Or from anyone actually ... anyone who you have not yet seen in the forums.

Is there a way?

I've wondered this too. I don't think there is a way.

There's no official way, but you may be able to plug the person's user ID into this formula:
http://mingle2.com/forum/show_posts_by_user/x

x=the user's ID

In your case, Rfah, that number would be 2955720.

Of course!! ... how stupid of me .. thnx muchly!

Seems i cheered tooo soon ... how do i find a person's user ID??

Apologies in advance if this is a matter of 'domestic blindness'

OK .. found it! *blushing grin*

Is there a way to 'show topics by user'???

eg: something like: http://mingle2.com/forum/show_topics_by_user/x >> i know, i know .. this doesn't work!

There is not, no. you'll have to follow the advice given by Charles, above. Backspace and remove x, and enter the user id #

I wonder if someone can help with this...

Last night I must have spent a couple hours using the "Match" feature and this morning I tried to see who may have shown interest in me but the program is telling me I need to become a "premium member" and make a credit card payment in order to access this information...

Don't mean to complain but I thought this would be "free" (I guess not)...

My questions are:

Is there a work around to get this information...

Should I just go back and "message" the individuals I'm most interest in?

Did these people see that I was interested in them or do I have to pay via credit card to make that happen?

If the did see me without the credit card payment, do I just cross my fingers and wait for a response?

Please advise...

Thanks...

Hi Rudibuff,

Mutual Match is just a fun way to connect to people. It will match you with who said yes or maybe. This is how this program has always worked (even before the upgrade)

The upgrade added the feature for premium members to see who actually said yes.

Here is the link that explains how Mutual Match works:

http://mingle2.com/mutual_match/faq

Hope this helps,

Kim

The mutual match system is free to use. This page explains how mutual match works. http://mingle2.com/mutual_match/faq

That is the basic free version. Premium membership allows you to see exactly who has shown interest.

Okay...

So they still "see" that I have interest in them so I quess I'll just need to sit tight and wait for a response...

I appreciate your quick response...

Thanks

It only notifies someone if they "match" you. The next time the people you clicked yes for play MM, your picture should come up first. If they also click yes, both will be notified. To see "non matches" you have to be a paid member. Thats my understanding of it.

That's a pretty good summary, Scorpio_WJR, yeah. I'm not certain that an interested person's photo/profile always comes up first, though. You are correct in saying that you have to be a MinglePlus member in order to see those who have expressed interest in you (before you have rated them).