I can't name a couple who I know that has spent more than 15 years together.
Boy, I can't agree with you more. Impatience is one of the most self-destructive thing about young people.

The divorce rate isn't as high as the 50% rate that we're used to hearing about, but It's way too high.