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Go out-Date-stay at home or.............
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Edited by
2KidsMom
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Tue 05/03/11 01:07 PM
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It is so hard..I wish,I had some easy advice..
only time heals.   *plot revenge*. 
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start over.....
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Get back on that horse and ride again.
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...remember the good times. Put the bad behind you....and move on.
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Get back on that horse and ride again. and stop comparing men to horses...it's a hard metaphor to live up to hehehe....JK...sorry twb
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Get back on that horse and ride again. and stop comparing men to horses...it's a hard metaphor to live up to hehehe....JK...sorry twb
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Try to forget the old feeling by making yourself busy and by pre-occupying your mind with happy thoughts.
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duct tape.
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A shovel and a backyard or a basement.
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Get back on that horse and ride again. and stop comparing men to horses...it's a hard metaphor to live up to hehehe....JK...sorry twb too bad ya'll aren't as easy to train...LOL...JK Just allow yourself to let go of the hurt and heal
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Play some Al Green
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Go out-Date-stay at home or............. IDK sometimes time helps but for me - sometimes not - haven't had many broken hearts so I remember them well I'm pretty unforgiving sometimes - sometimes not It depends on the circumstances and I can never rebound or move on quickly to someone else....like it's a new job...blech |
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When i finished my marriage what worked for me was:
Go do some turbo kick classes at your gym (just pretend you are punching your ex) Dance some Zumba or Hip hop (remember your are in this life for fun too) Go out with your girlfriends one a week drink a lot of wine a talk about how guys are stupid (that one is a must) Just try to get back in track slowly. Sometimes you will feel better and sometimes you will feel miserable. In time the better times will surpase the bad times. And after a while the bad times will be gone completely. |
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When i finished my marriage what worked for me was: Go do some turbo kick classes at your gym (just pretend you are punching your ex) Dance some Zumba or Hip hop (remember your are in this life for fun too) Go out with your girlfriends one a week drink a lot of wine a talk about how guys are stupid (that one is a must) Just try to get back in track slowly. Sometimes you will feel better and sometimes you will feel miserable. In time the better times will surpase the bad times. And after a while the bad times will be gone completely. but how or when do stop seeing all the harm, the wreckage that they (men) have made of your life and especially how do you stop seeing the remnants in every subsequent man u meet regardless of his innocence? < some days I am better at this than others... |
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Edited by
stefy
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Tue 05/03/11 04:50 PM
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When i finished my marriage what worked for me was: Go do some turbo kick classes at your gym (just pretend you are punching your ex) Dance some Zumba or Hip hop (remember your are in this life for fun too) Go out with your girlfriends one a week drink a lot of wine a talk about how guys are stupid (that one is a must) Just try to get back in track slowly. Sometimes you will feel better and sometimes you will feel miserable. In time the better times will surpase the bad times. And after a while the bad times will be gone completely. but how or when do stop seeing all the harm, the wreckage that they (men) have made of your life and especially how do you stop seeing the remnants in every subsequent man u meet regardless of his innocence? < some days I am better at this than others... Sweetest what think is you probably will never stop seeing it completely. What happens is when you see it you dont feel hurt anymore. You learn from it. Its not easy and not simple but its possible. I agree that is hard to start again and give love a chance but comes a time when you just cant not do it. It feels right! It becames a need instead of a want. You may brake your heart again but the need to do it makes you go for it. But thats me. Everyone has its pace! |
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When i finished my marriage what worked for me was: Go do some turbo kick classes at your gym (just pretend you are punching your ex) Dance some Zumba or Hip hop (remember your are in this life for fun too) Go out with your girlfriends one a week drink a lot of wine a talk about how guys are stupid (that one is a must) Just try to get back in track slowly. Sometimes you will feel better and sometimes you will feel miserable. In time the better times will surpase the bad times. And after a while the bad times will be gone completely. but how or when do stop seeing all the harm, the wreckage that they (men) have made of your life and especially how do you stop seeing the remnants in every subsequent man u meet regardless of his innocence? < some days I am better at this than others... Sweetest what think is you probably will never stop seeing it completely. What happens is when you see it you dont feel hurt anymore. You learn from it. Its not easy and not simple but its possible. I agree that is hard to start again and give love a chance but comes a time when you just cant not do it. It feels right! It becames a need instead of a want. You may brake your heart again but the need to do it makes you go for it. But thats me. Everyone has its pace! thank you yes I have a few false starts - a real start? now that will take some guts but I'm up to it when the time is right thank you for ur answer stefy |
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I hang out with friends
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duct tape. that's good...or WD40 <start over>  Dict8
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