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Topic: Younger men, older women
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Mon 04/25/11 01:04 PM

If I decided to start dating, should I go for men my own age, older, or younger?

What are the pros and cons?

Would younger men be interested in an older woman in good physical shape?

What if she had lots of money? bigsmile

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Mon 04/25/11 01:12 PM
go for the one that wants to be with you. age, race, religion, physical color-shape-size, and intelligence level are all factors, but be open minded enough to get to know the person before you decide if any or all of those things are too much of a burden to make a relationship work. be polite enough to let the other person know why you are unable to work a relationship with them and try again. i guarantee i guarantee that there is someone out there that you can compromise some of your hang ups, still be happy, and make a lasting relationship work for you both. (bulldog double guarantee - patent pending)

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Mon 04/25/11 01:17 PM


If I decided to start dating, should I go for men my own age, older, or younger?

What are the pros and cons?

Would younger men be interested in an older woman in good physical shape?

What if she had lots of money? bigsmile


how would you if they want to be with you or the money? or does it matter?

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Mon 04/25/11 01:48 PM
Some men might be intimidated by a woman with lots of money.

I would probably not let him know I had lots of money.

If I did. :smile:

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Mon 04/25/11 01:51 PM


If I decided to start dating, should I go for men my own age, older, or younger?

What are the pros and cons?

Would younger men be interested in an older woman in good physical shape?

What if she had lots of money? bigsmile


I would say the first two questions can only be answered by you.

Third question, of course! lol

And as for the last one, it sure doesn't hurt if she does. lol

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Mon 04/25/11 02:49 PM
My understanding has been that younger women are generally attracted to younger men and vice versa.

Although I'm currently infatuated with a girl 3 years older them me, even though she looks younger, oddly enough.

Guess some cons would range from quarter life crisis, to mid life crisis stuff, less operational and maybe less active).

Can't think of much to compare as pros ... I guess younger people are less likely to break a hip? Older people are going to be more accomplished and theoretically more secure with themselves and achieved more with their lives. I think it's worth thinking about the type of stuff you'd like to do with your partner relative to finances.

I'm probably the wrong person to ask, but those are my thoughts.

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Mon 04/25/11 03:01 PM
Whose leg are you pulling? It doesn't matter. Just post an opening on any site...
you'll be flooded with more crap than you can shake a stick at.

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Mon 04/25/11 03:19 PM
If I was to date an older woman she would have to be in her grave.

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Mon 04/25/11 03:43 PM
well im a guy and i like alittle older woman myself cus there done playing games and they no what they want out of u and life , so u dont have to guess the hole time and find out she was just trying to be what u wanted her to be till u get married lol

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Mon 04/25/11 05:17 PM

If I was to date an older woman she would have to be in her grave.


You're not THAT old. laugh

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Mon 04/25/11 05:19 PM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Mon 04/25/11 05:35 PM

Whose leg are you pulling? It doesn't matter. Just post an opening on any site...
you'll be flooded with more crap than you can shake a stick at.


Have any good suggestions? I tried one and wrote to at least 10 men around my age and got no answer. I'm wondering if the sight works at all. I have yet to even get a nibble. mmmmm maybe I should rewrite my profile. huh laugh laugh

It was on another site.

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Mon 04/25/11 05:29 PM
Go for someone who you really like and who likes you regardless
of age.

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Mon 04/25/11 05:35 PM

Go for someone who you really like and who likes you regardless
of age.


Its hard to tell if I like them if they won't even respond to messages. How much can you learn from a brief profile? Not much.


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Mon 04/25/11 05:40 PM


Go for someone who you really like and who likes you regardless
of age.


Its hard to tell if I like them if they won't even respond to messages. How much can you learn from a brief profile? Not much.




if they don't respond to you then it's their loss...

NEXT!!!

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Mon 04/25/11 05:40 PM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Mon 04/25/11 06:00 PM


If I was to date an older woman she would have to be in her grave.


How much do you know about living off the Grid?

I'm getting interested in seed sprouting. I'm going to try it.

I would have sent you this in a message but you don't accept messages from anyone over the age of 60.

I bet I'm in better shape than you, old man. laugh laugh laugh

Well.... maybe not. huh :wink: laugh

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Mon 04/25/11 05:43 PM
I prefer younger, most men my age can't keep up, have big ole beer bellies and are not as active as I am.

I guess this is one of those preference things...

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Mon 04/25/11 06:02 PM

I prefer younger, most men my age can't keep up, have big ole beer bellies and are not as active as I am.

I guess this is one of those preference things...


I've noticed that too. There are some older men that are still in good shape but that's unusual.

laugh laugh laugh


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Mon 04/25/11 06:10 PM


I prefer younger, most men my age can't keep up, have big ole beer bellies and are not as active as I am.

I guess this is one of those preference things...


I've noticed that too. There are some older men that are still in good shape but that's unusual.

laugh laugh laugh




Yeah there are a few, but...they pretty much want the 30 year olds

go figure! laugh

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Mon 04/25/11 06:22 PM



I prefer younger, most men my age can't keep up, have big ole beer bellies and are not as active as I am.

I guess this is one of those preference things...


I've noticed that too. There are some older men that are still in good shape but that's unusual.

laugh laugh laugh




Yeah there are a few, but...they pretty much want the 30 year olds

go figure! laugh


Oh yes of course. laugh laugh

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Mon 04/25/11 07:26 PM
<---------------------loves younger men. :)

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