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Topic: Do men act differently towards blonds?
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Thu 03/03/11 03:44 PM

They do prefer Asian but I was told it is because "Oriental is FURNITURE.....PEOPLE ARE ASIAN!!!!" (This was told to me by the person whom the 58 yr old Chinese female co-worker, screamed at.)


lol.........Everyone has their own thing maybe blondes are just liked more. It's not that way in my case I'm more in to brunettes.

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Thu 03/03/11 03:54 PM
I am blonde blue eyes and 36dd and am treated like a dumb bimbo most of the time ...so yes i agree totally with your train of thought .
Most of the time I try to rise above it ...choose my battles wisely and all that jazz ...

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Thu 03/03/11 05:03 PM
oooo la la

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Thu 03/03/11 06:47 PM




I prefer red heads.


i prefer natural blonde oriental women


FYI Oriental is a racist term, they prefer 'asian'. I think the bleach blond asian has that 'sexy/slutty' look going for them.


They do prefer Asian but I was told it is because "Oriental is FURNITURE.....PEOPLE ARE ASIAN!!!!" (This was told to me by the person whom the 58 yr old Chinese female co-worker, screamed at.)


You are right, but I was told by my Chinese cooking teacher that it is offensive.

Also, have you ever asked a asian person from another eastern country if they are Chinese. DO NOT DO IT.

They go off like a Roman Candle, its like I called them 'Chink or Charlie'. One lady yelled at me "I no Chinese! I from Thailand"! Man she was madder than a wet hen.

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Thu 03/03/11 10:27 PM
Edited by red_lace on Thu 03/03/11 10:30 PM





I prefer red heads.


i prefer natural blonde oriental women


FYI Oriental is a racist term, they prefer 'asian'. I think the bleach blond asian has that 'sexy/slutty' look going for them.


They do prefer Asian but I was told it is because "Oriental is FURNITURE.....PEOPLE ARE ASIAN!!!!" (This was told to me by the person whom the 58 yr old Chinese female co-worker, screamed at.)


You are right, but I was told by my Chinese cooking teacher that it is offensive.

Also, have you ever asked a asian person from another eastern country if they are Chinese. DO NOT DO IT.

They go off like a Roman Candle, its like I called them 'Chink or Charlie'. One lady yelled at me "I no Chinese! I from Thailand"! Man she was madder than a wet hen.


laugh

Don't worry about it, sometimes even we can't tell. I guess some are just very sensitive about their origins.

"Asian is now strongly preferred in place of Oriental for persons native to Asia or descended from an Asian people. The usual objection to Oriental, meaning "eastern", is that it identifies Asian countries and peoples in terms of their location relative to Europe.

However, this objection is not generally made of other Eurocentric terms such as Near and Middle Eastern. The real problem with Oriental is more likely its connotations stemming from an earlier era when Europeans viewed the regions east of the Mediterranean as exotic lands full of romance and intrigue, the home of despotic empires and inscrutable customs.

At the least these associations can give Oriental a dated feel, and as a noun in contemporary contexts (as in the first Oriental to be elected from the district) it is now widely taken to be offensive. However, Oriental should not be thought of as an ethnic slur to be avoided in all situations. As with Asiatic, its use other than as an ethnonym, in phrases such as Oriental cuisine or Oriental medicine, is not usually considered objectionable."

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Thu 03/03/11 10:58 PM
I'm not sure that this throws much light on the subject.

The political correctness of the term ?Oriental? depends on where you
are from and to whom you are speaking. Here in North America it is
considered to be offensive. In Europe and in parts of Asia it is
acceptable and in common usage.

One reason for its perceived offensiveness has to do with the meaning
of the root word, Orient. This term is derived from the Latin word
oriens, referring to where the sun rises in the east. Since oriental
is used to describe places (and people) that are to the East only in
relation to Europe, the term is considered by some to be Eurocentric.

But more likely, the real issue is its connotations stemming from the
times when Europeans viewed the Orient as ?exotic lands full of
romance and intrigue, the home of despotic empires and inscrutable
customs. At the least these associations can give Oriental a dated
feel, and as a noun in contemporary contexts ? it is now widely taken
to be offensive.?

http://answers.google.com/answers/threadview/id/545754.html

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Fri 03/04/11 01:27 PM


A natural blond or red head is super hot .. (and usually unavailable)


Bleach blonds are a dime a dozen ..... ((( BORING )))


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Fri 03/04/11 01:29 PM


I bleached my hair blond once long time ago. I kept it blond for two weeks. I had been brunette all my life.

WOW you would not believe the difference. I was approached by so many men wanting to get laid!

In the reverse, my sister who was a blond, dyed her hair brown. She said she couldn't stand it because she felt "invisible." Men just passed her by.

Men in general, in a dating environment, think blonds are easy. That is the conclusion.

Now for the men: What are your impressions and reactions towards a blond as compared to a brunette? Be honest.


You have to explain things differently to a blond. It takes a while for them to get what your saying or understand. laugh

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Fri 03/04/11 01:35 PM
Edited by 2KidsMom on Fri 03/04/11 01:39 PM
Bleach blonds are a dime a dozen ..... ((( BORING )))

ohwell grumble

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Fri 03/04/11 01:36 PM



I bleached my hair blond once long time ago. I kept it blond for two weeks. I had been brunette all my life.

WOW you would not believe the difference. I was approached by so many men wanting to get laid!

In the reverse, my sister who was a blond, dyed her hair brown. She said she couldn't stand it because she felt "invisible." Men just passed her by.

Men in general, in a dating environment, think blonds are easy. That is the conclusion.

Now for the men: What are your impressions and reactions towards a blond as compared to a brunette? Be honest.


You have to explain things differently to a blond. It takes a while for them to get what your saying or understand. laugh



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Fri 03/04/11 01:47 PM
*going to get a match*

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Fri 03/04/11 01:48 PM




I bleached my hair blond once long time ago. I kept it blond for two weeks. I had been brunette all my life.

WOW you would not believe the difference. I was approached by so many men wanting to get laid!

In the reverse, my sister who was a blond, dyed her hair brown. She said she couldn't stand it because she felt "invisible." Men just passed her by.

Men in general, in a dating environment, think blonds are easy. That is the conclusion.

Now for the men: What are your impressions and reactions towards a blond as compared to a brunette? Be honest.


You have to explain things differently to a blond. It takes a while for them to get what your saying or understand. laugh



grumble


It's true! laugh Just agree with Daddy............

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Fri 03/04/11 05:24 PM






Well i am a natural blonde, and i would like to stronly disagree with you about this.:angry:

:angry: :angry: but for gosh sakes i can't:angry: :angry:

Yep i do miss some things and need them explianed in normal terms,or i tend to get them mixed, same as i tend to confuse people when i try and explain things



















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Fri 03/04/11 05:31 PM



I bleached my hair blond once long time ago. I kept it blond for two weeks. I had been brunette all my life.

WOW you would not believe the difference. I was approached by so many men wanting to get laid!

In the reverse, my sister who was a blond, dyed her hair brown. She said she couldn't stand it because she felt "invisible." Men just passed her by.

Men in general, in a dating environment, think blonds are easy. That is the conclusion.

Now for the men: What are your impressions and reactions towards a blond as compared to a brunette? Be honest.


You have to explain things differently to a blond. It takes a while for them to get what your saying or understand. laugh


Then I should bleach my hair so maybe I would understand what men are trying to say. Maybe they would keep it simple. laugh laugh

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