Topic: hurry up and just pick someone
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Wed 05/18/11 06:01 PM
You left out the best part about the women coming out of the woodworks and throwing their panties at you.rofl rofl

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Wed 05/18/11 06:11 PM
Haha honestly!

I told my best friend the very same thing.

I told him to get a bird and soon, because basically I'm fed up with him. All he does is play on Final Fantasy 7 every single day! Yes, everyday for 14 years!

I just want him to move forward with his life. I love him, that's why I do it. He won't move unless I tell him.

He will be a brilliant dad! :D

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Wed 05/18/11 06:17 PM




That's funny. But what you are hearing from your friend is his own personal attitude. That is how HE feels and thinks. You don't have to take it personal. I have seen other men who think like that too. They think that they better pick one now before that middle age gut kicks in and they don't have as much going for them.


Since I'm a nice guy (really I am) I won't tell my friend what I think of him right into his face and as I said, I treat it as his own business, but I think you are correct. He is of course telling me right into my face all the time what he thinks of me, but that's him, not me. I am not like him.

He is 6 years older than me, had a divorce and now having another wife with one kid. He is 41 and suddenly he has developed this new attitude.
Just because he would never get on mingle2 anyway, plus he isn't my "best" friend anyway, I will state my opinion, that somehow he thinks he can walk in my shoes somehow and re-live his 30s or something. Plus he got a new bad attitude that even others noticed lately. If you ask me, I'm not sure if he is really happy, but again, that's just my own opinion and I don't know his personal affairs, because that's not my business. I also noticed he is jealous. Somehow jealous that I'm not 40 yet neither married or similar.




sounds like he wants you walking in his shoes by suggesting you settle down soon!

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Wed 05/18/11 06:29 PM
Edited by Atlantis75 on Wed 05/18/11 06:32 PM

You left out the best part about the women coming out of the woodworks and throwing their panties at you.rofl rofl


:tongue:

First time someone caught me editing the quotes of others (watch out! I do this often!) , but yes, I cut out the panties throwing women.
There are reasons, and it has to do with my answer, so I'm not replying a confirmation for women who throw their underwear on me.

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Wed 05/18/11 06:36 PM


You left out the best part about the women coming out of the woodworks and throwing their panties at you.rofl rofl


:tongue:

First time someone caught me editing the quotes of others (watch out! I do this often!) , but yes, I cut out the panties throwing women.
There are reasons, and it has to do with my answer, so I'm not replying a confirmation for women who throw their underwear on me.


You are so cute.flowerforyou

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Wed 05/18/11 09:07 PM
My famous quote - "Never should on anybody"

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Wed 05/18/11 09:16 PM
One potato ... two potato ... three potato ... four

five potato ... six potato ... seven potato ... more




hmmm .... somehow I think this is not a good way to 'pick' someone ...

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Wed 05/18/11 09:28 PM
Edited by Atlantis75 on Wed 05/18/11 09:29 PM
I had to change my picture, just look kinda depressed on the other, plus I have shaven ever since. This new one I just made with my phone literally 2min. ago.
I hate seeing the same pic of me too long.

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Wed 05/18/11 11:30 PM
Edited by 74Drew on Wed 05/18/11 11:31 PM



What you have is an incentive to stay healthy, get wealthy, stay in shape and focus on YOU. When you do that, women will come out of the wood works and throw their panties at you.

Trust me on this.




so what i get from this, and maybe it's because tonight my roommate pointed out to me what a miserable p.o.s. i am, is that if you're not healthy, wealthy, and in shape women will hide from you.

good to know that i have nothing going for me.
and people wonder why i'm a miserable p.o.s.


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Wed 05/18/11 11:38 PM
Hmmmm just smile and say thanks, I really appreciate you trying to help me.
But i want to be sure, idon't want to make a mistake you did.
Then smile and walk away...

Easytongue2

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Wed 05/18/11 11:38 PM




What you have is an incentive to stay healthy, get wealthy, stay in shape and focus on YOU. When you do that, women will come out of the wood works and throw their panties at you.

Trust me on this.




so what i get from this, and maybe it's because tonight my roommate pointed out to me what a miserable p.o.s. i am, is that if you're not healthy, wealthy, and in shape women will hide from you.

good to know that i have nothing going for me.
and people wonder why i'm a miserable p.o.s.


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Pretty much! If you are a whiny do-nothing broke a$$ miserable and lazy couch potato with no self esteem who drinks bear and eats pizza every night with his hands in his pants.... yep.

Women aren't attracted to that.


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Wed 05/18/11 11:42 PM





What you have is an incentive to stay healthy, get wealthy, stay in shape and focus on YOU. When you do that, women will come out of the wood works and throw their panties at you.

Trust me on this.




so what i get from this, and maybe it's because tonight my roommate pointed out to me what a miserable p.o.s. i am, is that if you're not healthy, wealthy, and in shape women will hide from you.

good to know that i have nothing going for me.
and people wonder why i'm a miserable p.o.s.


. . .



Pretty much! If you are a whiny do-nothing broke a$$ miserable and lazy couch potato with no self esteem who drinks bear and eats pizza every night with his hands in his pants.... yep.

Women aren't attracted to that.



have you been spying on me? where did you hide that camera?
where's a man supposed to put his hands when they get cold?
can't be too broke if drinking beer and eating pizza every night, that shiz expensive.


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Wed 05/18/11 11:43 PM
rofl rofl rofl rofl

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Thu 05/19/11 06:33 AM
Atlantis...I did not mean to offend you...flowers

You are very handsome,clean shaved too!:banana: flowers

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Thu 05/19/11 06:44 AM

One potato ... two potato ... three potato ... four

five potato ... six potato ... seven potato ... more




hmmm .... somehow I think this is not a good way to 'pick' someone ...


unless it's a partner for double dutchlaugh

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Thu 05/19/11 06:45 AM

I had to change my picture, just look kinda depressed on the other, plus I have shaven ever since. This new one I just made with my phone literally 2min. ago.
I hate seeing the same pic of me too long.


very nice new picture

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Thu 05/19/11 07:01 AM
Well im new here and seems like a little late but ive been single for close to 3 yrs its not that im unattractive or any of that i go to school i work i enjoy working out but i haven't met someone to wow me and i feel as if you dont meet someone to give you that wow effect and you feel as if you should hold off then do so cause i wouldn't want to spend the time with someone who doesn't make me happy.

Just my 2 Cents :tongue:

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Thu 05/19/11 07:13 AM
maybe your friends have a pool going? :)~ all the advice in the world only matters as much as you allow it.

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Thu 05/19/11 08:00 AM

Some people believe you're "supposed" to be with someone, some people believe in predestined "soulmates," whatever....

I don't believe in any of it. If I ever find anyone who's better for me than being alone, I'll probably die of shock.

Don't let anybody push you into anything....






^^This.

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Thu 05/19/11 08:20 AM
Would ya all just pick one already? whoa laugh