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Why do guys do this?
They pursue then make a date email back and forth to set a day, time and place....then they don't show-up....WTF Is it just me or are others perplexed by this phenomenon? |
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Does this mean guys are also becoming fickle minded these days?!
Anyway, you may wanna give them a "...next!" attitude, Lili_M  It's their loss not yours. |
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It's just so irritating. To go to the effort and they don't have the courtesy to keep the date that THEY made.
Oh I am so on to the NEXT but... I guess I am just looking for a reasonable explanation for why? |
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I'd say obnoxious people just do what they do without any reason at all. Your profile shows you as an interesting woman, I don't see any particular reason why a decent man would not keep a date with someone like you.
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Well thank you Rose.
But really I don't think it's me....  But I just don't know what it could be. 
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maybe his wife didn't let him use the car
maybe his mom asked him where he thought he was going maybe he made the date knowing full well he was broke maybe he got arrested maybe he had a flat, no spare, locked the keys in his car and his cell died in any case, guys like him ruin things for guys who really would like to take you out |
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maybe his wife didn't let him use the car maybe his mom asked him where he thought he was going maybe he made the date knowing full well he was broke maybe he got arrested maybe he had a flat, no spare, locked the keys in his car and his cell died in any case, guys like him ruin things for guys who really would like to take you out All valid excuses...  But don't worry I won't hold it against ALL MEN  |
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maybe his wife didn't let him use the car maybe his mom asked him where he thought he was going maybe he made the date knowing full well he was broke maybe he got arrested maybe he had a flat, no spare, locked the keys in his car and his cell died in any case, guys like him ruin things for guys who really would like to take you out All valid excuses... But don't worry I won't hold it against ALL MEN nice. so where do you work 
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Because at the really big "guy" meeting that we all have before one us goes out on a date, we told him that he shouldn't go because he had the reputation to keep. I mean...if he would have shown up, then us guys wouldn't be known as no-shows would we.
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All valid excuses... But don't worry I won't hold it against ALL MEN nice. so where do you work Why do you want to know where I work? Gonna send me flowers to cheer me up? 
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Bummer I'm glad i didnt read this before I flew to america, I can just imagine if i had got there and he didnt show up at the airport.
hmmm I didnt even consider that possability. I have no idea why anyone would do that, it stinks.. |
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I had that happen once to me...I was dating a guy and he didn't show up one day.
I thought gee I wonder what excuse its gonna be for standind me up...two days later he showed up at my door..he sliced his whole forearm open at work the day we were suppose to go out...oops lol |
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All valid excuses... But don't worry I won't hold it against ALL MEN nice. so where do you work Why do you want to know where I work? Gonna send me flowers to cheer me up? flowers? ah yeah, that's the ticket, flowers  (has nothing to do with a fantasy someone posted on another thread) |
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Why do guys do this? They pursue then make a date email back and forth to set a day, time and place....then they don't show-up....WTF Is it just me or are others perplexed by this phenomenon? Perhaps, after thinking about the meeting, he didn't want to meet you. Maybe he was trying to make a date with several women, and one he preferred more said yes, but only after he made the date with you... so he stood you up to be with her... maybe he's a wimp, and left to meet you but could not show up. Maybe he was lying to you about who he was and/or what he looked like and did not want to face the music... who knows, only he knows - but you are likely not going to get an answer from him. You are trying to get a logical answer to an emotional thing... forget about it and move along... nothing to see here... p.s. I am sure women do this too.... *sigh* $.02 
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It's just so irritating. To go to the effort and they don't have the courtesy to keep the date that THEY made. Oh I am so on to the NEXT but... I guess I am just looking for a reasonable explanation for why? Cuz he is a selfish jerk.....that's why. 
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it's not just guys that no-show... had a couple ladies flake out on me too...
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No shows....WTF Why do guys do this? I cannot even imagine this scenario. It would seem to me, that you need to build up a little more 'want' in your dates. So they would rather lose a testicle, than a date with you. |
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No shows....WTF Why do guys do this? I cannot even imagine this scenario. It would seem to me, that you need to build up a little more 'want' in your dates. So they would rather lose a testicle, than a date with you. I agree.
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Why do guys do this? They pursue then make a date email back and forth to set a day, time and place....then they don't show-up....WTF Is it just me or are others perplexed by this phenomenon?   
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Why do guys do this? They pursue then make a date email back and forth to set a day, time and place....then they don't show-up....WTF Is it just me or are others perplexed by this phenomenon? I don't think this is just an issue with men. Though, there's never an excuse for standing someone up. |
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