Topic: Rock the boat
Goofball73's photo
Sun 03/13/11 07:08 PM
I pee in the boat

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Sun 03/13/11 07:12 PM
non-rocker ohwell

metalwing's photo
Sun 03/13/11 07:13 PM
I sink the boat!ohwell

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 03/13/11 07:16 PM
I figured Goof was the type to drill holes in the boat lol

Goofball73's photo
Sun 03/13/11 07:26 PM

I figured Goof was the type to drill holes in the boat lol


Hahahaha......"Drill".....laugh laugh

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 03/13/11 07:27 PM


I figured Goof was the type to drill holes in the boat lol


Hahahaha......"Drill".....laugh laugh


there is a dirty joke in all of this...but I will bite my tongue laugh

DaveyB's photo
Sun 03/13/11 07:43 PM



I figured Goof was the type to drill holes in the boat lol


Hahahaha......"Drill".....laugh laugh


there is a dirty joke in all of this...but I will bite my tongue laugh


If you're going to bite your tongue make sure there's nothing between it and your teeth

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 03/13/11 07:46 PM
now ya told me Dave laugh

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Sun 03/13/11 07:49 PM
not a boat rocker unless I absolutely have no choice

and when I have to because there is no other choice, I get grouchy because I do not like to have to rock the boat

so no, I am more the type who will move on rather than stir up controversy, more often than not

I will take off with another man instead of staying to argue with you (just an FYI for any brave takers out there)laugh

DaveyB's photo
Sun 03/13/11 08:08 PM

now ya told me Dave laugh


Long as it wasn't me, and I think you'd have heard me as far away as Texas if it were laugh

Sneaksintoyourheart's photo
Sun 03/13/11 08:09 PM
well if there gonna be holes on that boat then im staying on land an laughing at u all lol :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

Cheer_up's photo
Sun 03/13/11 08:11 PM

I guess I should have said in my description....I don't rock the boat for the heck of it. I don't like drama myself, but I won't back down from something I see is wrong.

This post comes from my personal life. Most of you know that I live with my sister's family because my sister is disabled and I take care of her. Well her 21 y/o daughter is dating a butt head that does NO work outside of the house or in the house. He never cleans or anything. He has gone as far as telling my sister they should kick the 17 y/o son out of the house for not doing his chores. Hello McFly....he doesn't even pick up after himself either. I am always picking up cigarette butts from the yard (his). He told my son (who is working 2 part time jobs because full time work is hard to find here especially when you are only 20 y/o) and he doesn't have a job himself.

My sister doesn't say much to him about any of this and when she does it's in a "nice" way. I have gone off on him myself and called him a punk (that was a sight to see lol)

So he is still living here and not contributing financially or anything. I take care of my sister, clean houses to help financially (and I can be close to my sister if she needs me) and I do dishes for 6 people (not including any guests) by hand (dishwasher is broken) and I clean up the kitchen. I stopped cleaning the rest of the house since I stay in my room and I refuse to clean up after grown kids that are healthy and can pick up after themselves.

When I got into it with the bf....my sister and brother in law thought I was too harsh. I got onto him for tattling on my nephew when he had NO room to open his mouth.

whew....glad I got that out and that is ONLY the tip of the iceberg lol.
Sounds like a real soap opera show but i will say 1 thing ,i am very sorry to hear your sister is disabled and you are doing the best you can ,i know its hard i been there in some situations where you want to help out but you just can't do everything and then you get kind of frustrated , or hurt inside ,not because your doing wrong but cause others need to step up and help too, i mean come on you got to enjoy life too its not your job to do everything and i can see helping your sister that means you have a kind heart ,and let no 1 take that from you as for others take all the crap you find of theirs and their dishes and put it all in their room lolllllllll and say you want to eat you cook your own food and do your own dishes lolll or at least help , i not talking about your sister you keep helping her, my friend but don't let them get to you, be strong, i am proud of you looking after your sister and you deserve a pat on the back and BIG HUGSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSflowerforyou waving :thumbsup: PScurious if your sister is married does the brotherinlaw help out there too? maybe you should just do yours and your sisters stuff and see what happens lolll , but really i know sounds like your boat is rocking big time cheers

Cheer_up's photo
Sun 03/13/11 08:25 PM

I was having this discussion with a friend. My sister and I are different extremes from each other....as extreme as day and night.

She doesn't like to rock he boat even if she gets walked all over

I'm more of the type that I will rock the boat and even tip it over, if needed

What about you? where do you fall in this?
If i need to i can sink a ocean liner battle ship lolll but i look and use reverse psychology you get more with using different ways like say ok you said all them butts are in the yard right why don't someone just have a big can out there for cig butts, as for dishes all chip in and fix dishwasher, as for for that guy not paying nothing who owns the house really has the say even if you are right that he should help,but i think you need to all talk together and not yell cause unless you own the house ,or get your sister to sign a agreement you in charge it will be hard :):thumbsup:

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 03/13/11 08:36 PM
Thank you cheer. Yes her husband helps. Everything he does is for my sister.

I just stay out of it unless they bring me into it. It's another drama fest tonight. I just stay in my room and listen for my name to be used (behind my back....which is the bf M.O.)laugh

THAT is when boats will be tipping over all over the place. So everyone better grab your life jackets cause ya might feel some rocking laugh

DaveyB's photo
Sun 03/13/11 08:43 PM

Thank you cheer. Yes her husband helps. Everything he does is for my sister.

I just stay out of it unless they bring me into it. It's another drama fest tonight. I just stay in my room and listen for my name to be used (behind my back....which is the bf M.O.)laugh

THAT is when boats will be tipping over all over the place. So everyone better grab your life jackets cause ya might feel some rocking laugh


Sounds like it's time for a little kayaking practice

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 03/13/11 08:43 PM

If i need to i can sink a ocean liner battle ship lolll but i look and use reverse psychology you get more with using different ways like say ok you said all them butts are in the yard right
why don't someone just have a big can out there for cig butts,

There is a bucket that we use for an ash tray on the porch. he just doesn't want to use it because he knows Aunt Kim will get tired of the trash and butts and will pick them up before we get in trouble from the complex.


as for dishes all chip in and fix dishwasher, as for for that guy not paying nothing who owns the house really has the say even if you are right that he should help,

I really don't mind doing the dishes by hand....I actually enjoy it. My point was that I bust my butt over here and he does nothing but has the nerve to open his mouth to complain laugh


but i think you need to all talk together and not yell cause unless you own the house ,or get your sister to sign a agreement you in charge it will be hard :):thumbsup:

Like I said...my sister and I are so opposite that it's not funny. Sometimes you can't just talk nice to this idiot and being rational with him doesn't work. He thinks then that he has conned you. Sometimes you just have to put him in his place.

I try to let my sister and her hubby handle things but when it effects me...I will speak up. I've tried talking to my sister, but she just wants to hold hands and sing Kumbaya and sometimes that doesn't work lol.

He is a lot like that character on Leave It To Beaver....Eddie Haskell.

The rest of my family can't stand the guy and they don't want to have parties or get togethers because he will be there.

My grandparents and parents live within 5 minutes of me...so we all get together a lot....until now and no one wants to do anything if he will be there.

Sad huh



yellowrose10's photo
Sun 03/13/11 08:47 PM
ok...everyone close your ears...I'm about to scream


DaveyB's photo
Sun 03/13/11 08:58 PM

ok...everyone close your ears...I'm about to scream




Didn't help, I could hear you here in Calif

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 03/13/11 09:08 PM
listen again Davey

Ahhhhh forget it....I'm pushing EVERYONE off the boat and going on a cruise alone lol

Holly4459's photo
Sun 03/13/11 09:09 PM
I hate making a fuss or causing
any kind of trouble.,, definately not a boat
rocker.